For a long time, most people's attitude towards "online dating" has been particularly unreliable. There are also many small videos about spoofing online dating on the Internet, telling the dangers of online dating. But Fan Lei has developed the original "see the light and die" online love into today's acquaintance, and it has been eighteen years since it left.
Inside and outside the play, he is a righteous and brave soldier image. Relying on their own efforts to get to today's position step by step. But Fan Lei knew that his wife, who accompanied him through the difficult years, was also indispensable. The story of him and his wife is more exciting than the TV series, do you understand?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > the network</h1>
In fact, when it comes to Fan Lei, what impresses us with him is also the image of a soldier. Whether it is on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala or in the film and television drama, Fan Lei seems to have become a "military professional household". From the five squad leaders in "Soldier Assault" to Ma Dazhi in "My Regiment Commander My Regiment", his ability to shape the role of soldiers is obvious to all. But these good performances come from his real life.
In fact, since he became an adult, Fan Lei has been working in the army and in the cultural and industrial corps. He has the life experience of being a soldier and also has a stage to perform, which lays a solid foundation for being an actor in the future. However, because of the image of a soldier, he unexpectedly ushered in his love when he had nothing to do.
Before I met my current wife, who knew who Fan Lei was? He was just an ordinary warrior, earning not too much of a salary. Compared with his colleagues, Fan Lei's appearance is really ordinary, and it is not too much to say "ugly". Such a harsh first condition, actually caught up with the famous "Bai Fumei" in Zhongguancun.
His wife's name was Shelly, and she was a big man at the time. Starting in Shenzhen and returning to Beijing to make a fortune, she was known as "Xie Jie of Zhongguancun", mainly engaged in hard disk wholesale, and her aunts knew her. It is the young and beautiful age, relying on their own career success, you can imagine how good the girl is, but why did you choose the humble Fan Lei?
As mentioned earlier in online dating, their relationship also relies on "network line pull". Shelly's hard disk playing with the Internet is also understandable, but for Fan Lei, how could he suddenly come into contact with the Internet? In fact, it comes down to the young and fashionable female colleagues. Influenced by them, Fan Lei also freshly tried to chat online, and spoke freely with everyone in the forum group invited by friends.
There should not have been so many scammers back then, and the Internet was still a clean world. So in the forum group, Fan Lei unabashedly talked about his life as a soldier, and immediately attracted The attention of Shelly. In fact, every girl should have the dream of marrying a brother, and Shelly is no exception.
The girl took the initiative to chat with her dream brother, but she was disappointed after meeting. The imaginary soldier brother is tall, mighty and handsome, and has a strong tough guy atmosphere. But Fan Lei is 1 meter 67 tall, and his appearance is also embarrassing, which is really different from what he imagined. Originally, I did not intend to continue to develop, but after experiencing setbacks in life, I changed my mind.
Shelly's stepfather was seriously ill, and Fan Lei took the initiative to help, helping day and night to help take care of it. After the death of his stepfather, his own son and Shelly's mother fought a lawsuit to divide the inheritance, and Fan Lei was also busy running back and forth. Fan Lei's sincerity and enthusiasm touched Xie Li's heart a little bit, and the last shot was out of control.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > history of dixie counterattack</h1>
People always say that "the mother-in-law in Beijing is not easy to deal with", but in Fan Lei's view, the mother-in-law is the best help for him and his wife. Although he came from the second generation of stars, he inherited Huang Hong, and also followed Fan Ming and Lin Yongjian to perform sketches at the Spring Festival Gala, Fan Lei's economic strength was really embarrassing. Even if the girl agreed to marry him, he would not be able to support the other party.
The mother-in-law has never been poor and loves the rich, and when they are not young, they offer to live in their own home after marriage. In 2002, 29-year-old Fan Lei and Shelly received a marriage license, but they were unable to give each other a wedding. But his wife and mother-in-law never said that he was not, but would quietly subsidize him for living expenses.
From the time he was ready to get married, Fan Lei had made practical plans for the future. After twice on the Spring Festival Gala sketch, he took advantage of the heat and began to transform into an actor. Participated in film and television dramas, busy. In order to save him time on the road, the mother-in-law was willing to pay money to buy a car for her son-in-law, and at that time she was envious of others.
The silent companionship of his wife and the support of his mother-in-law, Fan Lei all looked in his eyes and remembered in his heart. He proved with his own practical actions that their choice was correct. In 2004's "Taihang Mountain", 2006's "Soldier Assault", 2008's "My Regiment Leader My Regiment", Fan Lei became popular step by step by relying on these masterpieces, and had his own place in the show business circle.
After becoming famous, it is followed by a high net worth, and the film remuneration is naturally not a lot. Fan Lei made money and had a big wedding with his wife, and he also had the ability to buy their own house. But Fan Lei never forgot the support of his mother-in-law, "throw in the plum, repay it with a peach", he will definitely be responsible for the mother-in-law's later life.
A few years later, he and his wife had their own daughter. Fan Lei knew that his wife earned a lot, and his mother-in-law also had savings, but the dignity of a father, how could he let others help raise children? He began to participate in film and television dramas in a big way, it is common to shoot several TV series at the same time a year, the most exaggerated thing is that there are 4 TV series and 3 movies in the air at the same time in one year, you can imagine how busy he is. But in his heart, he thought he was very busy.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > cherish this relationship</h1>
Today, their marriage has gone through 18 years. A change in the first acquaintance of the strong female and weak family, now they are a proper male and female protagonist. Compared with his wife's business of selling hard disks, it is obvious that Fan Lei earns more, zero investment and no risk and high income, how popular this industry is.
And Fan Lei also re-planned his own play path, changing from the previous role of only competing with the military, he began to transform into other roles. Small traders, small men with strict wives, filial piety, stuttering men, etc., and even in the fire's "Ancient Sword Qitan 2" and "The Twelve Hours of Chang'an", he has a good performance. This year, he joined Beijing Satellite TV's poverty alleviation TV series "Books Everywhere", which is impressive.
In fact, the most inseparable thing to do as an actor is the emotional drama, unless you are just a dragon runner. Nearly 20 years of acting career, in fact, Fan Lei also has some intimate scenes in the play. But outside the play, he kept a suitable distance from the actresses and never heard a scandal. With the same focus of several years, he expressed his love to his wife.
In the interview, the host Li Ai once defined Fan Lei's experience as "di si's counterattack", and Fan Lei also agreed with this. He was indeed a small person with nothing, and the word reversible attack was so easy to say. Perhaps in this life, the army is the cradle of his dreams, and his wife is his biggest nobleman.
< h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > concluding remarks</h1>
In today's society, there are many people who have gone from difficult times to success, and Fan Lei is also a typical example. But after becoming famous, there should be very few people who can be as grateful as Fan Lei for helping him, and always have the original intention. So learning to be a person like him, moving forward with gratitude and original intention, in order to go further, happiness can be longer, right?
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