If you and she come to the end of the relationship and can't go on, what kind of way do you want to end the relationship?
Some women will say: I will talk to him, take the road we have traveled, make an understanding, break, everyone is not sad about it, be an ordinary friend.
Some women will say: I will go to a meal with him, have a meal, and take care of each other.
Some women will say: I do nothing, quietly, silently 88.
There are also women who will say: I will fight with him and then let him go.
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There are many ways, which vary from person to person.
But no matter what, I think that adult breakups should be polite and respectful, and should not be like children, making a fuss.
Do you know what choices a hedgehog woman would make?
The hedgehog woman breaks up the way: tell you very desperately. I don't want to be with you, I see you annoyed. You gave me back the XX thing, and I never want to see you again. The tone of the speech, very decisive, very fierce, very direct.
There is no ceremony, no buffering, no respect, some just break up and slap each other.
Usually, adults, you want to delete a friend, will choose to delete silently, do not squeak, do not say broken, wait until after an unknown amount of time, when the other party sent you a message, you found out, eh, the original other party deleted me.
Adult relationships are like this, no misunderstandings, no quarrels, just so quietly, delete or block the other party.
This is not the case with the hedgehog woman, who must inform you by way of informing: I am going to delete you! After saying that, I deleted it immediately, and I didn't even have the opportunity to ask.
I don't know if you have found that many people always like to say "see you another day" and "have a chance to reunite", but later found that the people who say these words have long disappeared into your life.
We always think that coming to Japan is long, but in the end we find out that there is no party leader in Japan, and many people have disappeared without saying hello, which is the departure of adults, which has always been quiet.
Two people can talk less and less, two people meet less and less time, two people have more and more important friends around them, and slowly disperse.
Adult feelings are full of variables, maybe one day will not love, maybe one day will not want to go on, only cherish the days together.
There is a saying in "Spirited Away": "Life is a train to the grave, there will be many stations on the road, it is difficult for someone to accompany you from beginning to end, when the person who accompanies you wants to get off the train, even if you don't give up, you should be grateful, and then wave goodbye." ”
No matter how unwilling you are, how nostalgic you are, you should know that the departure of adults is so quiet, when he wants to leave, only silently blessing, and then cherish the people around you, because the people who stay are more and more important.
People are always like this, they don't know how to cherish when they have it, they always think that there is still time, they lose it and regret it, and at this time everything is too late.
The hedgehog woman's way of breaking up is the kind of child who lives at home: I dumped you, I didn't want you, I gave up on you. She wanted to use this method to tell herself that by doing so, she wouldn't hurt herself and that she wouldn't be so upset.
As everyone knows, everything is two-sided, and your behavior today is doomed to your future road and needs more bumps.
Goodbye, Hedgehog Woman!