Chen Ruoyi, who painstakingly married Lin Zhiying, how did she become a "gas bag"? "Endure humiliation and bear the burden" for five years, and finally become "Lin Tai" and "gas bag"
author:Half a point
Chen Ruoyi, who debuted with the title of "Xiaolin Zhiling", also became a full-time wife after marrying Lin Zhiying, the "immortal male god" in the third year of her debut.
In the past 12 years, she has rarely appeared in public, but last year she was widely "sympathized" by the audience because she appeared on the variety show "Mother-in-law and Mother" with her mother-in-law.
It turned out that in the program, Chen Ruoyi was picky by her mother-in-law and shed tears several times, causing extensive discussion.
But is Chen Ruoyi really an "air bag"?
Living in a million Marriott mansions and carrying a Hermès bag, does she really need our sympathy?
Not quite.
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Before Chen Ruoyi met Lin Zhiying, she was just an 18-line small model, although she debuted in 2005 under the banner of "Xiaolin Zhiling", and also appeared in the MVs of stars such as Chen Xiaochun and Du Dewei, but it did not cause any splash.
The following year, she made a cameo appearance in the idol drama "Juliet of the East" starring Wu Zun and Ariel Lin.
When the news came again, it was in 2008 that she married her husband Lin Zhiying, who was 10 years older than herself, and the two only registered for marriage that year, and the following year she gave birth to her son Kimi.
Yes, it's the one who sang "Daddy, do you sing little stars" in "Where Daddy Goes?" "That baby.
It is said that the reason why Lin Zhiying named his eldest son Kimi is because his English name is Jimmy and his wife's English name is Kelly: Kelly + Jimmy = Kimi, so the son's name means the crystallization of love.
Four years later, Lin Zhiying made up the wedding for his wife, and Kimi also became a flower child at the wedding site.
Immediately after, he was taken by his father to the recording site of the parent-child outdoor reality show "Where Did Daddy Go" and successfully "went out of the circle".
Regarding the acquaintance process between Lin Zhiying and Chen Ruoyi, there are many versions on the Internet, and the most fiercely rumored is that she is a super fan of the other party.
It is said that in order to get close to Lin Zhiying, she managed to get the other party's itinerary, and also appeared at the event site according to the above itinerary, and finally relied on the "heart machine" to succeed.
However, Chen Ruoyi denied this statement, and also confided the true acquaintance process of the two for the first time in "Mother-in-law and Mother".
In 2004, they met at a car show at that time, Lin Zhiying had just returned to the "second spring" of her acting career with the role of Dali Shizi Duan yu in the TV series "Tianlong Babu".
He "fell in love at first sight" with Chen Ruoyi at the event, and then directly and euphemistically asked for each other's mailboxes, and the two began to contact each other.
Because the "status" of the two in the entertainment industry is too different, and Lin Zhiying has just returned to another rising period of her career, they have been very low-key after falling in love.
It was not until 2006, when Chen Ruoyi and Lin Zhiying went to a furniture store together and were photographed, that their scandal gradually came to light.
For a time, words such as Chen Ruoyi + "heart machine" and "green tea" appeared in a large number of headlines on the entertainment page, but Chen Ruoyi has always claimed that they are good friends, and even when recording "Kangxi Lai", he was almost "forced" by Xiao S to reveal the stuffing.
It is said that even Lin Zhiying's father once had preconceived notions about her motives and opposed the two of them to interact - when Lin Zhiying first took her to the door, Lin Zhiying's father was black-faced.
After suffering so many grievances, Chen Ruoyi also thought about breaking up, but in the end she persevered and ushered in the dawn of victory.
There is also a reason for this, as we all know, Lin Zhiying was simply popular in Asia.
He debuted as a singer in 1992 and released his first album, Not Every Love Song Has Good Memories, which quickly became a popular hit on the streets — when he was only 17 years old.
The media also gave him a super cool nickname: "Asian Whirlwind": Yes, he did become popular at a speed comparable to a whirlwind.
After becoming popular, Lin Zhiying filmed many popular movies: "Truancy", "New Meteor Butterfly Sword", "Whirlwind Boy", "School Overlord" and so on.
He also called himself the "Four Little Heavenly Kings" with Jin Chengwu, Su Youpeng and Wu Qilong, and when he was most popular, he also passed on gossip with female stars such as Xu Ruoxuan, Lin Xinru, and Ke Jiaqing.
Although he returned from military service in 1996, he fell into a career downturn and faced great pressure because of the car accident in 1998.
But even at the lowest point, Lin Zhiying was still full of superiority: it is said that in 1997, he was invited to Thailand to sing the birthday of the then Thai king, and was almost accepted by the other party as a donkey.
Two years later, he participated in the filming of "Absolute Double Glory", and the "little fish" played by him once again went out of the circle - Lin Zhiying's career also returned to its peak state.
Therefore, after meeting Chen Ruoyi, the two have been in a state of "secret love", and in the face of public speculation and insults, Chen Ruoyi once under great pressure.
It wasn't until their fifth year together that Lin zhiying finally confessed her relationship to the public in October 2009 and said they had been engaged the year before.
Although he finally "worked hard", for Chen Ruoyi, those days, mentioned again, are still "ten thousand arrows through the heart".
Even after the official announcement, she did not dare to show happiness and love like other celebrity couples for a long time, even if it was a family photo with her situation.
In "Mother-in-law and Mother", Chen Ruoyi talked about the grievances she suffered in marriage, she had tears in her eyes and a lonely heart, believing that as a husband, Lin Zhiying did not come out to say a word for her when she was subjected to "network violence".
Indeed, Lin Zhiying said in an interview that even if he quarrels with his wife, he will never be soft and coax each other.
During the participation in "Mother-in-law and Mother", his wife Chen Ruoyi was very nervous because she showed herself on the show for the first time, and he did not comfort a word, and even added fuel to the fire: "You came out to scold people." ”
It caused her to go directly back to the room and cry, and her weight was also crazy 4 pounds.
In addition, Chen Ruoyi also has to face Lin Mu's pickiness from time to time: when she went to visit the other party, she carefully prepared gifts, and she was still afraid that she would be "disliked" if she did not do well;
But Lin Mu saw her at the first sight and said bluntly: "Why don't you zipper well?" Later, in our family, it is best not to wear this kind of shorts, which is very rude. ”
In the face of his mother's strength, Lin Zhiying naturally did not immediately stand on the side of his wife, but the attitude of "not caring about himself and hanging high" was perfunctory.
The audience saw that Chen Ruoyi was constantly crying at the camera, a look of "air bag", so they all began to sympathize with her.
But does Chen Ruoyi need these sympathies? Not.
Although the public's point of "Internet violence" for her is to "climb high" Lin Zhiying - everyone believes that she is not worthy of him.
But is this really the case?
Chen Ruoyi personally said in the "Mother-in-law and Mother" program that the other party fell in love with her at first sight and took the initiative.
Moreover, from the program, we can also see the two couples getting along: Chen Ruoyi is actually the "strong" side.
Not only does she often ask the other person some "sending propositions", such as "Mom is very good?" That wife is not excellent? ”
Moreover, in a previous interview, Lin Zhiying also once commented on Chen Ruoyi: "Ruoyi was a newcomer who was delayed by me for 16 years", and it can be seen that he really loves his wife and respects each other.
Although she was "delayed", Chen Ruoyi has indeed lived a luxurious life without worry since marrying Lin Zhiying.
You know, Lin Zhiying's identity is not only a singer, actor, racing driver, he has also opened a photography studio before, also invested in stocks, and set up his own racing team, there are also technology companies under his name...
It is said that the technology company founded by Lin Zhiying at the age of 26 included Taiwan's J-side and banks, and even once had a monopoly.
In addition, he also opened a "Dream Eater" restaurant, and went to open a Taobao shop...
It is also rumored that in 2013, he became the only star member of HAC's top sports car club - and the entry threshold of this institution is basically tens of billions, and many members are worth more than 10 billion.
Chen Ruoyi, as Lin Zhiying's wife, can naturally enjoy these "dividends", she does not have to go to work every day, and the sun is a comfortable and leisurely day.
She lives in a three-story villa in a european-style exquisite building, which is home to many smart home products of Lin Zhiying Technology Company, and after sending her children to school every day, she goes to the dance studio to practice dance with friends and teachers.
She also often posts her luxury goods, and in a video, she introduces her bags to everyone, with a total value of about 500,000 yuan.
During the live broadcast, she shared her skincare experience with everyone, but the cloakroom behind her was unusually eye-catching: because it was too luxurious.
Occasionally, she would also post her life status on the social platform, carrying Hermès in the elevator to pose, and her son Kimi couldn't help but ask her mother what to do in this dress? She calmly replied, "Go grocery shopping!" ”
When going out, Chen Ruoyi casually took a photo and sent it to the social platform, and the sharp-eyed netizens found that the headphone cover hanging on her chest was 7500 yuan, and she also bought several colors at once.
When she partyed with friends, she was wearing a watch that had been hyped to 600,000 and was not necessarily able to grab it: Rolex's classic Cosmograph Daytona watch.
And her "friends" are Jolin Tsai, Lin Xinru or Lin Mujie and other Taiwanese celebrities...
You know, only Gao Chinese's 18-line "supermodel" Chen Ruoyi, if there is no Lin Zhiying, then all the above may not belong to her.
So, why did she create her own image of "air bag" in the show?
Some netizens analyzed that she was just using the "show weakness" method to weaken her feeling of dependence on her husband.
However, even a girl with a family too ordinary family has the right to dream - Chen Ruoyi spent 17 years to turn this dream into her real life.