The sky contains every cloud, no matter how beautiful or ugly, so the sky is vast and boundless. The mountain contains every rock, no matter how big or small, so the mountain is majestic, and I would say that the teacher's love is more sacred and selfless because it tolerates every student, whether it is good or not.
My class Liu Ping dresses up very conspicuously every day. Years of homeroom experience have taught me that this is a girl who needs special attention. Through the understanding of the side, it was found that she had smoking behavior and had a tendency to fall in love. One day, as soon as I pushed open the door of the classroom, Liu Ping actually sat on the boy's lap, and the two of them acted very close. Privately communicated with Liu Ping several times, tried to understand her motivation for these behaviors, through the exchange found that she was very conflicted, on the one hand, she did not want me to have too much understanding of her personal situation, the performance is more resistant; on the other hand, I want to find a person to talk to. Children at this age have a lot of contradictions in their hearts, and only heartfelt care can make her willing to communicate and communicate with you. So I planned a "Hand in Hand tomorrow" theme class meeting with the class cadres to discuss how boys and girls interact. Because my sons were the same age as them, I tried to ask them how to educate my adolescent sons, to throw out my confusion in educating my own children, to let them think of ways to think of them, and to stand in their own perspective really gave me a lot of ideas, although their ideas will be a little childish, but I found that they have taken another strong step on the road to maturity and responsibility. It also brought me closer to them. Finally I told the students that who had any confusion could add me to WeChat alone. I deliberately glanced at Liu Ping, she was looking down, I knew that I listened to my words. After the class meeting, a person named "Grateful Rabbit" applied to add my WeChat friend, and she asked me, "Teacher, did you talk to someone when you went to school?" "Talk about it, it's normal to make friends in adolescence!" It is not normal not to talk about friends. "My intuition tells me this is Liu Ping." Teacher, did you talk about the object of the impact on learning? I said, "I really liked our squad leader at that time." But because I was short and fat, I felt that my appearance could not impress him, so I decided to conquer him with excellent results. When I got to college, I found out that he wasn't really my favorite type, but it's still good to look back on. There was no response from the other party, obviously thinking about something. A few seconds later, she sent me three tearful expressions. She told me that her parents were divorced, and she followed her father, who was always in a bad mood, and sometimes even scolded her, in order to hide her pain, so she kept heavy makeup and showed people with masks. Once, Wang Liang inadvertently saw her crying, the two began to communicate, Wang Liang slowly entered her heart...
Love can melt a frozen heart. We teachers should give more sincere care to our students. "Thank you for sharing your story with me, but have you ever asked yourself if you really love him?" Or is it out of gratitude for him? "So what should I do?" I found her impressed by my sincerity, "Kind bunny, if I can, can I ask you both to talk?" ”
Two days later, Liu Ping and Wang Liang found me, and I poured a glass of water for each of them, "Your current stage is the golden period of learning, there is no capital to say love, only your own continuous progress and growth, can you be worthy of the love that comes out of your mouth, is the greatest love for each other..." Pushing the heart to the stomach, both of them fell into contemplation. Three days later, when they found me, they obviously felt that Wang Liang's eyes looked at Liu Ping differently. Wang Liang took the initiative to say, "Teacher, let me talk about it." He turned to Liu Ping and said, "The teacher is right, I can't promise you anything now, I have to practice my skills hard, make myself excellent, we encourage each other, when we grow up and mature, then if you don't just thank me, let's hold hands again, but in the future if you have difficulties, I will help you... Liu Ping nodded vigorously with tears in his eyes. I gently took the two children in my arms. I know that the seed of a dream has quietly taken root in the hearts of two children.
Love is the foundation of education, without love there is no education, sow hope with love, seize the opportunity of education with a dedicated and dedicated heart, sow the seeds of hope in the hearts of every child, and let every seed of dreams blossom. I believe that caterpillars will always turn into butterflies; I believe that the dream of education can support the Chinese dream. I am willing to work with every colleague present to build a better tomorrow for vocational education with love!
Name : Xiao Yanmin
Unit: Vocational and Technical Education Center of Rongcheng County, Hebei Province
