I can't forget that day. It was an ordinary Friday evening as usual, and Xiao He'er and I were laughing and waiting for milk tea at a tea house opposite the Shida apartment.
Xiao He'er suddenly exclaimed, asking me to quickly read Weibo. I glanced at Xiao He'er's mobile phone, "Hunan Sf female college student hanged herself in her apartment..."
"Harm, it is another suicide incident of a college student." Haven't you been doing this kind of thing lately, why are you so excited? I replied casually.
And what happened next was like a needle in my heart, and whenever I was "inertia numb" to the suffering of others, I did not fall down and be pricked.
As I watched the clerk skillfully sprinkle a pinch of cream with more fruit, Xiao He's sobs "woke me up", "She is only 20 years old like us, living a few hundred meters away from us, we may have encountered it, why don't you want to open it..."
I suddenly came back to reality from an insensitive melon-eating mass, and I suddenly came back to my senses.
In the past two days, my little Z friend, who suffers from severe depression, is in a very bad mood, and he has just come to me in the afternoon because of a very fucking thing. As usual, I preached a lot of truth and left it behind.
Tentatively, I took out my phone and called him, pretending to ask if he wanted to bring milk tea.
No one picked up!
Fight again, or no one will pick up!
When the fifth call was not answered, I finally stepped on my legs, which had softened into cotton, and fled towards the apartment. The road on weekends is always extremely crowded, I cry while running, and hit many passers-by before they can apologize.
"Anxiety, worry, guilt, anger, despair, helplessness..." All emotions rushed to me. For the first time, I felt that the journey from backgammon to the apartment was so long.
I tried my best to control the hand that had already been shaken into a sieve, and opened the door...
Thankfully, thankfully
fortunately.
Seeing that ta was safe and sound, I happily just wanted to hold ta and cry, and then punch ta a few times to teach this bad guy how dare not answer my phone. Seriously, long afterwards I still can't imagine what I would have done if it wasn't for the fortunate ending. I can't even think about it.
People always have to wait for the needle to be stuck in their body to feel pain. For the suffering of others, we always feel that we don't care about ourselves and hang high. Or to exert the cheapest and useless sympathy to demonstrate one's moral superiority.
But the truth is that every time we hear news about the suffering of others, it is more than just cold words and events.
Behind this, some people's flesh is suffering, some people's hearts are being destroyed, and some people are sending a final cry for help to the world in the abyss of despair...
What can each of us do for others? Do you want to do something for others? This involves the proposition of a sense of mission, and each of us is born with a mission. Or to innovate the times, or to uphold justice, or to serve the people, or to cultivate talents.
Nothing is too big or small, when each of us lives with a sense of mission. Instead of thinking all day about what private gains I can get from others, but thinking about what help I can provide to others, the world will be a better and better place.
Over the past year, I have also been asking myself, what can I do? How can I help others?
As I continued to walk on the path of self-awareness and self-improvement, this direction gradually became clearer. People who have come into contact with me personally or who have seen my videos and texts have all commented on me as words like "sincere and enthusiastic, infectious, affinity, comfortable, touched" words.
In addition to being honored, I also kept thinking about how to translate these qualities into the ability to actually help others.
Among my "vast" hobbies, psychology is one of the hobbies that make me most excited. I forget which book I have seen in saying that in this era, material things can no longer bring people a sense of happiness.
Deeply believed! So my original vision was to become a professional counselor in the future, using the most scientific and efficient methods to help people improve their sense of happiness. However, due to various practical disadvantages, this dream is still difficult to realize.
After careful consideration and trade-offs, I decided to "save the country with a curve.". In the future, I would like to use the Internet platform to share with you some content that has practical significance for "improving happiness index" in the form of video pictures or text, which can play a small positive role for everyone, and I will feel happy and satisfied.
Of course, it is still necessary to make a friendly proposal, UU with serious mental or psychological symptoms, it is best to seek professional help, the content I share can only play a supporting role, to completely treat the current fear is beyond reach.
Of course, the content I want to share is not limited to the field of psychology, and I will also talk to you about philosophy and literature, finance, business law and other small lucky lives that are not there
In short, I just can't see anyone suffering. As long as it's about the worldview and methodology of "making life better", I am very happy to explore and try to giggle
At the end of the day, you're welcome to link me.
I hope that after being close to me, you can meet a better version of yourself.
Then we work together to achieve the well-being of humanity.
ON THE ROAD!