Language is a communication between people's emotions and hearts through communication, while "body language" is through body movements, so that we can more intuitively see what kind of state a person is in for their emotions.
A person will lie in order to cover up certain truths, so that the person who hears it will not be able to discern the false elements in it for a short period of time.
However, no matter how clever a person is, how to talk about a virtual phenomenon, his body movements will still subconsciously choose to reveal the truth.
That's because a person's behavior is the truest reaction of his subconscious, just like a person who has been bitten by a snake for ten years and is afraid of the well rope, no matter how much he brags about his boldness, the sky is not afraid, once he sees a snake-like object, his reaction can still let us see a most intuitive fear.
Therefore, in a relationship between the sexes, whether a person is true or false, his body movements will tell us the answer, and who cares most about you, "body language" will not lie.
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In the TV series "Let's See the Meteor Shower", Murong Yunhai and Chu Yuxing are a pair of joyful enemies, and as long as the two people meet each other, they will fight with each other, and they have to fight for a red face, high and low to win or lose.
Murong Yunhai didn't know what was wrong with him, he was obviously very calm with other girls, but all the calmness would become dissipated when Chu Yuxing was there, in fact, he who had never experienced love did not know that he had fallen in love with Chu Yuxing.
Once, two people saw a group of on the street bullying small vendors, the road was uneven, and the two people who drew their knives to help each other immediately began to teach the.
At that time, Chu Yuxing was tangling with a bastard, and did not see that there were other behind him who were preparing to sneak attack, only to see the other party pick up the stick and was about to hit Chu Yuxing.
Between the electric light and the flint, Murong Yunhai hugged Chu Yuxing without even thinking about it, and then he carried the pain of the stick hitting his back.
When we really care about a person, we can't help but put the other person on our own hearts.
The other party will be very distressed if he is hurt a little, and he would rather let himself bear the pain and ensure the safety of the other party.
The so-called true love is more or less like this, without any sensationalism or fanfare.
It is to hide that feeling in one's own heart and express it through meticulous action.
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Anthropologist Hall believes that each of us has our own personal space, and according to the distance between us and others, this personal space can be divided into four types.
They are intimate distance (within 0.6 meters), personal distance (0.6-1.2 meters), social distancing (1.2-3.3 meters) and public distance (more than 3.3 meters).
The reason why people care is because some soft place in the heart, suddenly one day a person came to stop here.
From then on, all our words and deeds will follow the rhythm of each other, and I don't know why, as soon as we see each other, we can't help but want to go in the direction of each other.
In this regard, John Gray, author of "Men from Mars, Women from Venus", wrote a knowledge point in this book to explain such a phenomenon: "Love makes people produce four reactions, physical reactions, emotional reactions, psychological reactions and spiritual reactions. The body reacts to arousing desire.
Emotional responses produce affection; psychological reactions provoke interest; spiritual responses create love. A partner of similar interest to you must be able to trigger these four reactions. ”
Loving someone and caring about a person will have a physical reaction, which is a kind of attraction and resonance from the magnetic field, but also a communication between emotions.
Therefore, a person involuntarily approaching you is the most direct embodiment of caring about you.
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The writer Kaori Jiang Guo once said: "The mutual attraction between people is not because of personality and appearance, but because of air." It is the air that a person emits towards his surroundings, and I believe that there is such an animalistic thing. ”
What should it be like to love someone?
I think it's nothing more than this, like we're looking at the world and seeing that a lot of people in this world are black and white, and only one person is colored, and this person is the person we care about.
Loving someone is actually impossible to hide, even if the language is not up to the mark, even if the body movements are ashamed to express.
But the eyes can still see the feelings of one person to another person, the so-called emotional pulse, the so-called eyes to see the autumn waves, to say this truth.
The so-called emotional pulse, the so-called eye to see the autumn wave, said this is the truth.
How fortunate it is for us to meet someone who cares about us means that we can more easily meet happiness and security.
Therefore, if you are fortunate enough to meet such a person, please cherish it, manage this relationship well, and let it develop in a foreseeable and good direction.
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Author | Psychological counselor Fu Dongsheng
The main writer of love and marriage psychology | Use psychology to analyze love, marriage, and life
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