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Wu Xiaoli: Spoil me like a child
Wu Xiaoli: "When I was young, the Prince Charming in my heart was not like this, it was a very tall and handsome one." As you get older, you know that what you want is not from the outside, but from the inside. My requirements for the other half are: we have a good relationship, appreciate each other, love family very much, and then he and my family get along very well. In fact, love is very simple, as long as women have their own strengths. "People who have seen Wu Xiaoli are easily attracted by the happiness on her face.
This happiness that can be found everywhere in the corners of her mouth, in her eyes, and in her smile tells you very clearly that she must have a very happy marriage. "It's very comfortable and harmonious with him." Wu Xiaoli was very frank.
In 1993, Wu Xiaoli was invited to Hong Kong to join satellite TV, leaving her parents and sisters to work alone in Hong Kong. Lonely, lonely, helpless, single Xiaoli makes everyone who loves her worry: When will Xiaoli start a family?
In 2001, Wu Xiaoli finally married her "Mr.Right". Wu Xiaoli's marriage is actually very romantic. He chased Xiaoli for 5 years, during which "hardship" need not be elaborated. In the end, he touched Wu Xiaoli's heart with a song he personally wrote, "I Love Deeply". Among them, "I will spoil you like a child, only because of your innocent smile", Wu Xiaoli always does not forget to hang on her lips.
"He really spoiled me like a kid. I used to be busy, now I'm even busier. It's just that it was very adrift at that time, and now it has roots. Obviously, Wu Xiaoli was satisfied with the feeling of having a home.
Because of busyness, Wu Xiaoli's time at home is always short. For example, in October 2001, when I was in my tenth year, I attended an interview with APEC in Shanghai; Then back to Hong Kong; Then went to Beijing for three days to participate in the activities of 'Chinese Volunteer Ambassadors'; Then he returned to Hong Kong and did three shows; Then go to Sichuan to host the International Television Festival; Now it's Shanghai again. Even if it is a horror, in just half a month, I have done 6 times of "trapeze". As a result, there is really no time to accompany Mr. around. ”
"But he'll find a way to stay with me." Because he was in business, he could do his best to arrange a business trip with me to a city. Just like this time, he accompanied me to Shanghai. I'm so happy! We have a consensus: wherever we go, we will make our home. Now, Shanghai is my home. ”
Choosing such a gentleman, Xiaoli was very satisfied. But she revealed: "When I was young, the Prince Charming in my heart was not like this, it was a very tall and handsome one." As you get older, you know that what you want is not the appearance, but from the heart. My requirements for the other half are: we have a good relationship, appreciate each other, love the family, and then he gets along well with my family. ”
"Believe in yourself, what kind of person you are, you will choose what kind of him." Nothing perfect, just look at what you want. Sometimes I am afraid of losing, but I am the easiest to lose.
Wu Xiaoli said: "In fact, love is so simple. Wu Xiaoli, who stepped off the screen, talked about life and dreams, and looked like the big sister next door, with a look of longing and spontaneity. "My biggest dream is to retire early." Then she added urgently, "Of course, retiring with your significant other."
Wu Xiaoli said that she really hopes that one day I can "live in one place for half a year, and then live in another place for half a year, make friends every day, read books, live a life, write articles, travel..... Stop and enjoy the scenery around you. Another part of the dream is that "on the radio, it is very casual to communicate with the audience and friends through the air about this life feeling." She also said: "Doing broadcasting is not a profession, it's just playing tickets."
"People will grow old, but their voices will not grow old." Wu Xiaoli said, "This is different from television, you can't see the appearance of the host, only the communication of voices." But it is not limited by time and space, and the air is full of imaginary space. "I just don't know if my voice is passed, will the audience like it?" Wu Xiaoli herself laughed first, and there was a slight shyness in her smile.
Dreams are always beautiful, but Wu Xiaoli herself does not know when it will be realized. "Not now." And preferably by then my children are already independent. You should be 18 years old when you go to college. Oh my God, there are still 18 years to go?...... "Wu Xiaoli, who has no children, has begun to plan her life after retirement."
For her current life, Wu Xiaoli can't help but sigh: "The news is too fast, the accumulation is slow, and there is no time to supplement the accumulation of culture." There is often a feeling of being 'hollowed out'. "Wu Xiaoli had the ideal of studying in the United States more than 10 years ago, and her busy work has repeatedly delayed this ideal to this day." Reading, I still want to! I want to read business, read high-tech majors, like the Internet, broadband. However, time does not allow it. "However, Wu Xiaoli is still very happy, as a woman, she has both a lot of money and happiness in life, such a woman, her story is not enough for the majority of female friends to find the answer to women's happiness?
Once, when Tung Chee-hwa was elected chief executive of Hong Kong, Xiaoli also did not take the turn to ask questions in the end, and she used a trick in a hurry, desperately raising her voice and shouting "chief executive, chief executive", and soon grabbed an opportunity to ask questions among more than 300 reporters.
Wu Xiaoli has two dreams, one is to become a journalist, first of all, a journalist, in the face of a constantly changing and increasingly updated world, flying around in the air or on the ground, conveying new things to readers and viewers. The second is to be a host. "I've never been satisfied, the ideal is to be a journalist, to keep going, to stop is to retreat. It's like looking at the scenery, not knowing what the next attraction is, what the scenery is, not knowing what to do next, but I have to keep going. There are gains and losses, and I am thinner now, which is the result of flying around. This is Xiaoli's first dream, she has or is realizing, this is also Xiaoli's work philosophy and life attitude, it is this spirit of always "always moving forward", inspiring Xiaoli from success to success.
Xiaoli's second dream is to "travel the world and travel around the world". Unfortunately, this dream has not yet been fulfilled. The Sahara Desert in Africa has never been. But she believes that she will achieve her second dream. Because she loves the unknown, the unknown and the world has an irresistible charm and attraction to her.
It is these two dreams that become the permanent driving force for Xiaoli's work, and Xiaoli, who is pure, elegant, beautiful and smiling on the surface, has a masculine atmosphere behind the stage: tenacity, endurance, pursuit, dedication and ideals.
Liu Changle, CEO of Phoenix Station, said the most pertinent: "Xiaoli's success comes more from her own diligence." Her 'permanent smiley face' was covered with hard sweat. In the process of producing the "97 Return 60 Hours Non-Stop" program, she carried makeup homework for three consecutive days, inducing severe skin allergies; Interview with Premier Zhu Rongji on her trip to Europe, she collected, edited, broadcast, and published articles, and was so tired that she almost went into dehydration shock; Sometimes the "Xiaoli Sees the World" program can not be completed immediately because of busyness, so anxious that she cried bitterly, cried and then waved tears into battle, "When the pressure of work is the greatest, I will lament that I really can't stand it," but after the incident, she still appeared in front of the audience with a smile. Because she has been working hard to achieve her ideal of "where there is Chinese, there is me".
Xiaoli is a typical "workaholic", she always believes that "everything is inferior, only the work is high". Often as soon as she works, she does not recognize her relatives, and her mother often complains that Xiaoli does not come back, even if she works in Taiwan, sometimes she "passes through the door three times without anyone", and can only say goodbye to her mother on a phone call at the airfield. For a while, she took a leave of absence from the company to write her biography "Foot Sound", and lived in seclusion at home and temporarily gave up her work. Originally thought that life was very pleasant, but then she finally worried about being isolated from the outside world, and finally panicked because she did not go to work. This finally shattered the dream that she had been clamoring for a hard work to retire early, come back to enjoy the blessings, or marry and teach her husband and children at home to be a young grandmother. Because she found a reason to have to work - bored. Soon she canceled her vacation and went back to work, and began to live again. Talking and laughing with her colleagues again, she regained her life and vitality, and found her true self. Because she loves her job, work is already a part of her life.
Although Xiaoli prefers work, this does not mean that she is not happy and makes friends. Her greatest joy is work, every time on the stage or off the stage, Xiaoli is full of smiles that is not a false smile of flattery, it is the happiness that comes from Xiaoli's heart. "I have a friend who is very smart, and what I appreciate even more is her strength and positive optimism about life." This is Xiao li's heartfelt words. It is also her philosophy of life. She likes the famous saying that "yesterday is history, tomorrow is not yet known." ”
This optimistic and positive philosophy of life makes Xiaoli overcome one difficulty and challenge after another to win one victory after another.
Xiaoli not only treats her work and life positively, but also positively treats her colleagues, friends and leaders. After the naming incident at the Chinese and foreign press conference, due to the doubling of Xiaoli's value, rumors began to circulate that "Xiaoli has now made Phoenix Satellite TV famous in Hong Kong and the mainland, and has not asked the company for promotion and salary increases". And she said honestly, "No." First, she attributed her success to the efforts of all colleagues of Phoenix Satellite TV; Second, because this is her consistent philosophy of work. She said she would only ask, "Is a job a job, is it fun?" Is there a sense of accomplishment? Is there room for play?" So, whatever else, she really didn't think much about. When she worked, she had a kind of male pride of "a soldier dies for a confidant". Therefore, her old leader, Mr. Huang, the general manager of the planning of Taiwan's China Television Company, said: "What impressed me most was Xiaoli's bold personality and helpful attitude, which is really rare in the TV circle vying for fame and profit, and it also strengthened my confidence in cultivating her." "After she became famous, she still did not change her pure nature, and she was still humble and courteous to people, and she had no pride, which is really rare."
Xiaoli herself also said that the reason why I desperately run the news every day is because of my own journalistic illness, and the second is that I am valued, the manager of the news department, the leader of the interview team, and the leader of the planning team.
Their affirmation of my work made me even more unable to disappoint them.
Although Xiaoli's success is attributed to internal factors such as her optimistic life philosophy of pursuing ideals and her positive attitude towards the world, it cannot be ignored that Xiaoli's success is also due to her appearance such as a "beautiful" face.
Phoenix Satellite TV has always been known for being good at "star-making", and the primary work of star-making, in addition to the connotation, quality, positioning and image that the host itself should have, screen publicity and positioning packaging are also very important. Xiaoli joined Hong Kong Phoenix Channel, and on the first day of work, the choreographer saw that her first sentence was not the content of the program but said: "Xiaoli, I made an appointment with the hair stylist in the afternoon to take you to cut your hair first." So Xiaoli changed from semi-long hair to a trendy "feather shear" suitable for the host image of a current affairs program. The second step is to make an appointment with the stylist, go shopping for clothes, and "I hope you look different from start to finish!" Choreographer Candy said to Xiaoli. Sure enough, Wu Xiaoli, who had a new atmosphere with a new hairstyle and new packaging of "feather scissors", caused a surprising cheer when she appeared in the old territory of the Ministry of Communications when she was a reporter for China Television. In the future, Xiaoli's program became more popular, and Xiaoli's image cannot but be said to be one of the influencing factors. People think of Xiaoli and immediately think of her beautiful image.
Xiaoli herself is also very fond of her own face, TV has created Xiaoli, Xiaoli is grateful for TV and hates abnormalities, because it is this "TV" that has robbed her of her youth, because she must frequently wear heavy makeup, "TV" is also the murderer who destroys her beautiful face, is the culprit who accelerates her aging, speaking of this, Xiaoli gritted her teeth, compared to that, her love for her face may be more than her enthusiasm for TV. Xiaoli emphasizes that she is not a workaholic, she has her work principles, if work destroys two things for her, she must tell herself to stop and rest: one is health, the other is beauty. Beauty always gives way to work. Of course, beauty is also about work. In Xiaoli's heart, the audience and the audience are the first, as long as the audience and the audience need, sometimes they have to work overtime, have to wear heavy makeup on stage, and have to take care of their own appearance, because there is always a wish in their hearts. "I hope that one day, at the end of my own show, I can warmly say to her audience: good night, Chinese, no matter where you are." At this moment, Wu Xiaoli has imagined the world's Chinese become her future audience.
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