The anime is set in the Scottish Highlands of the 10th century AD, where King Fergus and Queen Eleanor, with an older daughter and three twin brothers, are in a happy family combination model.
The biggest conflict in the story is the clash of views between the queen and her eldest daughter, Melinda, who wants Melinda to take on the responsibilities of a princess and marry a prince to make their kingdom stronger. But Melinda advocates freedom and equality, marriage independence, how to solve such a tense parent-child relationship?
<h2 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > I'm for your own good, why don't you understand</h2>."
Melinda's mother Eleanor is an elegant and noble woman, who has fallen into the world of generous motherhood, and hopes that her daughter can be like her, with a royal princess's cultivation, sitting and sitting, standing and standing.
And Merlin reached the age of marriage, for the royal family at that time, finding a prince of the kingdom who matched his own strength to marry was the best strategy.
For the whole kingdom, it is also a good thing to kill two birds with one stone, both to increase the power of the kingdom and to find a prince who matches the royal princess.
It is true that from a queen's point of view such an arrangement is clearly righteous, but from a mother's point of view, it is too arbitrary on the question of the child.
Melinda has not been interested in women since she was a child, such things as three or four virtues. Like other princesses, they didn't learn to dance, draw a picture or something. The things she was most interested in since she was a child were archery and horseback riding, which had nothing to do with the female red.
Queen Eleanor was also very helpless about her daughter's preference, plus the king's preference for her daughter, there was no intention of blocking, and ordered someone to create a set of bows and arrows suitable for her daughter to use.
From here, we can see that in the parent-child relationship between the king and the queen and Melinda, Queen Eleanor is the party who is too anxious about the growth of the child. Of course, it is also the party with the most hearts.
Often in a family, the party that is more strict with the child among the parents is the party that accompanies the child's life and study the most.
In the modern family model, most of the people who play this role are mothers, so many children are closer to their fathers, as the saying goes: do not write works of motherly kindness and filial piety, and write homework chickens fly dogs jump.
Now the child's homework, no more than before, many of them need parental assistance to complete. Especially in the school period of young age, it is necessary for the mother to be patiently accompanied and taught word by word.
Many old mothers say that their children's schooling is the feeling of following their children to school again, but this is the real situation.
<h2 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > I just want to get out of your control, not hurt you</h2>
Therefore, we are inevitably anxious, whether the level of children can keep up with the rhythm of social changes, and their attitude and tone are much tougher.
It is inevitable to think that if we prepare the best route and let the children follow it, it will be easier to succeed.
The old mother's heart is understandable, but whether the child likes or dislikes the road we have prepared, we must also consider it. Is what we think is appropriate really the best for children?
In order to get rid of her mother's control, Melinda went to the forest to get poisonous snacks from the witch, thinking that her mother would change her mind and give her free space.
But the effect of the poison snack was beyond her reach, and her mother was turned into a black bear.
Once a bowl of instant noodles placed in the quilt made many parents cry, telling about the divorce of their parents, the child who had just entered elementary school lived with his father, and on this day the child returned home to finish his homework.
It was very late to see that my father had not yet come home, so I took out the only bowl of instant noodles in the family and filled it for my father to eat. Later, worried that it was cold, he put it in his father's quilt.
Dragging his tired body home, Dad wanted to fall on the bed to rest, and the noodles in the quilt were sprinkled on the bed, and he was furious and beat his son.
Questioning why his son was so naughty, the son said that he was worried that his father would be cold when he came back late, so he covered the only bubble noodle in the quilt and left it for his father.
Many times, we don't want to chat with our children and talk, a hard day's work, people are exhausted, and when they come home, they want to take a breath and rest.
There's nothing wrong with that, but what are we working so hard for? Big house? Luxury cars? Get the envy of others? And of course to give our children a better life.
So in the spare time, take even half an hour to talk to your child about today's school and ask your child what he needs our help.
<h2 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > I need your listening, and your support is critical to me</h2>
Children crave us as equals, to talk like old friends. The child's idea is simple, he doesn't deliberately provoke us to get angry, just wants us to see their existence. Touch your head and praise for their little achievement, encourage them to overcome the problem of memorization.
The child's inner confession is, please calm down and talk to me, I need your support. The world of children does not have the deceit of adults, and our smiling faces will make them happy to fly.
In the story, Eleanor turns into a black bear and her daughter Melinda living together in the forest, allowing Eleanor to see the virtues of Melinda's kindness and bravery. I also experienced what a warm parent-child relationship should look like.
We are also parents for the first time, but we can start by learning to respect our children, and exchange our respect for the trust that children have in us.
Listening to your child's true thoughts and helping your child achieve his or her dreams is better than letting your child apply our dreams. Maybe they'll surprise us differently. After all, every child is born has a meaning of his existence.
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