A guide to avoiding pitfalls in life

One life, one autumn of grass and trees. With the exception of a very small number of gifted people and special hard-working people among ordinary people, most people are ordinary people who pass through this life. But it seems that an ordinary life is also full of crises and opportunities, and the probability of one not paying attention to the peak of life is not large, but if one is not careful, the probability of falling into the pit is not small. Let the best-selling authors talk about success learning, and I'll briefly talk about how to try not to fall into the pit. For the sake of convenience, I'll just follow the timeline.

The first is the juvenile period, which is crucial to a person's life and is an important moment for cultivating good three views and lofty ideals. The main influence at this time came from the family and school. Schools provide places to socialize and learn, and families provide places to live and rest. For the school period, learning is not good, it is not a big problem, after all, not everyone is suitable for learning, you just need to try your best to learn. But we must not get mixed up with those so-called big brothers and social people. Why you say that, you know it when you're with them. It is nothing more than a group of people beating up a person, flirting with female classmates, playing games, drinking, smoking, gathering crowds to coax, causing trouble everywhere, in addition, recognizing big brothers everywhere, posing for people, and so on. Although, in the short term, it may be very happy and enjoyable, but over time, the whole person will be particularly empty and become idle. And the terrible thing is that once this habit is formed, it is like getting sick. In order to be more stimulated and not empty, the dose must be increased, and the activity is becoming more and more obedient, which eventually causes an irreparable situation. Because human nature is to pursue excitement, learning will slow down this process as much as possible, postponing this sense of satisfaction, so that people can become steady and stable. However, premature contact with society, coupled with mental insanity, will make people just quickly pursue stimuli, without thinking about the impact and consequences, thus getting deeper and deeper, and ultimately making it irreparable. As for the influence of the family, it comes more from whether it is grateful and the relationship between family and affection. For example, many people are not good to the elderly, and they hope that their children will be good to themselves in the future. Moreover, a harmonious and stable family environment is also more conducive to the physical and mental health of children. However, we have no way to do this, because the parents' ideas are influenced by the times and environments in which they live, and a habit has been formed. The only thing we can do is to respect the old and love the young within our own capabilities, feed the family harmony and contribute our own strength, and always have a grateful heart.

After talking about adolescence, I immediately came to youth. At this time, when I first entered the society, the night in the big city was particularly prosperous, the lights were red and green, the paper was drunk and gold, and it was not charming. But I'm going to pour a basin of cold water, and that has nothing to do with you. Because most people come to the big city to make candles, to burn themselves, to illuminate others. Most of the pits at this time come from opportunities that seem to be incomparably tempting but are full of traps behind them. Yes, you read that right, it's an opportunity. Because many people are new to society and are full of confidence in their abilities, they always feel that they can earn millions in minutes and minutes, but the actual monthly income of 10,000 is laborious. It is the existence of such a mentality that gives some bad people an opportunity to take advantage of it. So, they become fighting, high salaries, easy in the name of recruiting people, and then backhand to earn these people's money. Yes, I'm talking about pyramid schemes and telecommunications scams, as well as all sorts of leather bag tax evasion companies. There are also MCN companies, which have become more popular in recent years, that is, broker packaging companies. In the name of cultivating future Internet celebrities, recruiting young handsome men and beautiful women, turning their heads, announcing that they did not run a few, either to accompany this to eat or to accompany that drink, the low wages are fatal, what benefits are not, to default, the liquidated damages are high to die, only when they leave their jobs, they find that the company's strongest is not the public relations department but the legal department. Therefore, in summary, the first priority for young people to enter the society is to lower their posture, start from reality, first find a company or unit that is almost normal, take root first, and then ride a donkey to find a horse to read the record book. Instead of being sold in one step, it was sold to help the number of people to make money.

As for middle-aged people, the biggest pit is investment. Be sure to remember Ha, I'd rather not invest, don't invest blindly. Why this is so, because middle-aged people are particularly willing to increase their wealth as their jobs continue to stabilize and their household expenses continue to grow. However, to be honest, many people are actually not suitable for investment, if you insist on investing, the probability of loss is often relatively large. Maybe I say this, a lot of people don't like to hear it, but I'm telling the truth. Because although there are many gods on the Internet, and the stories of wealth appreciation occur every day, it has nothing to do with most people. If you just invest in pure eye heat and envy, the probability of losing your wife and folding soldiers is relatively large. However, this demand of everyone is real, and it is impossible to kill with a stick. So next, to give you an investment advice, that is, for most people, insurance annuity investment > wide-based index funds> core asset stocks> futures> digital currencies> any kind of hype you don't know. Of course, the house is also an investment target, but in view of the current house price, this investment is not suitable for most people, and the difficulty is too high, the cost is too high, and the fault tolerance rate is too low, so it is not in the recommended range. But in the end, I still want to say that middle-aged people are under pressure, I can understand, but try not to have the idea of short-term rapid wealth, often it is difficult to get rich, and the poverty is very fast. But this age has decided that it cannot withstand any tossing, so everything is stable and stable. After all, for the family and children, what you give is already what you can give better, and the future life depends on the children themselves, and you can't arrange everything well.

As for the elderly, they have gone through the fog of time and experienced the hardships of life, and I only hope that they all have old age and support. A hundred years later, it is enough to have a place for one party to live. Young people need to avoid pits everywhere, but what the elderly are most afraid of is that they will be destroyed, but there is no place to bury themselves, which is the most pit. Please be kind to every elderly person, after all, that is also the future of us, thank you.