In modern society, because many of them are elderly young people, under the pressure of various family elders, they have hastily married to their partners, so that many of them are dissatisfied with their families.
But having said that, when you meet the man you like, you don't hesitate to choose to cheat and then betray your husband, which is also very undesirable.
The traditional moral standards believe that a woman should adhere to the way of women when she is married, rather than doing things that are sorry for her relatives, which is also the most basic principle issue in feelings, so look at the story of Ms. Chen next.
<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="01" data-track="74" ms. Chen is 36 years old ></h1>
Hello everyone, my name is Chen Fangrong, 36 years old this year. My husband and I know each other and have been married for three years now.
Before that, I never thought of doing anything sorry for my husband, I was originally an older leftover woman, I only wanted to be able to live a good life with my husband after getting married, but I never expected that things would develop to this point today, which made me regret it.
I am a child in my own family, from childhood to adulthood, in the eyes of others are pampered, and my parents have never let me suffer anything. Moreover, my father was also more capable, and he started a business in his forties, so I was also a worry-free person, and I always grew up in a happy and happy family.
When I was in college, out of curiosity, I learned to fall in love. It is also young and ignorant, during college, I had several boyfriends, but the final outcome was a failure, every time I felt that it was time to pay the heart, there would always be some unexpected things, and the classmates in the same dormitory said that I was stupid and confused.
In the eight or nine years after graduation, I was already discouraged by feelings and love, and I also let my family break my heart, and it was at this time that I met my husband.
My husband and I are from the same university, and it is also coincidental that we met at a class reunion, he was another classmate in our class who brought me to dinner by the way, and we both met each other.
Since then, they have begun to pursue me. At first, I didn't have any good feelings, I thought that men were the same, and at the beginning, the freshness was bursting, and I didn't take a look at it for a long time.
But gradually, his actions slowly melted me, not only obeying my words, but also doing things very carefully and methodically. Just during the relationship, every salary he earned would be given to me.
Once I jokingly asked him: "You give me all your salary, so you are not afraid that I will run away?" ”
"You just ran to the palm of the Buddha's hand, and I have to get you out, and I have identified you in this life." He looked at me sheepishly and said.
At that time, my friends around me were very envious of me, thinking that I had waited for so many years, and finally met a person who really loved each other and married such a good man, and when I heard this, my heart was full of happiness.
<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="02" data-track="98" > but just when we all felt that the future was a good place, after some crisis in the old company, our relationship gradually changed. </h1>
Before, because my husband was in the company to manage sales, he was very busy at work and often worked overtime. Because I was working as a customer service worker, the time was nine to five, and my husband asked a friend to get me a fitness card in order to take care of my feelings.
I thought that I was in my thirties and that I might age badly if I didn't exercise, so every day after work, I went to the gym with my friends to work out. That's it, something unexpected happened.
When I went to the gym, most of them were boys, there were very few women themselves, and the male coaches who taught me were still relatively young, but they looked more mature.
Every time I was taught to train, I didn't dare to go to see him, and the gym required the coaches to add the contact information of the students, so that it was convenient for what was not known for timely counseling after class. As we went, we became friends who talked about everything.
Later, I learned that he was also married, but it seemed that the marriage was not very smooth, and I still sympathized with him, and because this was in a community, it was more intimate.
Sometimes after work, after exercising, we go home together, stop by the roadside to eat barbecues, drink beer, and slowly the relationship changes.
Frankly speaking, I never thought we would be together, after all, we are all people with families, but feelings are so elusive, when he really comes, he can't escape, after all, love is inseparable.
<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="03" data-track="138" > and we quietly got together. </h1>
He asked a friend to bring a very beautiful bracelet overseas to confess to me, and asked me to promise him to be together forever. During that time, I really had a very happy time, but when I thought about it, I was very depressed when I was discovered by my husband.
But fortunately, we are not far apart, the living buildings are very close, so we discussed with each other a countermeasure, that is, to dry red socks on the balcony, as a secret code, see that there is a can come to my house, when there is no, it proves that someone at home is inconvenient.
In this way, the two people had a happy time, and I still wanted to do it seamlessly, and I could rest easy in the future. But just four months later, my husband returned from a business trip and saw that he was also there, and he was angry.
My husband also said that it was no wonder that I saw the red socks on the balcony downstairs, he knew that I did not like to wear red clothes, and he had been wondering, and the truth had come out.
I was terrified on the spot and begged my husband to forgive me for my mistakes. But no matter how much I pleaded, he remained indifferent, unmoved, and insisted on divorcing me.
He said: "I am so good to you, I worked hard to run around to earn money to support my family, I didn't let you suffer and suffer, I didn't expect you to eat inside and outside, and give me a lover, I can't accept it, get out quickly." ”
In this way, things have been deadlocked for more than a month.
<h1 class="pgc-h-decimal" data-index="04" data-track="143" > we divorced. </h1>
I feel deep regret, but there is no going back. No matter how much I asked for forgiveness, I couldn't get my husband's half-sentence reply. I really, really regret it!
As the saying goes, there is no head wind wall in the world, often walk by the river, where there are not wet shoes, Ms. Chen did something sorry for her family, not only did not stop the horse from the cliff, turning back to the shore, but also had luck and wanted to develop an improper relationship for a long time.
By now, not only the husband has left him, but also the people who know between parents and friends should also be cold-eyed and have nothing to say. It is really regrettable that it has ended up like this!
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