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Someone said: "Love words can penetrate every nerve of a person, it is like a fiery fire that can burn people to ashes, it destroys decay, indestructible, it engulfs you like a fog, it is also like manna, soaking people's souls, making you feel fascinated at that moment." ”
From a medical point of view, love words can stimulate the rapid secretion of dopamine, promote the acceleration of basic metabolism, and make your emotions relax instantly." ”
It can be seen that the role of love words is really incomparably large, it is not only useful for women, but also for men is also an indispensable thing in life.
However, many women think that a rational creature like a man definitely does not need love words to regulate life, so women never say some love words to men in life.
This happens because most women think that the love words are sweet words of flesh and blood, and men do not understand the deep meaning of sweet words.
Men really don't like fleshy love words, and what men want women to say are all down-to-earth, simple and unpretentious words.
These words may not have anything to do with the wind and snow, nor are they any mountain alliances and sea oaths, or they may be the words you want to say but do not say in your ordinary life, as long as men listen to them, they will feel that their whole body is full of strength.
Romance is not exclusive to women, in fact, men also like romance in their bones, if women in the usual relationship, can say more romantic love words to men, do some ritual things, men in the satisfaction at the same time, will also be difficult to resist the women who create romance for him.
Hopefully women will understand, get along with men, and don't skimp on your love words.
You know, all the heartfelt love words are not meaty, you yourself are very natural, and the other party is easy to empathize with you.
So women, don't say "I love you" to men such outdated love words, and don't say "I can't do without you" to men, in fact, the love words that make men "irresistible" are actually these:
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > "you've worked hard."</h1>
The four words "you have worked hard" do not sound numb, but for a man, it is the affirmation of the other half for all his efforts in life.
As long as men hear these four words, they understand that all their efforts are in your eyes, and such a two-way love is the greatest encouragement in life in men's hearts.
Qin Qin and her husband Lin Chunping are not from any rich family, the two people from the beginning of love, all the expenses are shared by the couple.
Later, after having children, Diligent had no way to work to share some of the expenses in life, so the expenses inside and outside the home had to be taken care of by Lin Chunping alone.
Sometimes, Lin Chunping comes home from work and feels that it is hard to take the child alone, and he will hurry to do housework.
Qin Qin feels that although this kind of life is plain, it is also very happy, so she will often tell Lin Chunping from the heart: "You have worked hard. ”
And Lin Chunping every time as long as he hears this sentence, although there will be some depression, but in the next life, he will pay more efforts.
In a relationship, the most feared thing for men is probably that no one can understand their enthusiasm, and all the sacrifices and efforts eventually become phantoms.
And the woman only needs to use four simple and not numb words to make his heart fall into place, because he is finally sure that everything he does, you see in the eyes, remember in the heart.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > "It's nice to have you."</h1>
Love words such as "It's good to have you" and "It's good to have you" with the meaning of thanks, for men, this is no less than the most appropriate love words, which will make men feel that you need him very much in life.
This sense of need, which is exclusive to him, can directly satisfy men's self-esteem and "desire to conquer" women.
The words Ji Wenhua most wanted to hear were when his wife sincerely said to him, "It's good to have you."
He and his wife have been married for more than fifteen years, and the two of them have experienced many ups and downs together, as well as fierce quarrels and small conflicts, which is after all something that cannot be avoided in the life of a husband and wife.
Although there will be contradictions and frictions in marriage, it is more about the happiness and happiness between each other.
Therefore, every time his wife said with emotion, "It's good to have you", he knew that his wife was remembering the happiness and suffering they had experienced.
Such a sentence makes Ji Wenhua understand that this is his wife saying "I love you", and it is also the promise that his wife will not leave him, so he feels that everything is worth it.
Men have always disliked love words like "I love you", because this is a false thing for him, and no amount of talk can enter his heart.
However, a simple "it's good to have you" is a lifelong commitment for a man, an affirmation of his existence, and no man can resist.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > the most direct compliment</h1>
No matter how much a woman says in life, it is not what the man really wants, and it will make him feel that you always make him happy.
A man's irresistible love words are intuitive, unreserved, and can instantly resonate with him.
Therefore, when women talk about love, they must choose to say love words that are not fleshy, that is, to give men the most direct praise, so that men can understand your intentions in a flash.
Wang Jie has always believed that men do not need to be praised, after all, the education method of this society is to tell men to stand up to the sky, not to be weak, and men have tears and do not flick.
Therefore, she has never praised her husband in her life, and occasionally if her husband does not do a good job in any aspect, Wang Jie will bury him, so their lives have always been tense.
By chance, Wang Jie praised her husband, who knew that her husband's reaction was a smirk, and she was particularly embarrassed.
Throughout the next day, the husband can do anything to achieve near-perfect results. So Wang Jie often praises her husband in life, and her husband is becoming more and more sympathetic to her, and everything is based on her, and the life of the two people can be described as more and more harmonious.
Men, whether they are women, are eager to be recognized and praised, especially for men, and the admiration and heartfelt praise from women are the driving force for him to move forward.
So women, don't skimp on your praise, men need to be coaxed, he does not do well to give him encouragement, he does well, directly praise him.
Time Emotion Classroom:
Many women have a reserved personality, feel that the words of love are too fleshy, they are ashamed to talk about it, and men do not like to listen.
However, the truth is just the opposite, men or women, are easy to be moved by love words, but men are more rational, easy to make him emotional, so that he can not resist, not meaty love words, but women full of true feelings.
These words, perhaps your usual heartfelt feelings, it does not sound much, but it is the most sincere portrayal of your heart, which is the most inspiring words in life for men.
Therefore, when women get along with men, they can say more, guide men to pay for you, and let your love become a two-way rush, rather than your unilateral liking, in order to achieve the effect of being inseparable from each other.