Both a partner and an intimate enemy

2021-10-31 06:02:29

What kind of people are tough with? There is no doubt – it is the person who is more traumatized.

Unfortunately, we always have relationships with people who are about the same level of trauma as us. Therefore, people with more trauma will have much more difficulties in love and marriage; people with relatively little trauma are prone to love with people with relatively little trauma. The relationship will be relatively smooth.

Love in reality is not as perfect as we aspire.

Every relationship and marriage begins beautifully. But when we approached each other, we found that the dream was gradually bursting like a bubble. We are often sad, bitter, and regretful in love, feeling that the person who made us desperate to support us with our lives has suddenly become a bad man/bad woman who is unforgiving.

Emotional setbacks can ruin many of a person's beautiful dreams about life.

Most of the time, we blame the other person for our frustrations, we blame them for their changes, betrayals, and pain, and they make us lose our wonderful ideals of love.

Or, we start another stove and change the soup and seek a new partner. Or, we become negative and suspicious, learn to guard against, defend ourselves, as if love is the source of our suffering, and we begin to expend a lot of energy and mentally whims.

However, this did not really make us grow.

Everyone has an "inner child" in their hearts. The health of the inner child determines our lives, personalities, and patterns. The inner child without healing is like a controller of our physical mind: unwilling to see the truth, unwilling to take responsibility, always justifying himself.

The key to solving this problem is to really see your own problem. In every relationship, see why you are suffering, why you fail, why you repeat the same mistakes.

Both a partner and an intimate enemy

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