On the outside, Ling Ling is definitely better than Luo Zijun, who was the school flower when she was a student.
She is not pretty, her figure is very average, and she is not at all eye-catching in the crowd.
Not to mention, she divorced with a boy.
In real life, many men say that they are reluctant to marry a woman with a boy in a second marriage
However, how could such a middle-aged divorced woman with an unremarkable appearance make Chen Junsheng not hesitate to abandon his wife and son, and get close to leaving the house, but also want to be with Ling Ling? Still willing to help her raise a son together?
Ling Ling stills
Where is Ling Ling's little third powerful?
First, high emotional intelligence, understanding men, to provide men with high emotional value
Men, especially those who have achieved a little success, the pressure and competition they face in society are considerable.
Those men with successful careers in life, in addition to the original rich second generation and the second generation, which one did not climb up from the bottom by their own efforts?
How beautiful there is in front of people, how sad there is after people.
In the play, Chen Junsheng is the same, in the eyes of outsiders, he is young and promising, and his family career has a double harvest, but in fact, the pressure he faces is very large.
This kind of pressure, Luo Zijun, who is a full-time wife at home, cannot feel empathy, and her main energy is to swipe the card to consume.
Ling Ling, who is also in the same company, can understand, because she has also come step by step through her own efforts, and she has also been fighting in the workplace for many years.
Ling Ling understands Chen Junsheng, understands that it is not easy for men, and understands men.
At the same time, she pays special attention to the tone of her voice in front of Chen Junsheng, gentle, considerate, never demanding, and knows how to retreat into progress. Such Ling Ling gives men extremely high emotional value.
2, live independently, strong working ability, can give men career help
Ling Ling is different from Luo Zijun in the long home, she has strong working ability, can help Chen Junsheng share the pressure of work, and can also give Chen Junsheng advice, and the two individuals can go hand in hand in thought.
When young, men may prefer younger women, even if the woman has little ability and no thoughts. But when men reach middle age, they will have a certain change in what they have to ask for their other half. They will pay attention to whether the other person's thoughts can be synchronized with their own, and whether they can help their own careers.
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3, do not argue, do not grab, Ming Xiu Zhan Dao darkness Chen Cang
After Chen Junsheng cheated, Ling Ling never forced Chen Junsheng to make a decision. On the contrary, it is always a willing, non-contentious posture. This can arouse men's guilt.
When Chen Junsheng complained that in addition to consumption, he didn't know anything about work and didn't understand himself.
Ling Ling not only did not help, but also said good things for Luo Zijun: Without Luo Zijun's support and sacrifice, there would be no Chen Junsheng today.
Such a sentence made Chen Junsheng feel more fond of her.
I think she is generous and kind.
In fact, the real high-ranking little three is not the kind of small three who opens his teeth and dances his claws and is arrogant, but a small three like Ling Ling, who understands men, has IQ and emotional intelligence, and knows how to retreat into progress.
Of course, when Xiao San is wrong, it is the original match that hates Xiao San, but hate has no meaning, and only by knowing oneself and knowing the other can one never lose a battle.
At the same time, we can learn something from The Little Three.
Marriage needs to be managed, and the relationship between husband and wife also needs to be managed
If we know how to run ourselves into the best choice for our partners, then no matter how little three are, we are not afraid.
We can kick the scumbag off, even if we divorce, we can live well on our own, and we have a lot of choices.
Luo Zijun in the back, after being excellent, didn't he still find a good man?
In a word, being excellent is king