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In the modern concept of parenting, the father occupies an important position in family life, and it has to be said that the original family will affect the child for a lifetime.
If the child is in a "tribulation" environment, as long as a little effort is made, it will definitely "eat bitterly and be a superior person", but if the will is not firm, it is easy to walk into the abyss of eternal disaster.
Since 60 years in film, Jackie Chan has made great contributions to the Chinese film industry.
In foreign countries, as long as you tell others that you are Chinese, the other party will ask enviously: Do you know kung fu? Ever seen Jackie Chan?
In the United States, Jackie Chan and Stallone are both one level.
In Russia, Jackie Chan's popularity is second only to President Putin, and in Japan, he has won the title of "Most Popular Actor" for ten consecutive years...
Even if Jackie Chan is perfect, there is also a well-known "stain", that is, "Little Dragon Girl".
Because of the flow of sex, Jackie Chan owes a bunch of emotional debts, and he also exposed his past in his autobiography, which caused countless netizens to discuss it for a time.
It is often said that a son and a daughter made up the word "good", but it was not fulfilled here in Jackie Chan, and these two children are the "bane" of "accidents".
Compared with the "Little Dragon Girl", Fang Zuming was much luckier.
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All along, Jackie Chan has too many warblers and swallows around him, but he finally married Lin Fengjiao, all because she was pregnant with her own child.
For the sake of this unexpected arrival of the child, the two married with a grudge, but Jackie Chan was in his prime, how could he "yield" to the shackles of marriage?
In his eyes, marriage is just a tool for Lin Fengjiao to use her children to kidnap herself, and Jackie Chan frankly said: I don't want to get married, I am forced.
Later, even if Jackie Chan had a family, he did not delay "all kinds of fun".
And Lin Fengjiao did not show much dissatisfaction with her husband's various behaviors, she silently installed the fetus and swallowed the pain in her stomach.
Although Jackie Chan had a knot in his heart, he was still happy to see Fang Zu's name.
For the sake of the family, Lin Fengjiao is willing to give up her career and give up the title of goddess, even if it is not public, she is willing to be the woman behind the big brother.
Lin Fengjiao's "generosity" is not only this, in the face of media reports, Lin Fengjiao is not arrogant and impatient, and can always be resolved one by one, until Wu Qili appears, and the sister-in-law's heart can't hold.
But even if it is painful, she still supports Jackie Chan without hesitation and firmly grasps her husband's heart, which not only wins the opportunity for herself, but also sits firmly on the throne of "Lady Zhenggong".
In 1999, the Wu Qili incident was hyped up, and Jackie Chan urgently held a press conference and said an unacceptable sentence: "I made a mistake that men all over the world will make." ”
Uncle Mai did not know whether men all over the world would make this mistake, but Jackie Chan's words and deeds were suspected of defending himself.
Instead of that, it's better to say "I'm sorry."
This has made many Lin Fengjiao's fans feel painful, and at this time, Jackie Chan, even if he is macho, understands that he has done wrong.
Lin Fengjiao smiled slightly, chose to forgive, and she once again showed her high emotional intelligence:
You don't have to explain, first reassure others, don't hurt others, and you can't hurt yourself. If there is a need, I will stand up and face it with you.
As soon as this word came out, Jackie Chan felt even more ashamed of Lin Fengjiao, he broke the defensive heart for so many years, and handed everything in the family to Lin Fengjiao, and Fang Zu's name became the heir of the Eight Classics of Zheng'er.
Fang Zu's name is this boy, and he is still very blessed.
Although he did not taste the taste of father's love when he was a child, it is fortunate to have a "strategizing" mother, and in the final analysis, he is still happy.
Perhaps it was a good life to get used to, Fang Zuming's career was flat, and he also sucked D with Ke Zhendong, and finally went to prison and became a "banned" artist.
Jackie Chan broke the pride of the past, repeatedly apologized on the matter of his son, and finally relied on his own relationship to let Fang Zuming start the behind-the-scenes work.
Presumably, all this is inseparable from Lin Fengjiao's support.
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On the other hand, on the little dragon girl's side, the situation is not very optimistic.
Who would have thought that such a poor child would have a famous father?
She took the same path as her mother, Wu Qili, who had only seen three faces of her father before she was 14 years old, and her mother, Zheng Liming, hated her husband and blamed her daughter.
Zheng Liming often said a word to Wu Qili: Fortunately, you are a girl, if you were a boy, I would not have wanted you for a long time.
The pain of the original family made Wu Qili insecure, until she met Jackie Chan, and his actions completely touched his heart.
Although Jackie Chan is married, he meets all of Wu Qili's expectations for men.
Even if this relationship is disgraceful, no one is qualified to say anything about the moth to put out the fire.
After falling in love, Wu Qili found out that she was pregnant, Jackie Chan did not speak, and she willfully chose to stay, so the two broke up.
In October of the same year, Wu Qili exposed the news of pregnancy, and the child's biological father was Jackie Chan. It is precisely for this reason that Jackie Chan is no longer willing to have anything to do with Wu Qili.
A month later, Wu Qili gave birth to a little dragon girl, and Jackie Chan held a press conference to admit that he had made a mistake.
Jackie Chan knew in his heart that compared to Lin Fengjiao's generosity, Wu Qili was just "calculating herself", and Wu Qili took a wrong step, which made him unacceptable.
In the following ten years, the news of discord between Xiaolongnü and her mother came out many times.
Suicide, running away from home, same-sex marriage, this child grew up in criticism, Wu Qili, a single mother, is not good.
Jackie Chan's career was successful in his life, but he was a failed father, his son was too pampered, and his daughter was too lacking in love.
Wu Qili, did not become the woman behind the big brother, but has been living in the shadow of the big brother and has been tied up for a lifetime.
There is no chance of rehearsal in life, I don't know Wu Qili and Jackie Chan, and now I don't regret it.
As parents, we should all take responsibility, I hope this article can give people inspiration, what ideas do you have, leave a message below to tell Uncle Mai.
Author: Lollipop
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