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Recently, the 1 group of private photos of Olympic champion talent shooting girl Yang Qian was rarely exposed, which aroused the envy of everyone.2
What exactly did Yang Qian post on social platforms?
It turned out to be a group photo of Yang Qian with people from all walks of life in her life.
From the exposed photos, it can be seen that the photos with Yang Qian are all extraordinary people, including Xu Haifeng, who won the first gold in history at the Chinese Olympic Games, Li Wenwen, a weightlifting champion, and Shi Tingmao, a diving champion.
In addition, there are many stars, such as the strength singer Sun Nan, the popular singer Zhou Shen, the rain god Xiao Jingteng, the singer Yuan Yawei and so on.
After watching Yang Qian's many group photos, it is no wonder that netizens called it a "high-quality immortal combination photo".
At this year's Summer Olympic Games, Yang Qian, as a tsinghua student bully, won two gold medals in a row at the Olympic Games, which can be described as an outstanding talent with both ability and political integrity.
As the saying goes: "Things are clustered in groups, and people are grouped." "”
Flying with the phoenix, it will be a handsome bird; walking with the tiger and wolf, it will be a beast.
After reading it, it is not difficult to understand why Yang Qian can stand side by side with so many top talents in various industries.
Also attracting everyone because of its own excellence is the Olympic diving champion Quan Hongchan.
The 14-year-old Quan Hongchan made people remember her in the women's singles 10m platform final at the Summer Olympics with an unprecedented result.
Recently attended the Winter Olympics, she has become a "punch card attraction" in the eyes of everyone.
Major stars have rushed to take photos with Quan Hongchan, and even everyone has called Quan Hongchan "Tuan Pet Full Sister".
The philosopher Zhou Guoping once said:
"High-quality friendship always occurs between two excellent independent personalities, and its essence is that both parties sincerely appreciate and respect each other.
Therefore, it is important to make yourself truly valuable and worthy of being a high-quality friend, which is the primary contribution that a person can make to friendship. ”
At the end of the day, what kind of person you are, what kind of people you will attract.
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A friend of Mr. Yan Xiao's worked as a corporate consultant in a company, in short, to pull the boss to the company to pay for classes.
This friend is very attentive to his work and spends a lot of time every day circling around the clients, helping with various small things.
But what surprised him was that half a year had passed, and his performance was not ideal.
Later, he handed over the list of customers he couldn't figure out to the leader, and his face was full of disappointment and frustration.
However, within two weeks, he was surprised to find that the customers he had not managed had signed up for the class.
He was very puzzled and ran to ask the leader why.
The leader looked at his puzzled face and said:
"Talking about business is not just about having a good relationship, the most important thing is to let the other party get exchange value."
For example, Mr. Zhao, who is in the door and window business. I have a couple of real estate developer clients on hand, and I promise to help him connect with the developer as long as he signs up.
A single project is more than 10 million, what is the training fee of these tens of thousands?
I can do it because I have resources to exchange. ”
In "Minimalism", it is written:
"When you're not at a higher level, networking is not valuable, remember, networking is not pursued, but attracted."
Only an equivalent exchange can get reasonable help, although cruel, but this is the truth. ”
Adult socialization is mostly realistic.
When you have no value in yourself, no matter how many people call you brothers and brothers in ordinary days, they will eventually instinctively leave you at critical moments.
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I've seen a story.
There was a young man who went out on the street to buy bowls. When he arrived at the shop, he picked up a bowl and gently touched it with the other bowls.
When he heard the muddy, dull sound of the bowl touching the bowl, he always shook his head and went to test the next bowl in disappointment.
But to the young man's dismay, he tried all the bowls in the shop, but none of them satisfied him.
The boss on the side asked the young man why.
The young man unabashedly told the shop owner that he had learned a bowl picking technique from an elder.
That is, if the sound emitted by one bowl when it touches another bowl is crisp and pleasant, then it means that it is a good bowl, and vice versa is not a good bowl.
After the boss listened, he suddenly realized, he re-handed the young man a bowl, asked him to knock and try again, and told him that he would find a satisfactory bowl.
The young man was a little confused, but he did so.
Sure enough, the bowl he was holding in his hand quickly made a brisk and pleasant sound.
The young man did not understand, so he asked the boss for advice.
The boss laughed and said:
"The reason is very simple, the bowl you took at the beginning is itself a defective product.
You try the bowl with it, and the sound you get must be cloudy.
You want a good bowl, provided you get the one you take. ”
After listening, the young man suddenly became enlightened.
I remember that there was a scene in the previous program that made people look very eye-catching, several anchors of CCTV gathered together, the female anchor was intellectually decent, the male anchor had a good face, and the picture was very harmonious.
But what everyone doesn't know is that what really brings them together is not work, but the diligent self in those nameless years.
In the program, several anchors revealed their academic achievements:
Zhang Lei: "I was the number one in the art category at that time. ”
Nigmat: "I'm the first, too." ”
Kang Hui: "Who is not the first?" ”
Sabine: "Sitting with a bunch of people who still need exams, really... What is a candidate? ”
Tasting this short chat content can only show that when you are good enough, there will always be all kinds of excellent people around you.
Rhonda Byrne says in The Force:
"Everyone has a magnetic field around them, and no matter where you are, the magnetic field will follow you, and your magnetic field attracts people and things with the same magnetic field."
In this world, it doesn't matter who you know, what matters is who you are.
The biggest connections of adults are ourselves.
Writer Lian Yue said: "Don't worry that you don't have connections, you have to worry that you haven't grown." ”
The so-called networking is really not to work others, but to work yourself.
Many times, society is like a cone, and everyone climbs to the top of the cone on the surface of the cone.
Your distance from people of the same level, in different realms, is the radius of the plane circle you are in.
Only the higher your level and the closer you are to the top of the cone, the shorter the distance you will have to people in other fields.
On the contrary, if your ability and status are not worthy of your ambitions, all the social interactions you do are futile.
Instead of indulging in vague connections, it is better to run yourself and be your own backer.
If you bloom, the butterflies will come.