As the ancients said:
One life, two fortunes, three feng shui, four accumulation of merit and five reading;
Six seven phases and eight gods, nine friends and ten health;
Many people think that this sentence should be understood in order from one to ten, and then these 10 things determine our fate, but in fact, this understanding is completely reversed!
The real connotation of this sentence should be read from the back to the front.
Because reading from front to back is "confessing one's destiny", and reading from back to front is "changing one's life"! Confessing the fate will often passively accept some, if you go against the grain and don't think about making progress, then the result is indeed that "fate"! And "changing life" is indomitable, tenacious struggle, with lofty goals, based on reality, and striving to move forward!
Let's look at the tenth one first: health
Wellness is about maintaining physical health and mental health.
I often say that it is useless to read more and more truths, reason cannot change a person's destiny, if you want to really change your destiny, you must start with "changing your habits", not "changing your thinking".
How do I change my habits? Start with wellness.
I have said repeatedly that the highest state of health is to nourish the heart.
If a person wants to change, he must start by changing his mind.
People, matter is only a surface carrier, but also a sensitive information field, all the time with the outside world for information and energy exchange, each person has their own mind, which forms your aura.
What you think, what you believe, what kind of aura you have, and then a world surrounds you.
So the world is just a projection of your inner beliefs in reality.
Why do the things we've been worried about always happen? It is because things that we are strongly aware of and silently talk about will always be attracted here.
When a person does good deeds, he accumulates the magnetic field of love in the universe, and when he is in danger, the universe will send out all kinds of messages to make you subconsciously perceive.
A strong physique and a positive attitude will attract the positive energy of the surrounding and even the universe, which will make you do things smoothly, and there will always be noble people to help!
Look at the ninth one: make friends with nobles
When you send your mind around you and into the universe, the people around you and the universe will respond to your thoughts and give you what you want.
When a person begins to cultivate his heart, he can often meet noble people.
Because when you start practicing mind, you automatically emit a positive energy, and this positive energy tends to attract people who carry a lot of energy.
Don't think that as long as you have money, you can attract nobles, and those things on the outside can only attract upstarts, but they can't attract real nobles.
Number Eight: Worship God
Worship God, not to make you engage in superstitious activities. Rather, it is a reminder that no matter when and where you are, no matter what you do, you must have a sense of ceremony and a sense of awe.
When you meet like-minded people, or after being pointed out, you start doing things.
You move toward a goal and constantly encourage yourself inside.
Start to worship God, worship God is only an action or form, and worship God is actually yourself.
Because there is some reverence in the heart, there is something to do and something not to do.
Always be alert to yourself, raise your head three feet and have a god, in order to make you invincible.
Seventh: Phase
Phase is appearance, a person's external state.
Appearance is the projection of a person's long-term mentality and behavior on the face,
When a person strives for a positive cause, his external state will change.
Good-looking, not only superficial and beautiful, but also dignified, humble and elegant...
The various encounters of life, personality, and conduct will act on people's appearance and temperament over time.
The appearance of man himself is immutable, and what our parents have given us is what it is, but the spiritual appearance of each of us is self-groomed.
Sixth: First name
Fame is fame, a person's prestige.
When a person is unified externally and internally, he will often get a "name".
His prestige and influence in the crowd are getting higher and higher.
Value your own reputation, pay attention to your own reputation, accumulate over time, and harvest freely.
Fifth: Reading
Reading is learning, and when a person has enough influence, he must constantly enrich himself so that he can live up to his name.
Reading is the most cost-effective way to progress, and reading first-class books is the best means for people to improve.
Only by receiving edification and washing can a person achieve greater achievements. No matter how ugly you look, you must know that "there are poems and books in your belly", read more books, read good books, read classic books, and over time, your connotation, temperament and cultivation will be improved to a certain extent.
In addition, books are the crystallization of the wisdom of predecessors. Read more books, read good books, you can avoid making fewer mistakes in doing things, there is no need for all the experience to be personally obtained, the lessons of the past, the teacher of the future, the experience of the predecessors can be used completely, and books often point out the development trend for us, more reading, is conducive to doing things, while taking the situation, while planning.
Fourth: accumulation of merit
Accumulating merit is to make meritorious achievements and contribute to society.
The greater the ability, the greater the responsibility.
When a person has a certain strength, it often begins to contribute to society.
Don't wait until you become famous to do good deeds, there are always some people who are not as good as you, do their best to help those individuals and groups that are weaker than you, and slowly accumulate their own blessings.
The third: feng shui
What is Feng Shui? Four words: smooth sailing.
A person who is upright and upright and accumulates good deeds is a blessed person.
Feng Shui is a blessed place for people to live in, and a blessed place to live in a blessed place.
In short: Feng Shui is about going where you are, where you can do the most.
I often say that not every plant is suitable for fertile soil, and that the desert is the paradise for cacti. People are self-aware, choose the right place for themselves, do it in a down-to-earth manner, that is the wise move, do not look at the mountain high, all industries want to try again, are shallow taste, and finally can only achieve nothing. Your feng shui is important.
The second: luck
Luck is luck, and a meritorious person is in the right place, and there will be good luck.
So good luck is not sought, but struggled.
People who sit and wait and complain, where will there be any good luck!
One last: life
Fate is destiny, when a person completes the above 9 steps, the fate is in their own hands!
This is the real way for a person to change his destiny!
Finally, five more words:
The family is a member of society, and when the molecule prospers, the country prospers! Home and wanshixing, all families need every member to run seriously, and it is important for everyone to take on their own role!
In fact, a person's fate can be completely in his own hands;
Changing your destiny starts with changing your "habits", and you have to change the reasons you spend your time into a change in habits.
With a sense of awe, do ordinary things, do every little thing in the moment, take the momentum, and plot the situation!
The change of fate is gradual, and those who are eager for success and profit can only linger outside the door forever.