Everything in the world is different,
Each is different from its class.
Hundreds of people and hundreds of temperaments, thousands of people and thousands of characteristics.
I've never had two people with exactly the same temperament, even twins, who have subtle differences in appearance and temperament.
Some people are not willing to bear the slightest grievance, as long as they are the ones who blame them, they will regard them as enemies regardless of whether what others say is right or wrong;
Some people are taking other people's rebukes and warnings as a child's play, turning a blind eye to the dangers that lie ahead;
Some people, after hearing the rebukes and warnings of others, hesitate, do not know how they should choose, do not know whether to obey, or refuse;
Some people, after hearing other people's accusations and warnings, will carefully observe the surroundings to see if things are really as others say and then make choices - if so, obey, if not, refuse.
The theme I want to share today is related to "the warnings and rebukes of others", to be precise: mistaking warnings as a joke, refusing to repent and destroy the coming, seemingly beautiful but evil.
By our nature, no one wants to be constantly warned and rebuked by others. Because whether it is criticized and blamed by others, or warned by others, it is a very humiliating thing.
If we take our own face and personal image too seriously, we will regard the kindness of others as a deliberate attempt to find fault. No matter what others say, we feel very disgusted in our hearts. Sometimes, others are directly regarded as enemies and classified as enemies.
This preconceived wrong mentality will make our eyes confused, unable to see the truth of the matter, take the kindness of others as a trap, do not listen to the rebukes and warnings of others, abandon the upright and smooth road, and specialize in walking curved and steep mountain roads.
In other words, when we face the rebuke and warning of others, we cannot deliberately indulge our natural directness to reject the rebuke and warning of others, but always think twice, observe the specific changes in things, see whether what others say is true or false, and then make a decision. If what the other person says is true and beneficial to us, listen to it; if what the other person says is false and harmful to us, reject it.
In my opinion, when we encounter the rebuke and warning of others, we should be more careful, carefully observe our surroundings, and see the changes in the surrounding environment, so that we will not fall directly into the disaster or fall into the trap of others.
No matter at any time, blindly rejecting the opinions of others is not a good thing, it is best to verify the truth of the matter before making a decision.
We can completely divide the accusations and warnings of others into two aspects: what is good for us and what is harmful to us. Treat them differently, with beneficial obedience and harmful discards.
We should listen to the reproaches and warnings that are good for us, that is, the words of those who find us in danger and persuade us to go around. For in doing so it will keep us safe from dangers and evils.
We should reject the accusations and warnings that are harmful to us, the words of those who want to lead us into traps and snares they have set. Because they are trying to frame us.
<h3>The last words</h3>
This is:
Mistake the warning as a child's play,
Refusal to repent and destroy the coming,
It seems beautiful but it is a curse.
Encounter warnings to think carefully,
Observe the comparison to find the answer,
The good listen to the bad,
Optimize and update to optimal.
If you want to make tomorrow better,
Learn from each other's strengths and go forward.
Today's sharing ends here!
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