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A writer once said:
People who are really good to you will not meet a few in a lifetime, someone lights up the world for you, someone sweeps away the dust in your heart.
But between people, an extra inch of distance, it is easy to become the absurdity of losing contact, the more independent we are inside, the less important people there are, and you are not sure when you will lose them.
The only thing you can do is to be better for those who are still around you, and to be patient with the blandness and bustle of life.
There are not many true hearts that people can meet in this life, and they have given help, comfort and companionship to them, in addition to the "thank you", there are many things that I want to tell them before it is too late.
Your kindness to me, I look at and remember
I have heard a saying that the cells in the human body are all replaced every 7 years, that is, the self of seven years ago and the self of seven years later are not actually one person at all.
But the warmth that one person once gave to another does not dissipate with the renewal of cells.
When I was in junior high school, I once changed schools, from the countryside to the town, to a new environment, because I was used to speaking dialects, dressing in a rustic manner, being snubbed or even excluded by the whole class, and everywhere I went, people called me country behind my back.
The exception was the only girl named Lulu, who was the only one who was willing to play games with me in gym class, and she told me that I should speak Mandarin like everyone at school, and after school she dragged me to the convenience store to buy a good-looking notebook.
It can be said that if it were not for her, my personality would probably be fixed on isolation and inferiority.
Later, with the graduation of junior high school, we gradually lost contact in the years when communication was not developed.
Until not long ago, we met at the station in my hometown, I recognized her at a glance, and in the gap between waiting for the train, I carefully recalled everything between us and solemnly said thank you to her.
She said, I didn't expect that more than ten years have passed, and I actually remember it.
Yeah, I've never forgotten. Because they understand that the world is complicated and complex, people who can withdraw from their own trivial lives and give kindness to others are very rare, and rare people and things are worth cherishing.
Maybe some people can't go to the end together, some people may not say goodbye when they leave, but it is enough to miss it for a long time.
It is said that the people I like will shine, but in fact, these people who are good to me will also shine. No matter how far they have gone, how long they have walked, somewhere in their hearts, they will not be forgotten or covered up.
At a very young age, I was often taught by my parents to remember the goodness of others.
At that time, I thought that it was to learn to be grateful, but when I grew up, I found that it was also a kind of happiness to remember the goodness of others to me. It will always remind itself: in this world, someone is secretly loving you and thinking about you.
You are one point good to me, and I return you three times as true
There are many people who can meet in a lifetime, but there is no need to be close to everyone, and there is no need to pay attention to everyone.
For the rest of your life, you only have to care about two kinds of people: people you like and people who are good to yourself.
Being good to the people you like is instinctive, and being good to people who treat yourself well is gratitude and cultivation.
In the hit drama "All Is Good" a while ago, Su Mingyu was not treated kindly at home, and in the process of part-time work, she met the master Lao Meng, who took her to grow and promote in her career, but brought her fatherly warmth in life.
There was an internal struggle in the company, and Mingyu was persuaded to leave Lao Meng to seek another high position, but Mingyu always remembered Lao Meng's kindness to her and faithfully gave everything for the company.
She can change from a little girl who distributes leaflets on the side of the road to a vice president under one person, above ten thousand people, in addition to being grateful for her luck, she relies more on her own efforts and a grateful heart.
There is ill will in the world that comes from nowhere, but there is no natural goodwill, and he is grateful for every giving of others, because he could not have done it.
It is normal to see some people who are disappointed in their own face-to-face set behind a set, some people add icing on the cake when they are beautiful, and it is normal to draw boundaries when they are down, but if someone is always by their side regardless of good times and adversities, please cherish and be grateful.
Feng Zikai once said: If you love, life is lovely everywhere. If you hate, you can hate everywhere in life. If you are grateful, you can be grateful everywhere.
You're good to me, and I'm three times as true to you. Always have a grateful heart, don't let people who are good to themselves chill.
You're good to me and let me know how to be a good person
Not long ago, I watched a short film called "Mr. Indifferent", the male protagonist Mr. Indifferent is as his name suggests, treats people coldly, and always "slips his hands into the bag, no one loves" look.
Seeing someone in the elevator who wants to enter the elevator will not choose to help press the door button
Watch the balloon in the little girl's hand fly, will not help to catch it;
The worker's cart carrying the goods slipped in front of him and would not be stopped by his hand;
Click on the video to see Mr. Aloof
Until one day, when crossing the road, an old grandmother took the initiative to grab his hand and asked him to help him cross the road. The grandmother walked too slowly, and the two were still in the middle of the road when the green light turned red. At this time, a car rushed by, and Mr. Indifferent was so frightened that he quickly stopped the car.
The two crossed the road, and the grandmother touched Mr. Indifferent's face affectionately and thanked him.
At that moment, Mr. Cold felt kindness and realized that helping people can really make people happy. So he became no longer indifferent and tried to provide help to others as much as he could.
There is a saying in the "Island Bookstore":
Because we are afraid from the bottom of our hearts that we are not worthy of being loved, we are alone, but it is because we are alone that we think that we are not worthy of being loved.
It is said that people are becoming more and more indifferent now, everyone only values their own interests, and those who still insist on being good to others are not stupid, but understand that love can be passed on fluidly.
I still want to say "thank you" to those who are good to me, thank you for letting me know that I deserve to be loved, thank you for letting me know how to be good to you, good for others, and at the same time, thank you for letting me see the beauty of this world.
In the cycle of cause and effect, the world secretly rewards good people
There is a topic in Zhihu, why should people be kind and be kind to others?
One of the high-ranking people replied: Because of the law of conservation of energy.
What you give will come back in another form.
On the weekend, I watched the movie "Sister Tao" at home, and Sister Tao is a domestic servant of the Luo family, carefully taking care of Roger's life.
Every day he went to the wet market to buy his favorite marine fish, to make his meal more fragrant, to cook rice in a crock pot instead of a rice cooker, in short, Roger in his 30s was taken care of like a 3-year-old child.
Later, because Ofrity, Sister Tao lost her ability to take care of herself because of her age. Unable to take care of her for work reasons, Roger sent her to a well-equipped nursing home, but went to see her as soon as he had time, ate with her, walked, watched movies, and walked until the end of his life.
Sister Tao was childless all her life, but Roger let her experience the feeling of a mother.
In the movie, Roger is asked many times why he is so good to a maid, and he smiles and does not answer, but if he has to answer in words, it is: because she is very good to me.
There is really reincarnation in this world, just like Roger, those who are good to me, I will certainly be good to you, and I believe that the world will secretly reward you for your kindness.
As the old saying goes, "good people have good rewards", every time they do a good thing, their character will be added, and these points will be exchanged for "false alarm", "turn danger into disaster" or good luck and good luck.
After half a life, after experiencing many disappointments and disappointments, I slowly realized the cuteness of a true heart and the preciousness of a kind heart.
In this life, it is difficult to achieve success and fame, but at least to do: the people who accompany me, do not perfunctory; the people who care about me, do not slacken off, and those who are good to me do not forget to be grateful.
At the same time, I also hope that those who are good to me, no matter where they are, will be able to live in peace and joy and get what they want.
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