Author: Tao Yong, China-Qinlian Education Research Institute
Title: Polar Express
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Audience: Parents and children watch together
What you get: Children's imagination, curiosity and hope for the future. Parents learn more about their children's needs and the forms of love.
(Every child hesitates before boarding the Arctic Express —a contradiction and conflict between reality and ideals.) Eventually, they'll all board the Arctic Express, meaning that children will stick to their ideals, while adults will do the opposite. ）
(Never force children and treat them as someone else, another independent, equal to an adult!) ）
(Never force the child to do something, but advise on what to do)
(Providing children with their favorite hot chocolate in a magical way is essentially the most thorough respect for children - the real respect is not your care for children, but understanding the needs of children, understanding the source of children's happiness, and being willing to provide this happiness for children, a mind and children to become a partner!) ）
(The conductor did not criticize the girl for her behavior exceeding the rules, but instead found a good opportunity to turn her violation into a help.)
(The perspective of adults is not to see the most sincere, loving and kind side of children)
(The meaning of Christmas is not whether it's real or not, it's more about being with friends and family and enjoying the gratitude of giving and receiving.) Here to give is to learn to give gifts to friends and relatives, to be grateful is to happily accept gifts from each other, do not pick and choose, can not attach conditions, otherwise it is a hooligan! ）
(In the face of several children's violations, the conductor empathizes and can truly understand their need to explore the world, fully demonstrating that they are in the same group as the children.) Only if you become a group with your child, will your child be truly willing to show your heart)
(Santa Claus says: The spirit of Christmas is deep within you.) What is deep inside the boy? It is the desire to grow, the expectation of the future, and the feeling of being loved and trusted forever! ）
After watching this movie, I summarize the meaning of Christmas:
1, think what you think, do not doubt whether you are qualified. If you think the world doesn't approve of you, then there's Santa Claus who will never forget you!
2. On Christmas eve, we exchange gifts with family and friends to harvest surprises and feelings of being loved. What a wonderful life experience!
3, Christmas gifts, as well as receiving Santa Claus gifts, on the one hand means that you are valuable, on the other hand, it means that you are entitled to the love and giving of others. In fact, it is a good medicine to express love, reshape values, and heal spiritual famine.
4) Christmas gifts are unconditional and do not vary depending on whether you are obedient or not, or how old you are. When the gift is attached to the conditions of obedience, good test scores, etc., it is the parents who throw away the best opportunity to express their love and pick up a piece of stinky shit!
5, Christmas is also a holiday of hope, a surprise holiday, a happy holiday, is a festival full of love and joy. It brings a new value to life, it allows every child to harvest the sunshine of love!