First, don't use words and the like, it is easy to turn awkward chat into embarrassment
Today's girls are very smart, and the earthy love words that are very confident for you are just full of embarrassment in our eyes.
If you are the first contact with those words and the like, and do not understand the essence, then do not use it indiscriminately when you first come up, because the sincerity and simplicity of the chat process are very important to the girls.
Of course, if the girl you're talking about is just playing with you casually, then let it go, because even if she is tricked by you, you won't be afraid that you are playing her.
Second, chat should be generous, do not hesitate, and learn not to be humble
I used to let some of my counselors practice chatting with girls, but I often found that I was knowledgeable and could talk a lot about the topic
They often dare not act at the beginning, especially in the face of the girl they like, usually talking in front of people but dumbfounded: "I don't know what to say to her."
"If I talk to her, will she be annoyed with me"
"What if she doesn't get back to me" etc
In fact, in the end, it is too nervous to put yourself in an equal position with the other party.
Third, naturally expand your chat topics to ten attentions.
The key point of the chat is that what you say must make the other party feel that there is something to be said, and it has a certain degree of malleability, such as: "Have you eaten or slept" Why does it become a chat dead end?
It's not because I can basically give you a complete answer to these words in a few words, and I don't need any extension at all.
Based on my analysis of chat histories of some counselors and people they are chasing, I found that most people who are worried about how to chat with the opposite sex have a common characteristic: they chat with narrow content and too few topics
And the more you do this, the less the other person can't lift the spirit to talk to you, and the less spirit the other party has, the less topics you have.
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