A family wants to prosper for generations, and it is difficult to survive without a good family style. Recently watching "Gao Panlong Family Training" made the author think deeply. Flipping over more celebrities ' "Family Training", it is even more a character and a pearl, which triggers the author's interest in reading the "Family Training", watching the "Analects" is actually more of a teacher's teaching, and the inspiration is not small, and I can't help but say a few words.
It is true that our generation is very diligent in teaching and educating people, including cultivating their own children, but most of them attach great importance to test-oriented education and lack moral education. Even our parents themselves have some spare time to cook TV series, play mobile phones and computers, and read the ancient teachings of the sages. Educating children focuses on children's academic test scores, and very few can guide and arrange children to read ancient precepts. We adults ourselves only attach importance to work, attach importance to earning money to support our families, and few people consciously read the ancient precepts of the sages. Therefore, there are many social and moral problems caused by education today, and there is also a phenomenon like CCTV host Bai Yansong said, "Our social development is too fast, and our souls have not kept up with the pace of our development", forming a certain moral generation, which is not a pity.
In fact, we should arrange children's moral education from an early age, and synchronously follow up on children's cultural education, so that children can "be childish and read-oriented." Diligence and thrift first, and also know etiquette. And its adults, the five constants are not wasted, out is square, and in the filial piety. "If this had been the case, the problem of the only child would not have bothered us long ago."
Today's education reform has begun to let China's traditional culture enter the classroom of students, so that children can accept to learn traditional culture from an early age, which is a great thing that "merit is in the contemporary era, and benefits are in the thousands of autumns".
When I recently read the appreciation, I saw Confucius's "Court Training" and Zhuge Liang's "Family Training", the sentences were incisive and touching, and I was ashamed of my thoughts, because there were too many contents, so they did not come from one end at a time. Today,33 are for interesting people to exchange and enjoy.
First: Confucius's "Court Training" does not learn poetry, there is no way to speak; without learning etiquette, there is no way to stand.
Meaning: One day Confucius was standing in the courtyard, and his son Kong Li bowed his head and "tended", and Confucius said: Stop, have you learned poetry? Kong Carp replied, No. Confucius said: How can you speak without learning poetry? Another day, Confucius stood in the courtyard again, and Kong Carp "approached the court", and Confucius said, "Stand still, have you learned the etiquette?" "Not yet." Why don't you learn etiquette" How to behave without learning etiquette?
Second: Zhuge Liang's "Book of Commandments" is quiet to cultivate oneself and frugality to cultivate morality. There is no clarity without tranquility, and there is no distance without tranquility.
It means: to improve one's self-cultivation with tranquility, and to cultivate one's own character with frugality. It is impossible to clarify the ambition without tranquility and widowhood, and it is impossible to achieve lofty goals without excluding external interference.
Third: Zhuge Liang's "Book of Commandments to Nephews" Fu Zhi should be high and far-reaching, Mu Xianxian, absolute lust, abandon condensation, so that the aspirations of Shu Ji, revealed, there is some feeling; endure bending and stretching, to break the fine, to consult widely, to get rid of stinginess.
This means that one should set up lofty ideals, pursue the sages, temper lusts, get rid of the common thoughts that are knotted in the chest, and make the noble aspirations that are almost close to the sages manifest clearly in you, so that your heart will vibrate and your heart will understand. It is necessary to be able to adapt to the tests of different situations such as smoothness and twists and turns, get rid of the entanglement of trivial affairs and feelings, ask people for advice extensively, and eradicate their own resentment.
Zhuge Liang was 46 years old before he had a son, Zhuge Zhan. He likes this son very much and hopes that his son will become a pillar of the country in the future. Zhuge Liang had a nephew named Pang Zhuo, who was deeply loved by Zhuge Liang. Zhuge Liang has been fighting for many years and is entangled in government affairs, but he still does not forget to teach his children. His two family letters to his son Zhuge Zhan and nephew Pang Zhuo are known as the Book of Commandments and the Book of Commandments.