After being born as a famous person, having unique resources is something that everyone yearns for. But why isn't this a besieged city? People outside the city look at the people inside the city who can get what they can't get in their lifetime without trying too hard, and that envy, that jealousy becomes the pressure and motivation for them to want to enter the city. But what about the people in the city? Whatever they do, they will be labeled and marked by the family. If he does a good job, outsiders will only say that he or she is using the strength of the family; if he or she does not do a good job, he will not get encouragement but only ridicule.
Today we are going to talk about such a figure in the besieged city, sun Yat-sen's granddaughter Sun Suifen. Although Sun Suifen can be called a bridesmaid, this identity has not brought her any benefits. In the summer of 1946, 8-year-old Sun Suifen was kidnapped at Shanghai Beach, and her mother spent $100,000 to redeem her. In order to avoid this happening again, Sun Suifen was sent to Hong Kong to study. After graduating from high school, Sun Suifen, who had excellent grades, originally obtained the admission qualification for a university in the United States, but due to the problem of nationality, Sun Suifen in Hong Kong could not get a visa to the United States, which completely shattered her Dream of American College. In desperation, Sun Suifen relied on her young beauty to apply for a Taiwan airline and became the youngest flight attendant in Taiwan at that time. At this time, she also met her future husband, an American pilot who had fought in World War II, Sun Conway.
It can be said that Sun Suifen is already a happy family, and the excellence of her three sons can make her spend the second half of her life carefree. However, Sun Suifen never gave up his dream of american college. When her eldest son was admitted to the University of Arizona, she resolutely followed her to the United States, and even became the oldest student at the university. Three years later, Sun Suifen received two diplomas in secretarial and finance, because Sun Suifen was the best financial graduate in the United States, and she also won the Wall Street Journal Award at that time, creating the history of the first female student at the University of Arizona to win the award, becoming the leading figure in the United States.
Without relying on family strength, Sun Suifen has done things that too many people can't do in their lifetime. As if that wasn't enough, Sun Suifen, who graduated from college and went into business for a year, became a commercial consul at the U.S. Department of Commerce and became a brilliant Chinese diplomat. A few years later, she was sent to the U.S. Consulate General in Shanghai as a commercial consul, and then to the Embassy in Paris as Commercial Counsellor. Sun Suifen later resigned from public office, founded a consulting firm in Hong Kong, and then traveled to Shanghai, Hong Kong and the United States for many years, contributing to China's international trade.
However, Sun Suifen's image of a strong woman to the outside world has not been recognized by her family. Sun Suifen's father Sun Ke and her relationship is not very good, Sun Suifen himself said: "Father and daughter are very distant; he has never cared about me at all; children in celebrity families rarely see their father at home", it can be seen that the relationship between father and daughter is very bad, and the lack of father's love is probably one of the reasons for Sun Suifen's strength.
Such a relationship led to the later Sun family did not even agree with Sun Suifen's identity, Sun Yat-sen's granddaughter Sun Suihua even questioned Sun Suifen's identity, she said, her father Sun Ke never mentioned Sun Suifang, Sun Suifen 2 people, nor DID DNA to prove the identity of the 2 people, "I don't know who they are." After Sun Ke's death, Sun Suifen went to the spiritual hall to worship, and was even driven away by Sun's family, causing a displeasure and dispersal. Even in 2011, Sun Huifen needed some organ transplants after a car accident, but no one from the Sun family was willing to stand up and donate these organs for her, and a few days later, Sun Huifen died.
A sentence in Mr. Qian Zhongshu's "Siege of the City" is really wonderful: "The people in the city want to come out, and the people outside the city want to go in." Sun Suifen's situation, why not?