1, suspension bridge effect - heartbeat is not necessarily true love!
When a person passes the suspension bridge and sees that there is a member of the opposite sex, it is easy to think that he has encountered a love heartbeat at this time, because the heartbeat on the chain bridge will be mistaken for the performance of seeing the destined partner. Of course, you can also take advantage of this effect, arrange the opportunity to meet, people in the case of rapid heartbeat, it is easier to be hooked.
2, the Chikoni effect - why is the first love most memorable?
The Western physiologist Chikoney has done many interesting experiments and found that most people are very easy to forget one thing that has been done now, but they still remember one thing that was suddenly interrupted, unfinished, and unattained. Such a situation is called the Chikoni effect.
3, Oedipus complex - why does the TA fall in love with an older age than the TA?
Oedipus complex is also known as Oedipus complex, Oedipus and his mother love and kill his father, he does not know his parents, in a game of mistake to kill his father, and married his own mother, after which he learned the truth, can not bear the pain of the heart, he committed suicide.
Psychology is used to describe people with oedipal plots, who have a tendency to compete with their fathers for their mothers, and the tendency to self-destruct to alleviate pain because of the burden of morality and ethics.
4, the dark effect - the position of light and darkness is more likely to produce feelings?
In a darker position, both parties to the date can not see the other party's expression, it is very easy to reduce vigilance and generate a sense of security.
In situations like these, the likelihood of being close to oneself is much higher than in a brightly lit position. Physiologists call these conditions dark effects.
5. First cause effect (first sight effect) - why is the first impression of the first meeting important?
Refers to the first impression left by the first communication between people, established in the brain of the other party and occupying a dominant position.
6, the effectiveness of Gu Liezhi - why do men hate the old and like the new?
The effectiveness of Gu Liezhi shows the difference in thinking between men and women, men and women will have their own thinking angles, and men like the new and dislike the old psychological effect. Physiologists call the tendency of males to see dissent as a cure effect.
Similar statuses have now been shown by experiments in other mammals that humans are higher animals and inevitably leave traces of similar statuses.
Men have a tendency to like the new and dislike the old in their hearts, and it is not a personality defect, but a deep physiological and psychological foundation. But man has a conscience and a moral, and these things eventually take man out of the animal kingdom.
7. Exposure effect (repetition effect) - how to rub out the spark of love?
The more familiar you are with the situation, the more you like the situation, which is called the more you see effect in psychology.
In the 1960s, the physiologist Charentz did a similar experiment: He showed participants pictures of some people.
Some of the pictures appear more than 20 times, and some only appear once or twice. Participants were then asked to rate their love of the photos. The results showed that the more people who participated in the experiment saw a photo, the more they liked it.
Rather than seeing new ones only a few times, they prefer to see more than twenty familiar photos. That is, those who appear more often will like it more.
8, the law of complementarity - why are people with complementary personalities more likely to have feelings?
People can meet each other in specific content, which will produce a strong interpersonal attraction, which is a complementary law.
Studies have shown that a group of people with similar personalities is more likely to cause internal discord and disputes.
This is because people with similar personalities have similar needs, and when one thing is needed, everyone has a conflict of interest.
9) The Utility of Romeo and Juliet – Why is Hindered Love Stronger?
In the movie Romeo and Juliet, Romeo falls in love with Juliet, but because of their feud, their love is blocked by the feud, but the oppression does not separate them, but makes them love them more, until the two die.
This situation is what we call the "Romeo and Juliet utility", that is, when the external forces of love interfere, the relationship becomes more stable and love becomes more stable.
10. Projection effect - why narcissism?
The so-called projection effect refers to being self-oriented, thinking that they have certain characteristics, others will have the same characteristics as themselves, projecting their love, will, and characteristics onto others, and imposing cognitive impairment on others.
That is, in the cognitive process between people, people often assume that others have the same traits, hobbies, and tendencies as themselves, and often think that others naturally know what they think.
11, self-choice utility - why is it so difficult to choose in love?
The choices of three years ago determine our lives today, and our lives in three years' time will be determined by today's choices, which is the utility of self-selection.
Once people choose a certain path of life, they will have an inertia to go to this road, constantly strengthening their habits, and the utility of self-selection has a great impact on life.
12; The effect of the batting ball - why do quarrels become more and more fierce?
When we shoot the ball, the harder the ball jumps.
Meaning: the greater the burden borne, the higher the degree to which the human potential is exerted, and conversely, the lighter the burden of the person, the smaller the potential exerted.