#"Flashing Moments" Theme Essay #Issue II I often hear people say: This is my good friend; this is my girlfriend; this is my brother... In your spare time, call on friends and friends, push cups and cups, a lively scene! I feel that in this life, people are harmonious, friends are everywhere, and smoked is not happy! In times of crisis, call the heavens and the earth unspiritual, look around in a daze, and have no one to trust! There are also friends, usually very close, and after borrowing you a sum of money, they disappeared, and they disappeared out of thin air! From this, I can't help but sigh: my friend was actually used to eat meat and drink wine! There are no real friends in the world!
Is this really the case? The answer is no. It is because I did not clearly classify my friends in the first place. They are all naturally approached in life and interaction, and slowly become so-called friends. These friends are all packed in a basket by you, only the distance of the relationship is intimate, there is no qualitative classification.
The Ming Dynasty scholar Su Jun made a scientific classification of friends in the "Record of Chicken Singing Puppets": "Morality and righteousness, transgression, fear of friends; Slow and urgent, dead and alive can be trusted, close friends also; Sweet words, game conquest, nickname also; Harmony is mutually exclusive, affliction is mutually inclined, and thieves are also friends. "It turns out that making more fearful friends, close friends, perfunctory nicknames, and staying away from thieves is our correct way to deal with the world!"
As the saying goes, a fence has three piles, and a good man has three gangs. The person who helps a good man must be a person who is afraid of friends and close friends; if you choose a nickname and a thief to help, hehe, then the good man will slowly become a bitch!
So, how do you make your friends? My own experience is that sincere communication, calm observation, time experience, event testing, big waves and sand, will eventually leave shining gold. Of course, I must also continue to improve myself, communicate with my heart, and strive to become gold in the eyes of others, and a friend like gold is a true friend!
Friends, please also tell your views and experiences on making friends, and also for everyone to learn from each other [prayer] [prayer]