Once, when I was chatting with a friend, I talked about the relationship between my lover and my confidant. He said that he was a confidant with a red face, and in the end they all became lovers or wives. I disagree with him. I said that this depends on what kind of person this woman is, who has concentration, who can see far, who can see things clearly, who is righteous in mind and body, who only finds sustenance for the spirit, and who will not become a lover.
In fact, many people have talked about this topic, and I revisited this topic today to find out whether any netizens agree with me.
First of all, let's punish the relationship between the lover and the confidant:
Lover: Finding emotional comfort outside of a partner, there is really no name for male and female love. Lovers have no husband and wife name, but there are people who are better than husband and wife feelings, only for the feelings together, who love you and do not embarrass you. (Of course, there are also people for profit.) Later, there were also people who became troublesome. ）
Confidant: Give but don't take like the person you ask for. The confidant has nothing to do with ugliness and beauty, but is a heart-to-heart exchange, a spiritual sustenance, and a friend who has nothing to say. Not only does she make you talk about your troubles, but she is also the nest where the tired birds return when you are physically and mentally exhausted. Confidant is one with whom you are spiritually independent, spiritually equal, and able to reach a deep resonance. Understand you, relieve your worries, enlighten you to understand your female friends. The confidant is another soul of a man. The confidant of the red face should be optimistic, calm, open-minded and determined, can see the situation clearly, see the future far, and understand and not be foolish.
Netizens, you say, such a red-faced confidant, will become a lover?
