I have a friend who says, "I'm tired of living, every time I talk to him."
His monthly income is not low, but with mortgages, car loans, and living expenses, he always feels that life is difficult.
As someone said, a person feels tired because there are too many things in the backpack that is moving forward.
I agree.
There is no happiness in a life that carries weights forward.
In this day and age, everyone's life is not easy, and the reason why some people feel tired and unhappy is mostly because they have made a mistake, that is, they can't control their desires.
Without desire, people will not progress, but the infinite expansion of desire is also very frightening.
Desire is endless.
Sometimes, the reason why people feel tired is actually that they are too attached to the desire to think differently.
Ever seen a fable story.
There is a small insect called a scorpion that likes to carry things, so it is also called a good negative worm.
When it crawls, whenever it encounters something, it always picks it up, carries it with its head held high.
It keeps picking up, keeps carrying, and carries more and more things, even if the body has reached its limit, it is very tired and tired.
In the end, I was overwhelmed and overwhelmed, unable to crawl.
Some passers-by looked at it pitifully and helped it remove the things on its back, but once it could crawl, it still kept carrying.
This is not enough, but it likes to climb to a high place, and every time it falls down because the things on its back are too heavy, until it falls to death.
This is true of cockroaches, and it is also true of some people.
Next door to a wealthy family lived two people selling tofu.
The little couple is not rich and wealthy, but they are also happy, and the home is full of laughter.
The wives of rich people wonder why they can live so happily without money.
So she told her husband about it, and he said, "Wait, soon they won't be happy."
One morning, two people selling tofu found a windfall in their yard.
In addition to being happy, they can't help but worry, they want to take the money for themselves, and they are worried that someone will come to the door.
Since then, the two have always been worried, and the rich man's wife has never heard laughter again.
Schopenhauer once said, "It is not poverty that causes suffering, but greed." ”
The depth of a person's greed determines the degree of his suffering.
Life is not bitter, but suffering is too much desire. The heart is not tired, tired is that there are too many things that cannot be put down.
People live a lifetime, their homes have thousands of acres of fertile land, and the eclipse is not more than three meals; even if there are thousands of buildings, the night sleep is not more than eight feet.
Greed is the source of defilement, and contentment is always happy.
Some people say that the reason why you live tired is that you just mentally blame yourself continuously, and your actions do not change immediately.
Deeply.
When we can't change the environment, we first change our state of mind.
Only with a good mood and a good attitude can we have a good life.
There was a teacher named Hu Jiushao, who was teaching and farming at the same time, and his life was very hard.
But he never felt bitter, but he was happy every day.
One day, Hu Jiushao prayed nine times to the heavens and thanked the heavens for giving him Qingfu, and his wife was very puzzled when she heard it, saying: "We have three meals a day are all green vegetables, where is the Qingfu?" ”
Hu Jiushao smiled and said to his wife: "We were born in the peaceful and prosperous world, there are no patients in the family, there are no prisoners in the prison, and there are no things in our lives that make us feel painful.
More importantly, the whole family is safe and healthy, with clothes to wear, food to eat, and room to live in, which is not what Qingfu is?"
After the wife listened, she nodded her head in agreement.
Contentment is not greedy, and the heart is not burdened.
People need to learn to precipitate, examine impetuousness with an indifferent heart, and find their own place in tranquility.
When you are on the sidelines, look down on fame and fortune, and have a positive and balanced mentality, you can live frankly, sincerely, calmly, and happily.
As Carnegie put it in The Virtues of Human Nature, "Don't look to the distant prospects, our priority is to deal with what is in front of us." ”
Indeed, when your talent can't support your ambition, then you should calm down and learn;
When your economy can't support your dreams, then you should work steadily;
When your ability is not yet able to control your goals, you should sink your heart and practice!
After all, happiness is all overstepping.