Dear readers, hello everyone! I am Li Hui. Focus on stuttering correction, social phobia change training.
Today I come to share with you the story of one of our students who told her stuttering experience and changes, hoping to bring some feelings and thoughts to readers and friends.
Well, let's hear her story:
Hello everyone, I'm Lan Jia. I am a student of the teacher, I used to have a stutter for more than 20 years, the other day I saw the story of the teacher's student He Jie and an 8-year-old child, which made me feel very deeply.
It reminds me of how I used to be affected by stuttering, and it reminds me of the process of learning and changing with my teacher, like a movie, and the scenes come to me.
I am very grateful to the teacher, without which I would definitely still be under the influence of stuttering. As the teacher said, it is not easy to go all the way, there are too many and too many not easy.
I used to think that learning a method from the teacher was just a method, but in fact, it was not so, and stuttering was not as simple as I thought.
What I admire is that the teacher can make such a complex stuttering speak in an easy-to-understand way, and the teacher constantly asks me to attach great importance to training during training.
Although it is simple to do, it is not easy to do them all well, and I am grateful to the teacher for his continuous guidance, encouragement and tolerance.
At that time, I was very stressed, because we had three students in that period, and every day I saw their own growth feelings written by them, and I was very anxious, because my progress was a little slow.
But the teacher kept telling me not to envy them, they could do it, and I could do it. At that time, I didn't actually train very hard.
These teachers did not criticize me, but patiently took me to train, I saw that the teacher was so busy every day, when I trained, or hand in hand so responsibly one action after another to train me.
I think I'm often ashamed to think about things. I feel sorry for the teacher's trust and dedication to me. Here, I apologize to the teacher.
My real change began on the 76th day of my training, when I was talking to my classmates, and I found that there were many difficult pronunciations that I actually said, which made me very happy at that time!
Since then, I have studied more seriously with the teacher. What the teacher taught me was not only to change the way to stutter, but also to improve cognition, which was very important to me.
Through learning, I changed my previous view of things, allowing me not only to speak fluently, but also to solve problems.
In the past, I was very cowardly and introverted, and I really hoped that I could be as cheerful and positive as other girls. But every time I think about stuttering, I feel very uncomfortable and scared.
I didn't dare to speak, or even avoided talking, and my worst time was from my sophomore year, because there were more classes at that time, and I had to speak often, including roll call and the like.
I was very afraid, "to" is my difficult pronunciation, every time my classmates help me answer. Now that I think about it, it was really bad, my classmates around me let me look a little opener, and they also encouraged me to talk more.
Even on weekends they dragged me to go shopping, climbing mountains, eating. During that time, my mood was indeed much better, and there was more expression on my face.
But once I think of my own words, especially at night, I cry silently, I am also a girl, I also have my own dreams, I also want to do what I like to do like other girls.
But the evil stuttering made me despair constantly! I'm most afraid of calling, and answering the phone makes it a little easier for me than making a phone call, because it's very difficult to say the first word when I call and my heart is very uncomfortable!
So, I message a lot and don't call. Every year for the New Year or the holidays, I don't want to go home, because coming home and speaking in tongues makes me even more miserable. I also stutter in dialect, and stuttering is about the same as speaking Mandarin.
The most I have heard is that my family members say, "How do you talk more and more seriously" Whenever I listen to them say these words, I have to hold back the tears from falling.
How I want to get rid of stuttering! Get rid of this stutter that I hate! Here, I am very grateful to my teacher, Mr. Li Hui.
It was the teacher who gave me hope, the teacher who took me to change my stuttering step by step, and the teacher who made me do what a girl should be! Thank you, teacher!
You know? When my dorm mates knew I had changed my stuttering, a few of us girls cried with headaches! I still remember that scene so vividly that I will never forget it for the rest of my life!
They said, Xiao Jia, you are finally well! As we spoke, we cried bitterly, and that night we hugged and cried! They know how I've been through these years.
They also know how tedious it is for me to attend a teacher's training course, and whenever I go to class, they don't speak, and keep quiet in the dormitory to create a quiet classroom environment for me.
Even the teachers say that your classmates are very sensible and love you. Here, I would like to especially thank my classmates and girlfriends! They were the ones who created the classroom environment for me.
Although we have all graduated now, the girlfriend relationship has not diminished at all, because we are tacit with each other, and now we will go out to dinner or spit on weekends.
They said I was really different from before, and I felt the same way! Here again, I would like to thank my teachers and my girlfriends! Thank you!
The above is our Xiaojia's story of the impact of stuttering on her and the changes in the process of change and after the change. Yes, we have too many difficulties along the way, but we have proved ourselves with the results, and we have not lived up to the efforts we have paid!
Here, I once again wish our little ones a better and better future! Xiao Jia, bless you!
Well, friends, it's time to write that this is also the end of today's article. In today's article, I mainly share the story of one of our students today who told the story of the impact and change of stuttering on her. I hope to bring some thoughts and help to readers and friends.
Here, I would like to say again that we must always believe that speaking is our instinct, and that speaking is a simple thing.
Stuttering or social phobia, they can all be radically changed! As long as you are really moving towards "wanting" to change! As long as you're really, really fed up! so! Just stand up and change!
Dear friends, today's article is written here. I'm Hui Li, focusing on stuttering correction and social phobia change training, if you have stuttering or social disorders, and they have a deep impact on your life, studies, career, you can always talk to me.
Well, friends, I'll write about this today, and we'll continue tomorrow. We'll see you tomorrow.