We've always thought
Lying is a very wrong thing to do
But sometimes lying brings benefits
It is forcing you to grow
Let you be the way you want to be
01
I had a dream of going to graduate school, and just last semester I was excitedly fighting for graduate school every day, and then I gave up because I realized:
My family is not very wealthy, this year I am a sophomore, my sister is a freshman in high school, if I go to graduate school, my parents have to bear the cost of my sister's university, but also worry about the cost of my graduate school.
So I lied to them: because I knew that they always wanted me to go to the civil service examination, so I said that it was too difficult to go to the civil service examination, and I wanted to go to the civil service examination after graduation, and they were very happy to hear it.
If it is possible in the future, I will carry my sister's college expenses on my shoulders and relieve my parents of the burden.
@Anonymous
02
After going to college, my sister would always buy me clothes for me to wear at school, but she always liked to buy clothes that were five to ten centimeters longer than my height, and she thought it was better to wear this way, but I actually didn't like it. But I would laugh and say "I like it" to her and bring her to school, not wearing it many times.
When I was a child, I didn't understand things, I only knew that I was not happy, but when I grew up, after I understood things, I also hoped to make these people who loved me happy, if a few lies can be done, I am willing to be an honest and good child for the time being.
@Beryl
03
Every time I talk to my mother, I only choose the good to say, the bad one has not opened my mouth, I will cry first, I have not held back, and then I only told her about the happy things in life, the unhappy things I did not mention, those bad things gushed up in the throat I will want to cry...
I can't imagine how hard it would be for her to say it to the person I care about the most.
For those things that remain in the bottom of your heart, we can't let it continue to make you unhappy and unhappy, but we must smooth out its edges and corners, no longer let it sting an inch of your skin, and later you will know where your strength comes from.
@WN
04
There are two students participated in a competition together, the content of the competition to use PPT, one of the students has been asking another person, her ppt plan to do, the other classmate said "casually cope with it", "I don't know" "I didn't think well", and then the two people played each other haha to the final.
@JUAN
05
Now in my junior year, I have never returned home on National Day, in fact, it is only a three- or four-hour train, but I go home twice a year, winter vacation and summer vacation.
Economic independence has never asked for money from the family, three or four or five thousand in January, every video is a good news, not a worry, I don't know how many lies have been told, and I don't know what the future will be, but I always believe that it will get better and better.
@Helen
06
In fact, now there is no courage to be yourself, whether it is for people who are very close, for family, friends, treat everyone around you to laugh, laugh and chat, laugh and say yes, smile to agree, laugh and say it doesn't matter.
"Hahaha" is the norm, occasionally say to yourself, why do you have to force yourself so much, and occasionally some people will ask you if you are actually unhappy
"Hahaha, I'm fine."
You see, growing up is to learn to lie, to learn to deceive others, to learn to hide from yourself, to grow up is to learn to leave vulnerability to the night, to be upright and sunny and energetic, to every place where the light can be.
@Fan Fan
07
Several times I came home alone, but I lied to my mother that she was with her classmates, just so that she could sleep peacefully when I came home.
Later, after she recognized it, she felt that I could be alone, but she didn't worry much about me.
Sometimes I have to do something to prove to my parents that it's okay, I can do it myself, don't worry too much.
@Lu Sauce
08
I used to hate my dad.
When he was a child, he was an alcoholic and came home and beat my mother and me. Living in the countryside at the time, everyone else knew. In order to maintain my inner balance, I later learned to lie and tell others that my father was great, so as to gain the envy of others.
When I grew up, there were times when I still lied. For example, your own family is ideal, for example, your own growth environment is ideal...
Of course, I was punished for this.
At that time, I hated my father, why didn't my father argue? Why does Dad have to be so bad?
But now, I understand that Dad has also been trying to give me the best he can give me. He wasn't perfect, no one taught him, and I shouldn't be harsh on him for anything.
@jiajiazixun
09
When I was a child, the most beautiful lie I heard was: "Dad is not tired, Dad carries you." Mom doesn't eat, you eat! When I grew up, I gradually inherited the tradition of my parents, and also learned to "lie", often hanging on my lips " I don't want to, I'm fine!" After many years, I gradually understood that this is "love."
@Handsome
10
Lying to your parents on the other end of the phone, not saying to your parents on the other end of the phone that you are sick, how much pain you have to swallow and digest, and comfort your parents with a tone that has nothing to do, "How can you be sick, your health is fine?"
If only I had to set a sign for growing up
I thought it was the moment I learned to lie
Sweet words on the mouth, no waves in the heart
The mouth is tolerant and gentle, and the heart is proud and indulgent
The mouth is modest and cautious, and the heart is impatient
Sometimes lies are told
Even I have lied to myself
So I suddenly woke up
Then sit on the ground and cry
It's not a child anymore
Did you lie after college?
What was the time that impressed you?
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