"He's not an idiot, he just treats the world with his own unique way of expressing himself."
This is the opinion given by many people about the autistic brother in the film after watching the movie "Rain Man". A child immersed in his own world, seemingly crazy and ignorant, is actually like a normal person, will take the initiative to love others, but also eager to be loved.
When money collides with affection, the two get close to each other's hearts on a fantasy trip. Every person who seems to have a character flaw actually hides an unknown past.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="4" > the shackles of the original family</h1>
As a two-male protagonist movie, first analyze the mercenary and unscrupulous normal human brother we see. His name was Charlie, and he was a car dealer, shrewd and handsome, and had a flexible mind. After we see the positive and optimistic side, he actually has a negative side.
Since his mother died as a child, his father was particularly harsh on him. After graduating from high school, he was taught by his father for stealing his father's car, and let him sit in prison for two days, and the two never interacted with each other. So in Charlie's life, although it looks sunny and cheerful, there is infinite sadness in the depths of the heart. The gap between the desire to be loved and the lack of love makes him always give people a sense of impersonality.
An unhappy childhood will affect a child's life. Even if you grow up, you will inadvertently bring this influence to your life, and you can't get rid of this shackle. Therefore, the influence of the original family has finally come to the front of the stage from the small life after many years, which has attracted people's attention. The impact of the original family has also become a hot topic of discussion, and they have begun to look for ways to solve the impact.
There is an old saying called "the bell must also be tied to the bell, heart disease also needs heart medicine", many times, in order to solve the influence of the original family, in fact, it is necessary to turn the eyes back to the original family. Only by changing one's own inherent perception from the root and completely breaking the previous psychological shadow can it be possible to cure this influence from the original family.
Once upon a time, Charlie thought that he would never forgive his father in his life, let alone reconcile with the other party because of money. However, after discovering his own brother and gradually recalling the past and his father in the process of interacting with his brother, all the problems were suddenly solved. The so-called strict and severed relationship turned out to be just that he was too one-sided in looking at the problem.
In order to ensure his healthy growth, the father would rather endure the pain of sending his eldest son to a nursing home. Making such a choice before the current situation that both are his own sons can imagine how much his father loves him. The psychological gap of not getting love is gradually made up after understanding his father's true thoughts and recalling his brother's companionship day and night when he was a child. What I thought was not loved was always the most cared for child.
When the source of the problem ceases to exist, the natural impact of the problem will cease to exist. On the road of life, only by letting go of the burden in our hearts can we move forward with ease. Be a positive person from the inside out, spend every day of your life happily, in order to live up to life. Therefore, try to face the pain of the original family, try to find a way to eliminate the pain, rather than evading and dodging, the person who faces the difficulties is a real warrior.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="4" > the "rain man" worldview</h1>
After understanding the haze on his brother, let's discuss the core of the film, "Rain Man".
The so-called "rain man" is autism, from the perspective of psychological proper nouns, refers to those who have special talents, but can not solve the daily life of people, society is commonly known as "idiot genius". There are people who are separated by geniuses and crazy people, and it is most appropriate to use them for this group. When the two coexist, they are not destined to be simple.
In the film, "Rain Man" has another meaning, that is, it refers to the song that his autistic brother often sang to his brother when he was a child. To some extent, the "Rain Man" has become the closest implication between the two brothers, witnessing the greatness of the brotherly love. And this song also became a turning point in the fate of the two, leaving a foreshadowing for the subsequent improvement of the relationship.
In fact, the public still has a discriminatory attitude towards rain people. People who cannot take care of themselves in the face of life and have no logic in their behavior are inherently incompatible with this society. Especially when their thinking cannot be understood by ordinary people, they will always be labeled as "strange people" at the first time. As a result, the "Rain People" became a unique group and were gradually excluded from the world.
For example, Charlie, who has just met his brother, and the strange girl who sees him as autistic and refuses to date him, and the restaurant waiter with strange eyes, etc., vividly explains the attitude of society to the rain people. However, people must not rely on the first impression only, only after really understanding can we judge others.
As quoted at the beginning of the article, autism without self-care is defined as an idiot, but in fact they are gifted, and there is always one aspect that stands out. They live in the world they have constructed, living with the world in their own unique way of expression. Although it seems out of place, there is always a reason for them to think that they are also following the order in their minds.
Another point to pay special attention to is that "rain people" are also people, and we must also learn to treat them with an attitude towards normal people. Although they don't seem to know the world, we can see from the process of Charlie and his brother getting along that autistic children can also feel love and take the initiative to give their love. Born as human beings, we all long to live in a world surrounded by love and feel the warmth of this world, you and I, and they are also like this.
At the end of the film, when we see the autistic brother put his head on his brother's head and reluctantly count the time of the next meeting with his brother, even if he can't say love, we can clearly feel it. Silence is better than sound, ruthlessness is better than emotion, and sometimes, the sense of picture can still bring people a strong impact. A parting of love will express the reluctance to the fullest.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="4" > conclusion</h1>
In real life, in fact, there are many people who are like brothers or brothers. The former lives in the shadow of the original family, and the latter lives in a self-constructed world, both belonging to people with mutilated personalities. But I believe that love warms everything and heals everything. When we are accustomed to giving our own love, when we are accustomed to accepting the love given by others, we can always heal the wounded heart while being warm.