Cuckoo Teacher:
As the saying goes: 20% of a person's success depends on IQ and 80% depends on emotional intelligence.
Regarding emotional intelligence, many parents mistakenly think that emotional intelligence is talkative, know how to deal with people, and know how to be smooth.
In fact, emotional intelligence refers to the ability to experience and use emotions.
Professor Goleman has proposed five dimensions of emotional intelligence:
1. Understand your emotions
2. Manage your emotions
3. Self-motivation
4. Recognize the emotions of others
5. The ability to properly handle interpersonal relationships
These abilities need to be trained, so if you want to cultivate your child's emotional intelligence in the family system, you must use reasonable and effective methods.
IQ determines a child's grades, and emotional intelligence makes a child's future!
Raising a "double business online" child is not only the care of his parents, but also the results of being willing to spend time and education.
Today, I recommend 7 "high emotional intelligence" movies for everyone, so that children can become the leaders of "Double Business Online".
These films have a wide range of themes, complex story interpersonal relationships, and children improve their emotional intelligence by watching the thinking and perspective of the movie characters to deal with things.
Teach children to feel their own emotions and to understand, understand, and respond appropriately to the feelings of others.
These inspirational stories can also give children a lot of positive energy, help children open a better future, and have a healthy and beautiful life.
1. "I Am Sam"
Love is nature and has nothing to do with IQ.
Referral Index: ★★★★★
Douban score: 8.9
Filmography:
Sam, who works at Starbucks, is an adult but has an intelligence level of only 7 years. By chance, he took in a wandering girl. The woman helped Sam give birth to a daughter and disappeared without a trace.
He named his daughter Lucy because he loved the Beatles' Lucy with Diamonds in the Sky. He loves his children very much.
Lucy grew up under Sam's care, and she found that her father could not understand the slightly more complicated story. She was refusing to grow up, hoping to be like her dad. The life of the father and daughter is so happy.
The district's education officials discovered this particular family, believing that Sam was incapable of caring for Lucy and took Lucy with them. Distraught, Sam is bent on earning back custody of Lucy, so he self-righteously goes to the best lawyer in the area...
Key Word: Family Affection Grows
Recommended for:
This is actually a very good crying movie, the law shown in the movie seems to be unkind, but in fact, the movie story is just an example, the law protects a large number of children who are not suitable for parents, and the story in the movie, since it is a special case, then the essence of the story is to try to prove that he is a good father and can raise his daughter.
Parents are highly recommended to watch with their children.
The film shows parents what is the most important thing in life. Truly love your child from the bottom of your heart, without any strings attached, so that you and your child will be happier.
Through watching the movie, you can also let the child realize that financial resources are not a problem, IQ is not a distance, and there is only affection between fathers and children that is unstoppable.
You can talk to your child about these:
1. Ask the child, what is the father's stupid behavior in the film, and what is his original intention?
2. Let the child talk about his own feelings about watching the movie and his evaluation of his parents.
Three pictures to feel the film:
2. "Never Compromise"
The difference between people is only the word "persistence".
Referral Index: ★★★★
Douban score: 8.4
Erin Brokovich is the archetype of the unlucky. She was married twice, but each marriage did not bring her happiness, but instead made her a single mother with three children in tow.
Unfortunately, after being involved in a traffic accident, she even lost the compensation lawsuit that she was determined to win. The lawyer who defended her, Ed, was half sympathetic to Erin because he felt guilty for helping her lose the case, and took Erin in to work in his law firm.
Erin's life was a little secure. While investigating a sewage complaint, Erin stumbled upon a highly toxic substance in the sewage, which the water company was perfunctory.
Weak woman Erin decided to use her weak shoulders to shoulder the burden of justice for the hundreds of polluted residents!
Key Words: Inspirational The power of perseverance
Adapted from the largest civil indemnity case ever in the United States, the film's focus on feminism and inspiration has the brightest light on julia Roberts' poor but never-give-up single mother, which is undoubtedly the most outstanding role she has created so far.
The preciousness of the film, from beginning to end, expounds an uncompromising spirit, and in the end, the little people rely on bravery and indomitable efforts to achieve their own achievements and help others.
Cultivate children's perseverance through watching movies, remind children that when you are also facing setbacks and difficulties, please believe that never compromise will always be a bright light to illuminate the way forward. No matter in what environment, whether it is good times or bad times, as long as you are indomitable, you will get strength.
1. You can ask your child which scene in the film you feel the most about and why?
2. Tell your child what behaviors of mothers in the film are worthy of recognition and which need to be avoided?
3. The Queen in Prada
Stick to yourself, and you are not alone on the road to success
Douban score: 8.1
Andrea Sanchez, who was new to society, came to the famous fashion magazine "RUNWAY" for an interview, and with her cleverness, she was chartered by the editor-in-chief Miranda Presley to serve as her second assistant.
At first, Andrea felt very aggrieved, even if she worked hard, she could not be appreciated, and she was remodeled by an old senior.
The job became smoother and smoother, and even replaced the position of the first assistant in Miranda's heart, and decided to take this smart girl to France. However, Andrea's change caused her to lose the love of her boyfriend and friends, which made her very conflicted.
After arriving in France, she learned that Miranda's position was not guaranteed, and she did not expect miranda to sacrifice her good partner for many years to keep her position, which made Andrea deeply disappointed, and she had the idea of withdrawing and leaving, where would Andrea go?
Key Words: Fashion Inspirational Growth
The film tells the story of a fledgling female college student who enters a top fashion magazine as an assistant editor-in-chief, strives to change herself in order to gain the appreciation of the editor-in-chief, and makes her work more and more comfortable with the help of her predecessors who are also working hard for her dreams, but after losing her boyfriend and friends, they all leave her and finally leave the magazine.
Some people say that the road to success is lonely, in fact, it is not, the first quality in the face of this colorful society is to insist on self, make different choices to have different lives, but should not lose their goals and directions.
Short-term confusion is not terrible, what is terrible is to lose yourself, you have to know what you really want in your heart to go, and then to pursue, to achieve.
The whole film conforms to the commonality of people in contemporary society, can resonate with the audience, and is an inspirational and positive film.
1. Ask your child to talk about his understanding of the workplace.
2. Discuss with your child the confusion that is easy to arise in the workplace in life and how to solve it.
4. Summer in Provence
Love is so simple.
Paul, an old man living in the countryside of southern France, suddenly welcomed three uninvited guests on a summer vacation - granddaughter and grandson from Paris.
The difference in cognition, combined with years of discord with his daughter, made it difficult for Paul to get along with the three young people. A few grandchildren came and went, and Grandma kept reconciling with them.
Unconsciously, Paul's emotional distance with his grandchildren has narrowed.
Key Word: Affection Warmth
The film uses the cooperation of the two generations of human chasm as the tension of the plot, and in the beautiful and bright country music, not only the social problems of the lonely old man are pointed, but also the charming French warmth, so that the simple life is loved, and the natural nature that is in the heart and spleen is enough to heal people's hearts, not to mention the bondage related to closeness.
Half of the film is about scenes, half about the restoration of the city by the countryside, and the clear light of the mountains illuminates the dark part of urban life. Let the countryside, especially the idealized countryside of Provence, exist in a rustic, beautiful and very humane way.
It is lively and smooth, small and delicate, a little less bloody than the healing film, and much less high-cold than the pure European ethics film. From beginning to end is a breath of even breath, relaxed, pleasant, wandering.
In addition to the beauty, the film guides the viewer to subtly express his feelings about different lifestyles, ways of thinking, and philosophies of life.
1. Ask your child why, the character you like the most in the film.
2. Talk to your child about the conflict resolution story of his or her family's different concepts.
5. The Cider House Rule
If fate's arrangement is too absurd, have the courage to break it.
Douban score: 8.2
Toby Maguire grew up in an orphanage where michael Kane, the director of the orphanage, cared for him. Maguire grew up healthy and happy with other orphans, and he also studied with Dean Michael Kane, mastering superb medical skills, especially gynecological surgery.
One day, Lieutenant Paul Luther brought his fiancée, Charlize Theron, to the orphanage for an abortion. After the operation, Maguire asked Theron if he could take him out into the world to see it, and Theron readily agreed.
Faced with the unknown that is about to be encountered, how should Maguire face it?
Key Word: Youth Inspirational
The film adopts the method of scattered life flow to express the specific time flow, presents local conflicts with dramatic events, and the sense of picture constructed has a more intimate and warm beauty.
This form of expression can make the audience clearly appreciate the director's expression intention and the feelings of the protagonist in the long shot.
From the three levels of the protagonist escaping from the rules, experiencing the rules, and formulating the rules, it is analyzed how he went from the beginning to the outside world, ran away from home to experience the choice and breaking of the rules, and finally repositioned his life and returned to the orphanage.
Through watching the movie, children can experience that if the arrangement of fate is too absurd, they should break this arrangement, only in this way can people better move forward.
1. Ask your child to explain how they understand the rules.
2. Ask your child to tell him what impressed him most about the scenes in the film and why?
6. Elizabethtown
A magical healing journey.
Douban score: 7.4
Drew fell into the bottom of his life, he brought hundreds of millions of dollars of losses to the company, and could not escape the fate of being fired by his boss and dumped by his girlfriend. In the midst of all the ashes, he devised a series of perfect but hilarious suicide plans in an attempt to die.
A series of phone rings halt his suicide —the news of his father's death leaves Drew with an imminent task, and he must return to the distant town of Elizabeth as soon as possible to deal with the aftermath.
And so, what follows is like a series of wonderful metaphors that give Drew a new look of hope from the bottom. He meets Claire, a flight attendant on the plane, who is beautiful, generous, empathetic, and always gives comfort to Drew when he is at his loneliest. Drew's mother, although always nervous, was deeply infected with her son's enthusiasm and optimism about life.
Under the warmth of love and affection, Drew gradually regained his confidence in life and strengthened, taking him out of the trough of life.
Key Word: Emotional Comedy
The film takes the theme of real life, but also adds elements of love and comedy, although ordinary, the emphasis is on touching. The film tells the story of how, after the deep blows of career failure, Drew has the idea of taking his own life.
At the same time, he received the news of his father's death, and in the process of returning to his hometown to attend the funeral, he had a series of encounters, especially in Elizabethtown, where his father finally stayed, he found himself and had more insights about life.
The film is made up of little stories, like the trivia in life. But if you look closely, every line and every action has its own meaning.
1. You can let your child talk about his own feelings about the life of the protagonist of the film.
2. Share with your child the ups and downs of life.
7. Mona Lisa's Smile
The story of the pursuit of women's independence and liberation.
Douban score: 7.8
In the 1950s, the social status of American women seemed to have improved significantly, but in the famous women's universities like Wesley, teachers taught students, still revolving around the future good marriage, and did not encourage them to take the initiative to acquire the knowledge they were interested in, nor did they pay attention to cultivating their mental qualities.
When the beautiful and mature Catherine graduated from college and came to the school as an art history teacher with ideals and enthusiasm, she ran into a wall to spread the seeds of freedom.
However, because of her fun, straightforwardness, enthusiasm, and profound knowledge, Catherine soon won the love of her students, and several of her students, Joan, who wanted to do a career like boys, and Li wei, who was lively and active, slowly showed their true temperament.
However, the news that another student, Betty, is getting married breaks the atmosphere of freedom and romance.
Key Word: Inspirational Education
"Mona Lisa's Smile" is said to be a female version of "Dead Poetry Society" because students who also maintain orthodoxy on campus and have the same good family environment follow the same life path arranged by their parents' schools. The same alternative teachers, the same stories that enlighten students on how to go their own way.
A question runs through the film: for women, how can they really realize their own value?
The answer has also been repeated: only those who take the initiative to make choices and put in the effort for it can have true happiness.
As catherine, the heroine of the film, said:
I came to Wellesley College because I wanted to make a change, but it was not honest for me to change for the sake of others.
After watching this film, children will naturally think about the value of life in their hearts.
1. Let the child talk about his understanding of value realization after watching the film.
2. Talk to your child about your life values.
The importance of developing children's emotional intelligence is unquestionable, so when does it start?
Professor Li Meijin, a famous educator, once mentioned the problem of children's emotional intelligence.
She believes that a person's emotional intelligence level can often be seen in this person's childhood stage.
At different stages of a child's life, there are different emotional development tasks.
Watching these movies with your child will help you achieve success in all areas of life, whether it is forming a close family or establishing healthy cooperation with others.