A first-grade child in a primary school in Beijing was fined five or six times for two months.
The mother can't sit still, her own child is not a bear child, very eager for the teacher's approval, is punished to stand, will everyone's children's enthusiasm for learning?
Mom felt very wronged to be punished for some small things.
For example, in the after-school service, the daughter's arm was scratched and scratched, and she was punished for standing.
There was a piece of paper next to the seat, and it developed,
Lunch timed out, penalty stand.
Mom thinks, how can you just stop at every turn? Isn't there any other good way? This method is simple and crude, is it appropriate?
The child was punished for standing, and the mother was distressed.
The mother is not unable to tolerate the child being punished, being educated by the teacher, sending the child to school, the teacher does not care, how to care, it should be the real worry of the parents, but the mother has another little nine-nine in her heart.
Because of a small matter, let the child punish the station, tired first put aside, will hurt the child's self-esteem.
Will the child feel bad? Will children who have just entered school dislike the teacher and the school because of this?
In the face of such confusion in the inner world, it is best for my mother to communicate with the teacher.
After all, the children in the lower grades of primary school are not very strong in their judgment of things, and they cannot make a reasonable analysis of the results, and they may not be able to figure out why they were punished, or they figured it out at the time, and when they arrived at home, they could not say it clearly.
Therefore, we cannot believe what the child says. 、
Some mothers are actually "protecting calves", but they are afraid that others will say that they are "protecting calves", and their hearts are very entangled.
In fact, as long as there are doubts in your heart, you don't have to be afraid of what others say.
You can communicate with the teacher in a different way.
For example, teacher, the child has been in school for two months, how is the performance. My biggest concern was her discipline problem, at home, free habits, to the school whether there was disobedience.
There is such a deceptive beginning, if the child really has a disciplinary behavior, the teacher is naturally willing to talk to the parents. From the perspective of teachers, their goal in teaching and educating people is to comprehensively improve the quality of students.
Teachers love their posts and dedicate themselves to their work, care for and care for all students, respect the personality of students, and treat students equally and fairly.
Teachers treat students with strict kindness and will not physically punish or even covertly punish students.
If the child is punished, there must be a reason, and it is an educational behavior for the child that is made in the absence of other ways.
Therefore, lower your posture to communicate with the teacher, and the teacher will naturally present the child's performance to the child.
In this way, the mother can know the truth and change the imbalance in the heart.
Once the teacher says that the child is doing well and is very disciplined, parents may wish to tell the teacher about the day the child is punished and listen to what the teacher has to say.
Most teachers will tell the truth. Teachers tell the truth, we must also open our hearts, teachers will not be punished for no reason.
Just imagine, there are more than 40 children in a class, there are always some disobedient, the teacher is not strict, really can't control, manage the child is for the child's good.
Some children are really naughty, the teacher said several times it does not work, how to play, how to play, but also talk, get off the seat, very affect the teacher's lecture.
Therefore, the teacher's use of the penalty station is also a helpless move.
You can't always teach a child or two without lecturing in order to educate them?
Of course, if the teacher denies the penalty station behavior, it may indicate that the teacher has some problems, and the mother should communicate more with the child and pay more attention to the campus life to avoid unfair and harmful behaviors to the child's mental health.
At the same time, it is also more able to understand the child's attitude towards school and the performance of going to school.
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