Text/Ye Xiaodan
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Zeng Guofan said:
"Half of the world's affairs are radicalized and forced."
It is often said that people grow up overnight.
In fact, the maturity of anything changes from quantitative to qualitative, and the same is true of human maturity.
If everyone can constantly polish their will in all kinds of frustrations, pains, and tortures, and sharpen themselves in an environment of excitement and compulsion.
In time, something will be achieved.
True maturity, usually silent, is also whipped into it.
Just like those who seem to be gentle on the outside, in fact, there are cold-blooded, rational, restrained, and patient, but they will not be easily displayed.
Because they live sober enough, but also calm enough, free in the face of things, clear thinking, but they like to pretend to be stupid, will not easily express their inner thoughts.
As Mario Puzo wrote in The Godfather:
"People who see the essence in one second and those who spend half their lives unable to see the essence of a thing are naturally different fates."
Only when a person constantly polishes his personal will, thinks for others, and improves his thoughts and vision, and has a lofty pattern, can he make an excellent life accompany him to the end.
Cancer
Cancer is always accustomed to responding to other people in a strong, sensitive and thoughtful form, even if it is something that seems insignificant to him, it can still be treated properly.
Many people often feel bad about Cancer because they always try their best to treat some things kindly, but they don't get the respect and recognition of others.
But in fact, cancers do a lot of things wishful thinking, even do not like to seek welfare, in their view, too obsessed with gains and losses and interests, will make them more tired.
These guys are delicately aware of the quality of the environment, the social atmosphere, the reactions of others, and their own emotions, revealing a strong sensitivity.
This sensitivity sometimes prompts them to become a gentle listener, to be an active listener, but sometimes they become very introverted and even refuse to integrate into other circles due to disappointment.
At worst, they become people who are overly fond of self-preservation and even start to become cold-blooded.
One of the most obvious manifestations is that no matter what they do, Cancer has a strong, or excessively subjective opinion, and cannot listen to anyone's opinion.
This involves that they do not listen to each other's advice, but do not believe others, good do not believe, bad is more difficult to believe.
Over time, Cancer lives in his inner world.
Of course, this state of living in the inner world set by the self is not without some benefit.
Just as everyone in this life needs to return to the heart and look inside, in order to truly find the true self, and in the process of self-cultivation, can we truly achieve the goal.
If you find the direction of life in your private life, then Cancer can still exert his personal potential, such as delicacy, concentration, patience and deep thinking, and at the same time nourish himself, he can also enlighten others to go to a larger world.
In this state, Cancer undoubtedly lives a safe life, but also very transparent, in the open-minded road of life, more able to maintain excellent performance all the way, complete a beautiful life.
Aries
In life, Aries can usually give people a feeling of strength, strength, independence and bravery.
Although Aries cannot listen as well as Cancer in the human world, the serious side of love and righteousness also makes these guys like many people.
In fact, Aries is always very warm to people, even to the point of enthusiasm, so that in reality, they also have a good popularity.
However, they are easily bored, often have a three-minute enthusiasm for many things, tend to appear restless, and once they fall into some kind of obsession, Aries people are self-centered and rarely follow the advice of others.
Especially when they suffer from the neglect, neglect and betrayal of others, Aries will breed a vengeful mentality, and even begin to be disgusted, even if they do not want to go to this step, but they will tell themselves that they must become cold-blooded to avoid being hurt again.
Once Aries is angry, he will become flying, and he always feels that he not only knows everything, but also stands on his side, always correct, so he never compromises.
On this level of thought, Aries will think that this is a style of temperament that is quick and vengeful, a manifestation of thoughtfulness and open-mindedness, so they will divert their interests and then forget the unpleasant past less vengefully.
At such a time, Aries will regard the other party as their enemy or a passerby who does not have to treat it with heart, even if the relationship is better, when it is time to let go, it can still give up fiercely.
In fact, these guys are particularly self-sufficient, especially after they have honed some survival skills or gained some insight into human sophistication, they will be quite independent, sober and comfortable to be themselves.
At this time, no one can limit them, of course, Aries will also treat life in the way they like, and rarely seek the opinions of others of any nature.
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