As you grow up, why does time pass faster and faster?

When I was in college, I had a roommate who liked to dress up my bed, and felt that the table and wall looked cold and cold, so I bought a plain wallpaper on Taobao and pasted it on the wall, and bought a literary tablecloth to spread on the table;

The chair in the dormitory is wooden, and it is hard and cold to sit on in the winter, and I specially bought a hanging rattan chair, cushioned with a soft cushion, so that you can watch the video while holding the pillow and shrinking in the rattan chair;

Because there are many mosquitoes in Zhuhai in the summer, everyone will buy a mosquito net tied to the head of the bed, and everyone else buys a cheap and practical transparent mosquito net from the school supermarket, only she, feels that the transparent is not shaded, not private enough, and bought a pink blackout mosquito net on Taobao.

At that time, I didn't understand her behavior, but it was a dormitory, not a home, as for the decoration that was so painstaking? Anyway, college years will soon pass.

It wasn't until one time, sitting in her wicker chair, looking at the vases and wallpaper on the table, that in this small space, I unexpectedly felt the tranquility, and at that moment I realized that it was so cost-effective to be picky about my own life.

Spend a few hundred dollars, one or two afternoons without class, you can create your own private space, in this space, you do not have to endure the cold, do not have to be disturbed by the light, will not be disturbed by anyone, once you step into this dedicated small world, you can relax and meditate in an instant.

Only to find out that we had lived in the dormitory for four years, and she was the only one who moved her family to the dormitory.

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People who have traveled on business have this experience, because they covet convenience, so shampoo, shower gel, and toothbrush are directly used in the hotel.

As a result, the hair washed with the hotel shampoo was dry and frizzy; the bristles of the toothbrush were not soft enough, and if you were not careful, you would bleed from your gums.

If you are a person with a high tolerance for the environment, where you live, the bowl can be thrown in the sink for three days without washing, the ground is dirty, you can also insist until the cleaning aunt comes to clean regularly, even if the garbage can is full, you can also step on it with your feet and throw it carefully to avoid overflowing.

You will gradually find that although you are never picky about life, life begins to pick you up.

There were a lot of things piled up on the table, and the computer could only be placed on the desktop in a dangerous posture, but never thought of moving, until one time the computer finally landed, and it cost one or two thousand to repair it alone;

The clothes in the wardrobe are always late because they are rarely sorted out, so they are always late because they can't find a pair of socks;

Mild insomnia, a little light can not sleep, but never want to change a curtain or buy an eye mask, so the dark circles are getting more and more serious;

And some people, with strong self-awareness ability, can detect anything that can cause discomfort to their senses, as long as they find it, they must think of ways to change or solve it until they feel comfortable.

They seriously compete with life, and they are picky about life to the point of only comfort, and what life gives back to them is a good atmosphere and experience.

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There is a task in running MAN to let each member prepare their own memories and related items about Christmas, and some people feel overwhelmed when they receive the task, thinking about the past few decades of life, but found that they can't remember anything, so they have to make up stories.

Only Jeon Joo-min took out a box containing a Christmas card made by the fifth grade of elementary school, and a typo was found on it, not only that, she even kept the tissue that had wiped her tears because of the loss of love.

For others, it's just about making up a story and coping with the show, but what about life? Can we also prevaricate in the past? When you think of the decades of life, the memories of Christmas are blank, and there are no memories left, will you feel white?

And those who are full of rituals about life, they will see the movie tickets with their boyfriend/girlfriend, the high-speed rail tickets to each other's cities, and the tickets to travel with each other, because of this, life rewards them with countless precious memories, these memories are like stars in their pockets, and when they are sad and depressed, they can take them out to see, which can make people full of courage again.

Alaskan Jonathan Keller takes a selfie every day for 16 years without interruption.

Keller said that he had just bought a well-priced Nikon digital camera, which made his girlfriend very unhappy and asked him if he could use it every day. So Keller promised to take a selfie every day. What no one expected was that Keller had held fast to this promise for 16 years. "I think the point of this plan is that people can see themselves changing day by day."

You may not be able to see any changes from yesterday's and the day before yesterday's selfie, but when you look back at the age of thirty, you remember what you looked like at the age of twenty, how time carefully polished your bones, your skin, your wrinkles, the baby fat of your youth has long disappeared, the eyes have more laugh lines, the look is more relaxed, no longer so cramped, and the eyes are more determined.

If you don't record your life in a bad time, after ten years, life won't leave you any footprints.

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Most people have this feeling that as they grow up, time flies faster and faster. When I was a child, time seemed to slow down, and when I grew up, the gears of time went faster and faster.

But the truth is that time is not getting faster, it's just that the time we perceive is getting faster.

French philosophers have proposed the theory of time perception: man's perception of time is relative, and the frame of reference is the whole time that has been spent. So if you don't jump out of your comfort zone and don't keep breaking the inherent small circle, then life will only go faster and faster, and there will be less and less left.

That is to say, when you are only 10 years old, one year is one-tenth of your life, and when you are 60 years old, one year is only one-sixtyth of the length of your life, and the longer you are older, the smaller the year is in the length of your life, the faster time will pass.

Thinking of a friend, from the beginning of knowing her to now it has been a year, she and his boyfriend have a habit, every weekend will go to the surrounding places to play a circle, for a person who likes to stay at home, a rare weekend to use on the road, just thinking about it is very tired

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