Zhang Wenci, who has just turned 50, has been keen on douyin in recent years, and in addition to live broadcasting with goods, she also opens live broadcasts from time to time to interact with netizens. On the day of his birthday, Zhang Wenci generously shared his 50-year-old speech on Douyin, believing that old age is not shameful, but is experiencing the most attractive and wise moments in life.
In the clip, Zhang Wenci holds the birthday cake in his hand: "Today is my 50th birthday, I have been beautiful for so many years, what else do I want?" I'll accept myself getting old and slowly getting wrinkles, but that's not a problem. I don't think there is any shame in being old, but being old doesn't mean that you are a worthless person. The current age is the most attractive and intelligent time in life. ”
Suddenly confronted with the identity of the leftover woman - there is no age to marry, only love that should be married
Zhang Wenci, 49, has shifted her career focus to the mainland in recent years, and in order to gain more discussion in the mainland, Zhang Wenci also opened a Douyin account to interact with netizens.
Zhang Wenci, who just had her birthday, stepped into 50 years old, even though she has been single for many years, she still has a vision of love, looking back at her past fragments, she once said: "Even if you are 80 years old, you can get married!" Nothing was wrong. At the same time, she also quoted a sentence that she liked very much: "There is no age to marry, only love that should be married, no matter what age, there is the right to pursue their own happiness." 」 ”
Zhang Wenci, who was recently ridiculed by netizens, immediately made a film to fight back against the other party's sour words, saying: "Even if you are 80 years old, you can get married!" There was no problem. ”
Zhang Wenci also advised single people that it is not very important to live to be single until many years old, do not choose to marry because of being teased, family pressure and other reasons, the most important thing is how to look at life and make yourself happier. Finally, Zhang Wenci said that he was still patiently waiting for a real marriage partner, frankly said that he did not mind what others said, and Zhang Wenci, who can now suddenly face criticism, has also experienced a bitter childhood and a "fear period for leftover women".
Childhood bumpy personality introverted, once lost by the faint drug was criticized for "Bo out of place"
The 49-year-old Zhang Wenci also encountered several loves before and after entering the industry, but the young she did not know how to love and be loved, so that several relationships failed to blossom.
Zhang Wenci did not have a happy childhood, the family was poor, her parents divorced when she was 4 years old, the living estate encountered street bullying incidents, but did not dare to tell the family about the matter, childhood only relied on the elderly grandmother to take care of their four siblings, in the face of the above, but also slowly made her personality become lonely and introverted, she always hopes to solve the problem on her own, but in fact, deep in her heart, she longs to be taken care of, loved, not alone.
Many years ago, Zhang Wenci was faced with the suspension of his career, and Zhang Wenci had to find another way out of his career. When Zhang Wenci was asked about her first love when she first entered the industry, she said that when she was 17 years old, she was stunned by a man and lost herself, but the next day she woke up to see that the incident was fermented in a big way, accusing her of "Bo out of place" The news was overwhelming, at that time, she was not deep into the world, so she was idle by the company, in the face of career stagnation, Zhang Wenci only had to find another career way out.
Zhang Wenci shared in an interview that she fell and was injured more than once on the love road, and she talked about one time when she was broken up, she even grabbed the other party's foot and knelt down to be reunited, pulling tightly to prevent the other party from leaving, but instead she was kicked away by the other party. There was an ex-boyfriend who reminded her to love herself more in a relationship, and when the boy broke up, he said that he did not have a chance to cook a noodle for her, which meant that women should let men take care of her in a timely manner. Looking back on the past, Zhang Wenci found that she loved too tightly and did not know how to love, but now that she has learned to live and be alone, she also said that her current mentality of love is like the song "Don't Alarm Love", waiting for a suitable "him".
Zhang Wenci said that when he was young, he did not understand love, and was an iceberg that always made his suitors experience some frustration. Zhang Wenci was bullied in her childhood, insecure at work, frustrated in love and emotionally depressed. Zhang Wenci's current mentality is like the song "Don't Alarm Love", and he has also learned to live alone and be alone. Zhang Wenci's appearance without makeup is also relatively pure.
Use time to awaken true love Self-life precipitation prepares for happiness and long-term marriage
Zhang Wenci shared his philosophy of life with netizens on Weibo: "Don't compare! Your biggest enemy is not others are yourself, no one can hurt me, only yourself can hurt yourself! ”
Zhang Wenci once thought that she would marry her ex-boyfriend, although the result was not a problem, and then she gradually stepped into the "leftover girl period" after being single for many years, and she also thought about the life event of marriage.
I once thought, it is better to get married once, so that others will not think that I have no one to want, but once I think about it, I feel so childish, I can get married at any time if I want to get married. --Zhang Wenci
A man who knows how to cherish me and appreciate me, he will definitely love me as an imperfect person, my shortcomings, my oolong, stupidity, in his eyes is cute, I hope there is such a man to appear. --Zhang Wenci
In the face of all kinds of past in life, Zhang Wenci, who was 46 years old at the time, said in an interview that although she did not have love to nourish, she was full of hope for love, and in 2010, she believed in Christianity, faith brought her a change of birth, and now her view of love is "don't alarm love", hoping to use time to awaken true love, looking forward to slowly simmering this love with love and patience.
Although this love lacks stimulation and impulse, it has more steadfastness and stability, Zhang Wenci also said: "Everyone has a past, don't stay in the past." I hope to encourage people facing adversity to see the good side of themselves, and the value of life is not defined by others. And the waiting in it is not an absolute emptiness, but still a space for self-life to precipitate and self-correct, but also a preparation for a happy and long-term marriage.