Introduction: In fact, many people do not know, whether it is boys or girls sometimes do things will be very thoughtful, but often because of this, it will be misunderstood by many other parties, so don't just use your single idea to judge each other's ideas! Study hard, maybe this is the code word for "love"! Maybe he has a crush on you!
First, in fact, many boys do not know
[01] If you confess to the girl you like and she refuses, it does not mean that she does not like you, it may be that she is shy, or wants to see your sincerity; she agrees, does not mean that she is very casual, because she also likes you and is waiting for you to speak.
[02] If a girl likes you, you should be clear about your feelings, like her with him, but do not step on multiple boats, to play with her feelings, that will not be worth the loss; if you do not like her, do not agree because you are bored or indifferent, then you will hurt her, maybe hurt yourself.
[03] She is willful and even unreasonable to you, not that she is really unreasonable, but that she wants to spoil you, let you coax her, and make her feel pampered. And you have to know that she does this because she trusts you, depends on you, and cares about you.
[04] She does not take the initiative to send messages or call you, does not mean that she does not care about you, does not want you, just wants you to take the initiative to find her, let her feel that you care about her, will think of her for the first time.
[05] She sent you something on some holidays, saying that she bought it casually, and you must thank her, because it was what she spent a lot of effort to prepare, but she was afraid that you would not like it, so she pretended that it didn't matter.
[06] If she praises other boys in front of you or looks at other boys, it is not that she thinks differently, but that she wants you to be jealous of her and wants to know how important her position in your heart is.
[07] If she is unhappy, it is not necessary that you buy something for her, or comfort her with a lot of words that even you can't understand, as long as you hold her and let her feel your presence and feel your temperature, she will inexplicably collapse and feel at ease.
[08] If you frequently contact other people of the opposite sex, she knows, although the surface pretends not to care, but in fact, the heart has been sour to the extreme, just do not want to show it, afraid that you will say that she is nervous, unreasonable, and then start arguing.
[09] You are good to her, she does not act as happy as you think, not that she does not feel your good, but she does not know how to express, but her heart must be touched by your goodness.
[10] If you find that she deliberately deceives you, it is a white lie, because she is afraid that the darker she looks at it, the more you misunderstand. You have to believe in her, she loves you and doesn't want you to be hurt.
[11] If you have a quarrel and she still has tears, it is not that she wants to play tricks and be unreasonable, but that she compromises, and you try to coax her, and she will be obedient to you (reasonable request)
[12] She does not ask about your past, not because she does not want to know, but because she is afraid that you will not completely let go of your heart, because if you can face your past calmly, then you will definitely tell her.
[13] If she always compares herself to the girl you have interacted with in the past, then you must not think that she is thinking about your past, but she does not have enough confidence in herself, you have to tell her how much you love her and let her rest assured.
[14] When you ask her what she wants to eat or where to go, she says that she is casual, not perfunctory, but that she wants to accommodate you and let you decide.
Second, in fact, many girls do not know
[01] Although we haven't seen each other for a long time, you will find that all the things saved in his mobile phone are ambiguous text messages that you sent him.
[02] He deliberately asked you to sing to him, but actually liked the cute temper you showed in your gentle argument with him.
[03] Although he says that he doesn't care if you associate with other boys, whenever a strange man comes into contact with you, he will always secretly lock his eyebrows, because he cares about you.
[04] He is not afraid of you getting angry, but he is afraid that you will still ignore him after getting angry and having lost your temper, and the boy's feelings are equally delicate and fragile.
[05] Every day his mind is full of you, even walking accidentally fell on his head, when he got up to pat the dust on his body, the corners of his mouth will still have a smile, it is because he is thinking about you.
[06] Some words are enough to say once, because you already know him, and if you say too much, he will feel invaluable.
[07] He will not pick you up at the airport as you expect - holding a rose and shouting "dear", he just naturally takes your luggage, and then hugs you with his eyes as if in pain and says: "Hey, how did you get it, how did you get skinny like a bean sprout?" ”
[08] When you lose your temper, he will only wait silently for you to finish the fire, and finally slowly say: "You have a class tomorrow, go to bed early..."
[09] He always calls you little girl, but every time he makes a big decision, he always wants to listen to your advice.
[10] He doesn't like toy bears, but he keeps putting the bears you gave him on the bedside.
[11] When he misses you very much, he will buy roses for you, and then wait for you foolishly, not knowing that he is holding the moon season; but it does not matter, in his heart - it is still a rose.
[12] Even if his mouth is not sweet, his kiss can convey all his enthusiasm for you.
[13] When you whisper something very "sour" to him, he will pretend to be very serious, but his heart is very sweet and sweet.
[14] If he can't see you very often, he will keep himself busy in order not to think about you, because he knows that if he thinks about you, he will be out of control.
[15] He will keep your photograph in his wallet so that he can be with you at all times.
[16] He likes to crowd with you on the bus because he likes to listen to your breathing up close.
[17] If he is sluggish during the meal, it is because there is no you on the other side, and the rice in his mouth is not tasteful.
[18] He will save money for meals and make a phone call to you from afar.
[19] He will secretly hide the love letters written to him by other girls, because he only has you in his heart.
[20] Since he met you, he has been very positive in his daily life, because he wants the girl he loves to see himself in the sunshine.
[21] He will count the stars to find your sign, because you arouse his rambling thoughts.
[22] He will not easily show you his fragile side, and although he cannot give you anything yet, he will do his best to protect you.
[23] He will also think of you when he is most helpless, of course, not because he wants you to help him, but because he hopes you don't worry about him.
[24] Although he rarely praises you in person, in his heart you are certainly the best of him.
[25] He will silently remember some of the things you have said inadvertently, and repeat them in his mind at some point and another.
[26] He never makes a commitment in front of you easily, because he wants to make himself the most talkative man in your heart, and he only wants to give you the most reliable and secure happiness.
[27] He always tells you not to think wildly, but in fact he has planned the most beautiful future for you, so that you can wait for the surprise he will give you without worry.
[28] Maybe he can't remember some anniversaries as clearly as you do, because he feels that loving you should be every moment, rather than relying on these simple days.
[29] Girls, boys don't cry easily, and only become so vulnerable when they face the person you love the most; only when they love her too much will they let go of a man's self-esteem. Girls, if there is a boy who is crying for you, then please hold his hand, maybe he can really accompany you throughout your life; then please don't give up on him, maybe one of your choices will ruin a person!
[30] He is really the boy who doesn't care about your past; he is really the boy who picks you up from work every day rain or shine; he is really the boy who counts the stars with you every night in bed; he is really the boy who is willing to give everything for you; he really hurts you for cooking, and secretly learns to cook by himself to surprise you; he is really the boy who does not hide from you his past; he is really the boy who wants to see you most when you are wronged; he really does not ask for anything in return. The boy who only wants to give silently to you; the boy who really loves you but doesn't dot on you, who spoils you but doesn't get used to you; the boy who can give you freedom and give you enough security; the boy who accompanies you when you are happy and coaxes you to be happy when you are unhappy; the boy who regrets not cherishing when you lose; the boy who doesn't think he's good when he has him, and thinks of his benefits when he loses him; he's really the boy who can reassure you whenever he's socializing He is really the boy who desperately tries to make money every day to make your life better; he is really the boy who has left you with every good thing, and is willing to give it to you for free!
Third, the small actions of boys and girls may be a code word for "love"
[01] When you receive "What are you doing?" you actually want to say "I miss you"!
[02] When you receive "Huh", you don't laugh, smirk or laugh bitterly!
[03] But if it is "haha", "hey hey" or "gaga", then you must be laughing when you hit it!
[04] Calling you "stupid" and "stupid" is actually concerned about you, worried about you, and hope that you will take care of yourself!
[05] If it is the end of the question, I actually hope to talk to you for a while!
[06] "Oh" is mostly perfunctory!
[07] But if it is "know", "receive", "obey orders" and the like, it means that you are more concerned!
[08] Sometimes I advise you to be busy with yourself, but in fact, he is duplicitous!
[09] Tell you his stupid things about shame or loss, because I hope you will comfort him, enlighten him, and even scold him!
[10] Take the initiative to send it to you, indicating that you have a certain weight in his mind, and the average person does not like and does not care about it!
[11] If you were given a nickname, I would like you to remember him a little more!
[12] "I just arrived" "I'm already home" means that the first thing that comes to mind when you enter the house is you!
[13] "Tell me when you get home" "Have you been home?" It means I want you to be at peace, and I don't allow you to be in trouble!
[14] Sometimes it is not so coincidental that it is sent to you by mistake, it may be that he wants to send it to you and really has nothing to send, although it is very stupid!
[15] Receiving "Forwarding 2 people will be happy", it is he who thinks this text message is very interesting, but he can't bear to let you forward to 10 people, so he secretly changed 10 to 2!
[16] Anyone whose curse of "if you do not forward it will be unfortunate" is not unheard of, but he will never forward it to you.
[17] For a while you didn't receive a text message from him, but that doesn't mean it wasn't in his draft box.
[18] If possible, it is because of you that he does not turn off at night.
[19] Many times, he reprints a journal or writes a journal may just want you to see it.
[20] Will often look at whether you will be among the recent visitors to the space, and will also look at it in others, comparing 、、、
[21] If you want to stay quietly by your side, even if you don't speak, it will make people feel at ease and feel safe.
[22] When I think of you, I don't dare to send you a message, for fear that you will feel annoyed and tired!
Four: This is the real boy! 99% of girls suddenly realized after reading it!
[1] Every boy is lustful, and I have not seen a bad boy, but the degree of color is different.
[2] Boys generally like stupid girls (except for cooking and washing clothes). I don't know why, but the truth is, girls and boys with too many eyes will be more or less disgusted. So even if you're not stupid, you still have to be 'stupid' a little better. But remember, all boys hate women very much, very, very much.
[3] Boys like well-dressed and generous girls, but they generally feel disgusted by women with heavy makeup.
[4] Don't care too much about your figure, boys basically only envy the devil figure of the star, and most say they will not find such a wife.
[5] If your temperament is good enough, no matter what your appearance and stature, you don't have to worry about being joked by boys, girls' temperament is more important than their faces. If not, learn to smile.
[6] In the dormitory, boys only talk about two topics, learning and girls. Talking about learning is to scold the teacher and scold the school cadres; when talking about girls, they will evaluate whose face is beautiful and whose figure is slim. Every boy loves beautiful women, whether he admits it or not. It's not that boys are mean, it's a man's nature. Therefore, female students learn to dress up when necessary, which will reduce the chance of being ridiculed.
[7] Even the most careful boy will have a girl in his heart who has always loved deeply, and there is only one. Boys will take care of and love their girlfriends for a lifetime, but maybe she is not the girl he loves deep in his heart, but don't think that this is the boy's infidelity, because the boy knows what reality is and knows what should be done. Who this girl was, no one knew unless his subconscious mind was out of control.
[8] Boys are thinking animals, living by reason, and like to act step-by-step, planned, and purposeful. Most boys like girls who will spoil, but if they are unreasonable, they are basically not far from breaking up. If you nag, grind and chirp, and don't give boys room to think freely, tomorrow is the end.
[9] Don't think that boys don't feel it, who is good to him, who is bad to him, boys can feel it, will remember it in their hearts. However, there are exceptions, the boy is wrong, directly tell him, don't let him guess, generally rely on the thinking of the boy who lives by feeling can not guess, and disgusted.
[10] It is very easy for a girl to chase a boy. But if the boy is not willing, give up, it will certainly not be able to catch up. Why? There are many, very many reasons.
[11] Men become bad when they have money, especially businessmen. If you don't believe it, you will regret it.
[12] Boys take the initiative to associate with girls, especially beautiful girls, basically just want to make a friend, almost no good intentions.
[13] Most boys love face, and even face is more important than life. If another boy doesn't give him face, it may end up fighting. And the girl does not give him face, the consequences are only more serious. So if you don't want to get a hand with him, criticize him privately, but don't embarrass him in front of his friends. If you want to break up, there's nothing more effective than making him ugly in public. Oh, and don't give your boyfriend a green hat.
[14] If a boy likes a girl: he will find an excuse to give the girl something; the girl will be happy if she asks him for something
Intention to do it, and do it efficiently; he will. Nickname the girl; he will like to do something to attract the girl's attention; he will always stare at the girl; he will tease the girl he likes; he will touch the girl's head; he will deliberately fight with the girl and make the girl angry.
[15] If a boy loves a girl from the bottom of his heart: when he is alone, he will be embarrassed, he will be shy when he sees her, he will speak incoherently; he will not quickly reply to the girl's text message, but will change and change before sending it; pretend not to care about her, but always think of her in his heart; the girl will ask him, even if it is difficult and difficult, he will agree and do a good job; most importantly, even if he and the whole world know that this girl is wrong, he will still stand on the girl's side.
[16] Boys' patience is also limited.
[17] Boys and girls always say: The most loved person in my life is you. In fact, even if he doesn't meet you, he will fall in love with other women at first sight.
[18] Men have dreamed in their hearts of what their other half is like. For example, height, figure, face, personality, and even hairstyle, etc., but this person basically does not exist. So, if you argue with a guy, he says he's not happy with your face, figure, etc. Don't care, he's comparing you to a non-existent fantasy, it doesn't make sense, and they don't really pick each other up afterwards.
[19] Boys are most afraid of girls saying that he is incompetent and insecure, in fact, every boy is working hard or overtly or implicitly, there is no boy who does not know how to be motivated, and it is the nature of all male animals to be self-motivated. Don't ask too much for boys, always say that boys are inferior to who, from girls, boys need more affirmation.
[20] Boys generally believe that money cannot be earned, that the rich have a life, and how much they earn and how much they spend. So if you force the boy to earn money desperately, the boy will be disgusted.
[21] When eating, girls want to order anything, don't grind with boys, boys hate such people.
[22] Boys tell more lies to girls than girls usually tell, but sometimes they are forced to get along with girls better, and sometimes they are forced by girls.
[23] There are still many boys who attach importance to the virgin complex, so... Don't squander your youth and finally think of handing over the responsibility of life to another boy. Most of the guys said they wouldn't want a woman like that again.
[24] Boys and girls don't necessarily love her when they go to bed, and I hear a lot of "kick her when you play again." The words came out of the mouth of the boy who knew himself. There is no way that the human heart is not ancient.
[25] There are still many good boys, and they learn to look into his eyes.
Editor's Note: There is a kind of love called the heart has a spirit, and there is a kind of understanding called mutual trust! Love depends on mutual maintenance and care, so everyone must believe in each other and avoid misunderstanding each other! Do you understand the code of "love"?