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A person's subjective consciousness cannot fully familiarize itself with and change the existence of objective laws, but the existence of objective laws can dominate the development of anything.
Everything in the world needs to be formed according to the truth of the original existence of the thing, and no one can achieve the desired result in a contrary way.
No matter how much one knows about the laws of a thing, the existence and establishment of a thing needs to exist in accordance with the truth of the current thing, whether a person conforms to the law by his own subjective efforts or by chance.
This is the truth that life is based on the mastery of the laws of things to obtain good results.
There is a saying in the "Aphorisms": If you are not close to human feelings, you are full of crises; if you are not physical, you will have dreams all your life.
The meaning of this sentence is that doing things is not humane, as long as you start to do it, you will face many difficulties; and if you do not perceive the world's human feelings, then you will have to face illusory dreams all your life.
For life, many people can see clearly the way they deal with problems, but they can't see the way they form this way of thinking.
Therefore, there is often a phenomenon in life, that is, a person always makes excessively subjective and self-righteous mistakes, and often has to pay a price for this mistake, and finally often fails to realize the root cause of this mistake.
When planning a career, always look at the problem with a limited vision, and when facing the sophistication of human feelings, it is always to solve interpersonal relationships with the habit of paranoia and arrogance, such arrogant actions naturally cannot bring good life results to themselves, so their whole lives are just doing nothing, and the practical life of people has become an illusory dilemma.
During the Wei and Jin dynasties, the ruling class at that time was very chaotic, the contradictions and struggles were very obvious, the two forces of the Sima clan and the Cao Wei nobles fought each other for power, and many scholars and masters were hated by the other side because they were attached to one of them, and eventually fell victim to political struggles.
Therefore, in such a special period, how to save one's life in the chaotic world was the most important issue for scholars and doctors at that time.
One of them was named Sun Deng, who was alone, dug a cave in the mountains and lived in seclusion, knitting grass for himself in the summer, wrapping his long hair in the winter, Sun Deng usually liked to read the I Ching, and often played the piano in the mountains when he was idle.
At that time, there was a famous scholar named Ji Kang, who was entrusted by Emperor Wen of Wei to visit Sun Deng and live with him for three years, and Ji Kang asked Sun Deng what was his goal in life? Sun Deng did not speak.
Later, three years later, Ji Kang wanted to go back, and when he said goodbye, he said to Sun Deng: "Doesn't sir have anything to say to me?" ”
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And Sun Deng said at this time: "Do you know fire, fire rises up there is a flame, if you will not use the light, the light is like a virtual, there is no practical role, only know how to use the light, the light will have meaning." People are born with talents, but if they do not use their talents, they will invite disasters. Therefore, the purpose of using the flame of light is to obtain charcoal in order to maintain the light, and the purpose of using talent is to know the true face of things and obtain the true talent of morality, so as to save one's life. Now, although you are talented, but you are lonely and shallow, it is difficult to get out of the worldly environment, I hope you are cautious. Too much want to play their own talents is easy to provoke right and wrong, in addition to letting others know their talents, life should have other pursuits. ”
At that time, Ji Kang did not listen to Sun Deng's words, or Ji Kang did not have enough wisdom to understand what he said, and later in response to Sun Deng's prophecy, in the end Ji Kang was killed by Sima Zhao on the charge of disloyalty, and when he died, he was only 39 years old, until the end of his life, he suddenly woke up.
For anyone in life, no matter what position and environment they are in, paranoia is an important characteristic of making their lives worse and worse, a person needs to conform to objective laws on the basis of creating their own career, and human nature is an important factor in the composition of the law.
Therefore, at the right time, we can let go of paranoia, understand human nature, or avoid the sharp edge and despicable points of human nature, in order to shape the work while preserving ourselves, and let our talents be correctly exerted.
A person can only rely on his own talent, can not create much value, but also may bring wrong results to life, only to make their own talent exist in the right place, that is, with the wisdom of familiar with the law, in order to avoid provoking themselves, so that life can achieve merit.
Just like when Zeng Guofan pacified the Taiping Heavenly Kingdom Movement, Zeng Guofan was temperamental when he first founded the Xiang Army, and in this state, he repeatedly encountered walls.
Later, after he realized his own problems, he painfully thought about it and made an earth-shaking change in his state, and one of the most important characteristics of this change was that it included the acceptance and compliance of human nature.
This was not a passive and slack attitude, but a strategy of positive response, and finally on the basis of this conformity to the rules, the Xiang Army was established and the cause of its own expectations was achieved.
Therefore, a person should return his vision from the appearance of things to his own attitude towards things.
Many times, do not only rely on their own way to deal with a certain problem to evaluate themselves, but can reflect on the problems in their own thinking and consciousness from their own attitude to face the problem, let themselves let go of paranoia, can really comply with the rules, access to human nature, such wisdom can bring better results to their lives.
"Only when you know how to use the light will the light have meaning, and if people do not use their talents, they will only bring disaster."
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