<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > want to harvest happiness in life, starting with understanding the I Ching</h1>
The I Ching: "It is a treasure book to unlock the code of happiness in life in the universe!" ”
The essence of the I Ching is the "Three Easy Sayings", that is, change, simplicity, and difficulty.
Change: It is change, which means that everything in the world is changing and developing all the time, nothing in this world is immutable, if you leave this change, everything in the universe will be difficult to form.
Simplicity: Refers to the complexity and profundity of things in the world, once human wisdom is reached, they can be transformed into problems that people can easily understand and deal with.
Not easy: It means that under the premise that everything in the universe is changing, there is only one thing that remains unchanged, that is, the thing that conjures up everything is unchanged; that is, the law of all things changing is eternally unchanged.
The so-called difficult is the basic balance; change is development and change, that is, imbalance; simplicity is that all the complex things in the world can be summarized by the simplest symbols. Development and change, imbalance is absolute and eternal, and balance is relative and temporary.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > learn to accept suffering</h1>
The I Ching says: "One yin and one yang is the way." "Everything in the world is one yin and one yang, and there are both positive and negative sides.
I think of an interview with Chai Jing: "I can't remember what year, month and day, Chai Jing sent a text message to Fan Ming saying, fortunately, we are not old, not decayed, not obedient to life." "Hopefully, thirty or fifty years from now, we'll all be able to say that to ourselves."
The road of man's life will not be a smooth road, there are many potholes in the road, there are also many turning roads, can we calmly accept the worst and worst things in life? Do we have the wisdom to choose the path that is best for us? When we encounter various blows or changes in life, when we face various crises, all kinds of fears, all kinds of worst situations, such as you just lost a good job, or lost a very important person, or even suffered a divorce, you were betrayed by friends, you were laid off, you were framed, you were abandoned, the company went out of business, the business failed, etc., so bad that it could not be worse, even drinking water was choked, at this time, how to face your heart? What would you do? Are you insisting? Or give up?
The Buddhists say that defilements are bodhichitta, defilements are yin, and bodhi is yang. Looking at it backwards, this is wisdom, that is, harmony. There will be no worries, and there will be no need to complain. The world has never been lucky, luck is definitely not accidental, everything you do will have surprises waiting for you, there is no way in vain in the world. Everything must have a cause, difficulties are the lessons that life gives you to hone, everything is to test you! Because God wants you to be good enough, it will only make you go through some tribulations. If you want to achieve great achievements, then your efforts are more difficult than ordinary people, the road is more rugged, you have to endure what ordinary people can't tolerate, pain ordinary people can't hurt, and the final harvest is of course more dazzling than ordinary people. God is fair, how much pain you endure, will give you how much in return. So you are only responsible for excellence, and the rest is left to God.
Some roads can only be walked by you alone, and others really can't help you. We all know that many great men and saints have been successful after experiencing great torture and hardship, and the sunshine is always after the wind and rain. Let's look at some case studies: Who has the easy life? Is it easy to hook up? Revival. Is Jiang Ziya easy? 72 years old to survive the head. Is Cao Cao easy? Hundreds of thousands of troops were destroyed. Today's Chu Shijian, sentenced to life imprisonment, made a comeback at the age of 75. Is King Wen of Zhou easy? Trapped in Qiangli, he spent six years in prison, in order to pass the time to seriously study a mutilated I Ching, which led to the "Bagua Map of the Heavenly Days of King Wen"; Cao Xueqin would not have been able to write "Dream of the Red Chamber" if he had not had a rough life; if Hong Xiuquan had successfully passed the examination, there would have been no later Hong Tianwang; if Ji Gong had not been unfortunate at home, he would not have produced a generation of senior monks; if Han Xin had not been humiliated by his crotch, there would have been no later Marquis of Huaiyin; and Zhang Liang would not have obtained the Huangshi Art of War if he had not picked up three shoes under the bridge If the Tang monks had not experienced the ninety-nine eighty-one difficulties, they would not have been able to obtain the True Scriptures. There is also a story, as everyone knows, that Saion lost his horse, and he knew that it was not a blessing? That's the way it is. You might say, gee, I'm really miserable now, you see I have this disease? You see I'm accomplishing nothing? You see that my house leaks in the overnight rain, and the boat is late and meets the first wind; you see that my feelings have not been smooth; you see that my business is getting worse and worse; you see what I do and what I can't do. But you know, Saion is not blessed to be lost. How do you know this isn't a good thing? Good things are more grinding. You say you had an easy time? That's God's test of whether you can afford the big job? That is to prepare for the arrangement of good things for you, not to live up to the kindness of Heaven to you. Everyone comes into the world with a mission. Whether you can complete it or not, whether you can have it or not, everything is in your own hands. You have to learn to accept all the good and bad things that come from God's arrangement. Treat it with a calm observation attitude, and the reason behind this incident is also to stimulate your potential power. Everything you do has surprises waiting for you, and everything is worth waiting for and sticking to! In this process, you just need to accept it and work hard.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > learn to forgive others</h1>
The I Ching says: "The Ninth Day: Repentance." Lose the horse, do not chase, self-recovery. See the wicked, no blame. ”
The meaning of this sentence is to say: the first nine, there is no need to regret, the lost horse does not have to look for, it will come back on its own. If you meet bad people on the way, there will be no disaster.
In life, when we make mistakes ourselves, we can forgive ourselves in a short period of time, make excuses for ourselves, always stare at the faults of others, and it is always difficult to forgive each other when others make mistakes. When there is a conflict with people, unwilling to forgive others, then hatred spreads in the heart like a weed, gradually covering all corners of the heart, so that the heart can not see the sun, and what is felt is desolate and dark.
"You don't have to stand at the age of 50 and regret the life of a 30-year-old. Nor do you have to stand at the age of 30 and regret the love of a 17-year-old. We can't stand on the later heights and judge ourselves at that time. ”
For a person, anger is to punish yourself for the mistakes of others, if you want to make people live comfortably, you must first learn to truly release and forgive others from the heart, and finally release yourself.
There is no road in vain, and every step counts. How to see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain? The sword blade comes out of the grinding, the jade is not a tool, and it is long and wise to eat a grain. Just like feelings, you don't experience scumbags, how do you meet good men?
Even if you are abandoned, deceived, betrayed, ignored, lonely, sad, don't hate the person who hurt you, don't curse, don't be emotional, don't fight back, don't criticize. What can happen in the present moment, the person who leaves you, means that none of them belong to you. Even if the choice belongs to you, it will not belong to you in the future. So let him go, heal himself, follow your heart, be yourself again, forgive others.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > learn to be grateful to your parents</h1>
The I Ching says, "Qian is heaven, for the Father, and Tianxingjian." Kun is the ground, for the mother, the terrain kun. Parents are the foundation of heaven and earth. ”
Perhaps some people have been well taken care of since childhood and feel selfless fatherly love and motherly love. The world is big, there are no wonders. There is no guarantee that every family's children will be able to enjoy love from an early age. Whether your parents are right or bad, no matter how old your parents abandoned you, even if you are an orphan, you must be grateful to them from the bottom of your heart! Say Mom and Dad in your heart, I love you very much, I love you at any time, I love you and will never change. Thank you for bringing me into this world. Parents are the ones who give you life, they are great, and for this alone, you must be grateful to your parents!
When we are older, we have limited mobility, and we should never abandon our parents for being slow to move, because we can never imagine how patiently they taught us to walk when we were young. When my parents were younger, they were probably more spirited than we were! It was for us that my parents were tired and bent over. If one day, the parents have become old, the legs and feet can not be roped, we must remember: to see the parents is to see their own future, filial piety must be timely.
No matter how busy my parents are, no matter day or night, rain or wind, as soon as we are sick, they will immediately put down everything they are busy with, hurry up and take them to the doctor, and love us all night. When parents are sick, how much can we do? Is it really a long-term hospital bed without filial piety? There are often news in society that children do not support the elderly, can we be a person who takes care of parents with dedication and responsibility, filial piety comes first, we must be grateful to our parents, accompany our parents and filial piety to our parents.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > learn to change ideas</h1>
The I Ching says: "The Way of Heaven is profitable and humble, and the evil of humanity is humble." ”
Lao Tzu also said in the Tao Te Ching that the same idea is that it is better to hold on to it than to have it. Instead of overflowing by filling it up, stop the perfusion as early as possible. Never be complacent and remain humble.
Foreigners have never read the I Ching, but those who are strong hold similar ideas. Jobs, for example, has a classic quote: Stay Hungry Stay Foolish. The translation means, that is, to remain hungry, to remain ignorant.
A person who has overeaten is in a state of fullness; a person who thinks that he has learned enough and thinks that he is great is a manifestation of self-righteousness and complacency. Jobs put forward this sentence, that is, to get rid of complacency, to remain in a state of hunger and thirst, to remain in a state of ignorance, so as to maintain passion to seek knowledge and explore the world with a new vision. It is precisely because Jobs adhered to this concept that he created the Apple brand.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > learn to diet carefully</h1>
The basis of a person's survival is first of all the body, and then the creation of value. Mao Zedong said: "The body is the capital of the revolution." "Before doing anything, doing anything is the same, first of all, the premise is that physical and mental health. A person who does not eat well and sleeps well simply does not have the energy to play themselves and create value!
The I Ching says: "There is thunder under the mountain, Yi." Gentlemen speak with caution and eat and drink. ”
Evil comes out of the mouth, and sickness comes out of the mouth. Once the speech comes out, there can be no recurrence, and once the diet is in, there can be no return. Therefore, the two things of speech and diet are very important. What should be said, to be said; what should not be said, silence is golden. What should be eaten, eat well; what should not be eaten, resolutely do not eat. With this kind of self-control, then the person's body and energy will become stronger, and slowly, things will become more and more smooth.
< h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > learn to let go</h1>
The I Ching says, "The tycoon Zhen is not to blame." And the world is at any time, and the righteousness at any time is great. ”
Between heaven and earth, man and nature, although they influence each other, man must follow the laws of natural change, conform to the heavens and the earth, the change of the four hours, the change of the sun and the moon, the change of stars, and the endless life.
There is a saying that no matter who is missing, the earth will still work. With the strength of the individual, Irreversible nature, can not change the law. Therefore, people must learn to go with the flow, have to give up, and learn to let go appropriately.
When a person can do: understand the essence of the I Ching, learn to accept suffering, learn to forgive others, learn to be grateful to parents, learn to change concepts, learn to diet carefully, and learn to let go. Only in this way can you change adversity, attract good luck, increase the energy field, the road of life, go more and more smoothly, and do the above seven points to help you find happiness. So crisis is often a turning point, and happiness is at the turn!
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