Recently I was commented that women lack strength, but unexpectedly have boyfriend power.
As a woman, I always feel a little strange, so I secretly turned out my mobile phone to check it, and only then did I know that women's strength mainly refers to women's ability to play their own strengths as women (such as gentleness, beauty, elegance, meticulousness, etc.), so as to gain the favor of people around them and the ability to win their own success.
Boyfriend force is the performance and behavior of attractive traits that do not give people a sense of security.
Overall, the evaluation is not too bad.
In addition to women's strength and boyfriend power, there are many forces that can be expressed with so-and-so forces, such as control, social skills, learning power and so on.
Among so many "forces", if I had to choose one, then I would choose "output force".
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When it comes to output force, you may dismiss it, isn't it just speech? Who would say it? What's the good thing to choose from?
Maybe you will also nod your head in agreement, you obviously know very well, but you can't always say it.
Usually, when we write articles and even speak, they are output. How to concisely and concisely express their own views, and even express them personally, to give people a deep impression, is the performance of output power.
And now the network is so developed, providing a particularly good stage for everyone, those who can provide quality content and maintain output, through the network to create personal IP, sitting on a million fans of bloggers.
It can be seen that the output force not only allows us to communicate and express better, but also spreads our own ideas, shares experiences, and inspires others.
So, how to improve your output?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="11" > the ratio of input to output is 1:9</h1>
Usually, the output should be given priority, and the ratio of input and output should be carried out according to 1:9. That is, the output forces the input backwards.
I once attended a writing bootcamp where each trainee was required to write an essay a day for 21 days. When I saw this request, my head immediately grew bigger. I hadn't read a lot of books, and I didn't read a lot of content, so why did I write for 21 days in a row?
Sure enough, by day 10, I couldn't write it. The inventory accumulated before, all that can be written is written. But looking at the other trainees in the bootcamp who continued to output high-quality articles, I was not willing to give up, so I came up with a way: every day I set a theme for the next day, and then today I read 1-2 related books around this theme, without reading all the books, I understand the general framework of this topic, confirm my points of interest, and then use bits and pieces of time to collect relevant information. Organize these contents in preparation for the next day's article output.
With this method, I actually persevered. And learned a lot of new knowledge, including psychology, brain science and so on.
Purposeful learning and reading, immediately after learning, summarize and sort out and output, so that the knowledge can be better understood and integrated.
So, don't be afraid, don't hesitate, aim for output, and try to summarize the output material.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="45" > output is a pleasant thing</h1>
I used to be a guy who didn't like to talk and didn't like to output. After watching the movie, reading the book, even if I like it, I just sigh that it is really good to shoot/write.
It wasn't until I attended a training that I gradually liked the output.
During the training, the teacher divided each of us into 1 group of 6 people, a total of 5 groups, and asked to take the group as a unit, after the teacher finished speaking a knowledge point, the group selected a representative to repeat the knowledge point, and applied it on the spot according to the knowledge point.
My Group A of Spades is a silent group, and no one wants to speak as a delegate, so they have to draw lots to decide who will be the delegate. Finally, I became the representative of our group.
After two days, gradually from the beginning of the stumbling, to the later free speech, and even improvisation, let me fully appreciate the charm of output.
Since then, I have seen good movies, and I will also summarize the story summary and interesting points of the movie, communicate with everyone, and thus meet people with similar interests.
After reading the books I like, I will slowly write some of my own experiences and post them on the Internet, only to find that some people have the same views as me, and some people have more sharp and unique views.
These are all pleasant experiences that the output brings to me.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="47" > output in their area of expertise</h1>
Millions of fans, monthly income of more than 10,000, traffic, personal IP, freelance, this kind of hot words, can always be seen on the Internet, in short videos.
The group will occasionally discuss how to increase fans quickly on a certain platform and write millions of articles.
Among them, Xiao Yu is one of the fans in the group who is particularly fast-rising. She generously shared with everyone the secret of her fan growth: it turned out that she liked stars, and she also paid special attention to the entertainment industry, and cherished the past of many stars. And she's very sensitive to hot spots, and as soon as a lot of things happen, she publishes articles about them.
Friends saw that her fans rose so quickly, and they also followed suit, hoping to create their own explosive good articles.
Only the group friend Solo Music did not change her direction, or focused on the content sharing of handicrafts. She once told me that she has no interest in the entertainment industry, not even a few stars, and she likes to do crafts and hopes to share her work and production skills. Although the development is slow, after a long period of persistence and sharing, her account now has a lot of fan attention.
Everyone has their own good and bad at it, just as food critics aren't necessarily good at cooking. Therefore, instead of spending time in areas that are easy to get attention in a short period of time, it is better to put more thought into the areas that you are good at. In this way, not only can you continue to experience the fun of output, but also have a good harvest in the end.
Increase the proportion of output, with the pleasant feeling brought by the output force, continue to output in the field of excellence, and then through some skills and methods, we can continuously increase our output power, and help us to communicate, write and accumulate knowledge for learning.
【Related Reading Recommendation-《Output Force》】
The book provides 58 knowledge points, involving different techniques and methods such as Feynman learning method, quantitative exercises, and Pomodoro timing writing.
Each knowledge point is composed according to the title, content elaboration, case and final precautions, which is simple and easy to understand, and the key points are also intimately underlined to facilitate quick review and practice.
Chapters are independent, you can press the map when you encounter problems, read and practice quickly, and be targeted.