Children are the crystallization of the love of husband and wife, the bond that maintains a family, and there are very few marriages that can truly separate from children and are not affected by children. Only a true soul mate can be a true Dink, and as secular people, children are their lifelong desires, especially men, the idea of inheritance is deeply rooted, and having a child is their lifelong desire.
I once had a small couple who had been married for 8 years without children. In order to maintain the marriage, the wife decided to go to IVF, and this decision directly led to the breakdown of her marriage.
The wife's name is Liang Lihong, talking about the decision she made that year, her remorseful intestines are green, do not understand why her husband wants to divorce herself, she is completely for his sake, for the sake of the whole family, why does her husband not understand? It all starts with the birth of a child.
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Liao Hui is very happy, married for 8 years without children, the village has long been rumored. He had been looking forward to having a child, and now that he saw his wife finally pregnant, he couldn't help but be overjoyed.
However, after the child was born, the more he looked at it, the more strange it became, why did the child not look like him? Not only him, but also his parents held the same idea as him, they felt that children did not look like sons, as ugly as a hippopotamus.
Once, the in-laws and mother-in-law complained about the child's appearance in front of Liang Lihong' face, and as a result, Liang Lihong jumped like a thunderbolt and blurted out: "The child is not your family's species, this is not your family's species, and your family does not have such a beautiful species." ”
Liao Hui's face changed drastically, and this sentence stuck to his heart like a needle, which showed that his wife had done something sorry for him.
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It turned out that Liang Lihong couldn't bear that her husband was looked down upon by the villagers and decided to go to IVF. It's just that the IVF she thinks is not the same as ordinary people understand, she thinks that as long as the child born through a special way is considered IVF, so she let her friend introduce a man.
"I just want to prove that I can get pregnant and that every woman wants to be a mother, right?" But whether I can get pregnant or not, I don't know, so I did it. Liang Lihong got what she wanted, and after becoming pregnant, she was worried that her husband would know, and she also ran back to her mother's house to give birth, and later gave birth to her son Lingling.
If it were not for the anger of her in-laws' mouth, Liang Lihong planned to keep this secret for the rest of her life, and did not want to be anxious for a while and run into a catastrophe.
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Liao Hui proposed a divorce to Liu Lihong, and Liang Lihong has been dragging herself and is unwilling to sign, she just wants to make this family a good job, and is not willing to let others discriminate against her husband. She had thought that her husband would scold her at best, but the situation turned out to be unexpected.
After the birth of the child, Liang Lihong has always put the child in her mother's home and raised it by her parents. More than a month ago, Liao Hui suddenly took his son away with a group of people and said that he would sell it for money.
Liang Lihong's parents and brother tried desperately to stop them, but they were injured by people brought by Liao Hui, and the furniture was smashed. Liang Lihong was very anxious to hear the news, and rushed back to her hometown from the place of work.
Liang Lihong came to her in-laws' house for the first time to discuss the explanation. She rushed to Liao's house to find that the gate was closed, there was no one in the house, and not far from home, Liang Lihong saw her father-in-law.
Liang Lihong asked her father-in-law why he took the child? The father-in-law said that LingLing was the grandson of their family, so what was wrong with them taking away their grandson? "Why don't you let us take it, we grandparents don't have the right to enjoy the joy of the world?"
The father-in-law said that he did not rob the child, but just wanted to bring the child over to raise himself. "I'm not robbing, I'm bringing it back to raise, and now there's no evidence that this child is not from our family, so I have the right to raise it."
The father-in-law said something eloquent, but instead asked the daughter-in-law what was wrong? Liang Lihong was dumbfounded when asked, and the old man was right, the grandson belonged to their family, and they had the right to raise him.
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Subsequently, Liang Lihong said that she wanted to see the child. Unexpectedly, the father-in-law refused the daughter-in-law's request, saying that the child was well taken care of by them and asked her not to worry about it.
Liang Lihong stood helplessly in the same place, we looked very unbearable, understand a mother's mood of missing the child, so persuaded the old man to let her see the child. We persuaded for half an hour, and my father-in-law reluctantly agreed, but only put forward one condition: only allowed to see, not to take away.
As soon as the child came out, Liang Lihong's mother rushed up to hold the child, and Lingling was taken care of by her for more than a year, and she naturally missed it very much. "I hugged my grandson, and I didn't know where to go."
The father-in-law watched the grandmother cling to the child tightly, worried that the child would be snatched away, and wanted to hold the child over, but the grandmother held the child tightly, and as a result, the spirit was scared and cried. The child's crying made the emotions of the two old men calm down suddenly, and the matter was stopped.
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Liang Lihong has always been angry about her husband forcibly breaking into their home and injuring her parents and brother, and she asked her father-in-law why he did this? "You don't have any brains, you don't think about anything at all, you also injured my parents, injured my brother, and beat my door and everything to pieces, what right do you have?"
The father-in-law has not spoken, allowing the daughter-in-law to vent her dissatisfaction. The onlookers couldn't look down, stood up and accused Liang Lihong of being unreasonable, obviously she betrayed her family first, how could she still have the face to accuse others?
"Good things don't go out, bad things spread thousands of miles", Liang Lihong's secret was known to everyone, and they all understood the actions of the Liao family.
At this time, the father-in-law, who has been silent, said that he did not know whether the child was from their family for the time being, and everything had to wait until the paternity test was done.
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Liang Lihong did not retrieve the child, and could only go home temporarily. Unexpectedly, the father who heard the news was furious and pulled the suitcase to drive her out of the house. "How can you be so humiliated, get me out."
Liang Lihong explained to her father that everything she did was for Liao Hui, and the father ignored it and threw his daughter out of the house without saying a word.
Liang Lihong squatted outside the gate and cried bitterly, her husband did not forgive her, and now even her father did not understand, what should she do?
Liang Lihong rushed back to her in-laws' house again, but Liao Hui was still reluctant to show her face, but only asked her to compensate for the mental loss.
Two days later, Liao Hui appeared in court, but he didn't say anything, and he hurried away as soon as the verdict was over. Liang Lihong eventually lost her marriage and paid the price for her absurdity.
Liang Lihong never understood what respect was, and put a green hat on her husband and said that it was for her husband's sake, which was really pitiful and ridiculous.
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