I'm a, and I'm dead set on falling in love with a man I shouldn't love. When I left everything to be with him, he chose to escape. Since you love, why can't you use a snack? If you're just playing, at least make it clear to me! I was so disappointed and miserable, because because of him, I became nothing. ”
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Hawthorn and her husband fell in love through blind dates and then married, and they lived a relatively happy life.
Although she sometimes dislikes her husband, he lets her everywhere, and she has nothing to complain about.
The days went on like this, and she thought her whole life was so fixed.
However, when a man named Niu Long pursued her, she felt that love was coming.
Their beginnings began with the fact that Niu Long repaired her computer, and after that, they contacted her very frequently.
Hawthorn seems to have found someone who can talk to her, and every time Niu Long asks her out, she gladly goes to the appointment.
She told herself that she couldn't cheat, but she couldn't help herself and felt that she was gradually falling in love with him.
His words and demeanor moved her, and she liked the feeling of him and her having a heated discussion about something.
Finally one day, they were together, which made Hawthorn panic and excitement.
She can't let go of this relationship, decided to hide her husband and Niu Long secretly, she wants to wait for the day when she doesn't love, just let go.
However, the taste of stealing made her unable to extricate herself, and she finally did an irreparable stupid thing.
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Compared with her relationship with her husband, Hawthorn feels that the relationship between her and Niu Long is true love.
She often compares two people and feels that her husband is inferior to Niu Long in every way.
No matter what Niu Long did to her, she felt that it was love, that feeling of happiness, and her husband had never given it.
Niu Long often said to her, "I love you so much, if the two of us get married, it will be perfect." ”
At first, Hawthorn just listened casually, and she knew in her heart that the feelings of the two of them could not be seen.
However, over time, she also felt that she and Niu Long were a natural couple and should be married.
She asked Niu Long, "Are you really willing to marry me?" ”
Niu Long replied affirmatively, "Of course I do, I want to be with you every day." ”
She thought that Niu Long's words were from the heart, so she made a bold decision to divorce her husband.
All this, she hid from Niu Long and wanted to give him a surprise, but in the end, the surprise turned into fright.
When Niu Long learned that she had taken the liberty of divorcing, he was furious, "Who made you get a divorce?" How can you be so willful? ”
Hawthorn was confused, "All I did was for you!" I want to marry you and be with you. ”
"But I don't want to marry you, and you make it hard for me to do that?"
"Didn't you say you wanted to marry me before?"
"Everything you say at that time is a joke, and you don't understand it."
"How can you do this? I'm divorced for you, and you're talking to me now! ”
"I'm sorry, I love you who is married, not you who is divorced, what I want is to steal." 」
"Did you lie to me before?"
"What lies, don't make the words so ugly, you love me, we are just playing a trick."
Furious, hawthorn slapped him twice in a row, "Bastard! Didn't expect you to be such a person. ”
"Well, since you beat me, the two of us are over, and from now on, the well water will not violate the river water."
He was gone, leaving Hawthorn alone to weep bitterly, but she had nothing left, and she regretted it.
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Hawthorn said, "How slutty I am, I will be obsessed with falling in love with such an asshole man." I thought it was real love between us, but I didn't expect him to just play and play with me. I was so stupid that I believed his rhetoric and did such a stupid thing as divorce. Now that my husband is gone, my lover has run away, and I have nothing left but sadness. It's all my own doing, and I really hate myself. ”
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"Marriage is not like love, you can break up freely and then look for someone more suitable," Qiu Yan said. Getting married and falling in love again is cheating. Many people are obsessed with the pleasure of infidelity in marriage, but you must not forget to analyze what the person is trying to steal from you. Does he really love you? Will he give up everything for you? If he just says he loves you while in bed, you're just a toy for him. He's just trying to play with you, and if you love him blindly, in the end, it's only you who hurts. ”
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Mich said, "Compared with men cheating, women are even more unable to extricate themselves when they cheat." They enjoy the happiness of being cared for by their lovers, enjoy the passion and romance given by their lovers, so they will finally do stupid things. For the sake of your lover and your husband divorced, was your brain kicked by a donkey? A lover can only be a lover, and once you divorce him, he may not really want to marry you. Do you think a lover's love for you is real? Don't be silly, he's just playing with you. ”
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Two cheating people together, always you love me and I love you glued together.
That kind of soft love talk always makes people confused and make some stupid decisions.
All infidelity stems from avoidance, such people have no responsibility for feelings, do not know how to love.
They always think that when they are with their lovers, that kind of warmth is what they want, but in fact, they dare not face reality.
He said how to love you, let him take it to reality to try it, most of them will choose to run away.
He only loves you when he has an affair with you, and other times, he does not dare to take on the responsibility of loving you.
Therefore, either don't cheat, don't take it seriously, and then don't be conceited.
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