A few days ago, Shadow Sister chatted with her cousin.
The cousin complained that she had been given a baby by her mother again.
The words that gave birth to the baby came and went:
"You are in your thirties, and if you are not born again, you will not be born."
"Raise children and prevent old age, what if you don't have a baby and get old?"
"Children are the bond of marriage, and marriage without children is difficult to maintain."
Cousin said that she felt that the most ridiculous thing was the last two sentences, was it that having children was to maintain marriage and later pension?
Not to mention that many people are deeply convinced of the phrase "children are the bond of marriage".
"Marriage Connection"
That's right, it's a connection, not a connection.
What is a connected marriage?
Kids, of course.
Marriages that require children are useless.
Wanda and Aldo's marriage is at such a stage.
The film opens with a family dance.
Wanda and the children danced and laughed at the dance, so unhappy.
Only Aldo had a dignified face and remained absent.
Back home, the family's life seems to be no different from usual.
Until the children were asleep, Aldo and Wanda blew themselves up:
"I'm with someone else."
Wanda calmly asked him when, who the other person was, and whether they were in love.
And he said,
"It's stupid to talk about this."
"I know it's not good, but I'm talking to you."
"You should help me instead of asking these useless questions."
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Wasn't aldo himself the initiator of this topic?
Since he blew himself up because he could not bear the moral condemnation in his heart, it was honest to the end.
He said these words, who listened not to sigh a word - scumbag.
In fact, more "scum" is still to come.
In the face of the angry Wanda, the cowardly Alda chose to comfort Wanda instead of hugging and kissing Wanda.
The front foot just told his wife that there was someone outside, and then he kissed and hugged his wife with his hands and feet?
He did this kind of behavior, who saw it without sighing a word - disgusting.
Soon, Aldo was kicked out of the house by Wanda.
Wanda didn't expect that Aldo would really not come back when he left.
What to do?
Go to Aldo's unit to find him and let him go home.
Here's why.
"Sandro always asks about you, Anna doesn't want to wash her hair, she says only you know how to dry your hair well."
"You've got to come back. We had agreed before that if we got married, we would grow old with nothing. ”
"I followed you to Naples, no family and no friends, and it's all because of you."
For Wanda, of course, this is a good reason.
But in Aldo's view, this already had a coercive meaning, and it would only make him feel tormented.
The story develops to the present, and Wanda is undoubtedly the side of the reason.
But Wanda's later approach made it difficult for Ying Mei to agree.
Aldo came to see the child, and Wanda insisted that Aldo stay overnight.
When the two people quarreled, they saw Wanda smile slightly, so she went to the kitchen and threw the kettle on the ground.
She didn't care that the children would hear, she wanted the children to come out and keep their father.
Aldo told the children that every morning he could listen to the radio show he hosted and listen to his voice.
Wanda always didn't let the children listen to Aldo's radio programs, and even threw the radio downstairs and fell into a mess.
Not only that, she also let the children watch themselves tear up Xiao San and their father.
In this way, Anna and Sandro had to watch quietly and with fear as Mom and Dad fought together.
In addition, Wanda has a strong desire to control the children.
It seems that the husband and the children, she must control one side.
Alda sends Sandro football, but Wanda says sandro never goes to the yard to play.
Alda gives Anna a necklace, but Wanda insists that the necklace was chosen by the "little three children".
Anna looked at her parents as if they were going to quarrel again, and said that she was going to hang out with her brother.
WanDa refused, "You'll just stay here for me." ”
Of course, Wanda will also impose Aldo's opinion of herself on the children.
During the fight, Aldo said that being with Wanda was like serving a prison sentence and saying that he would not stay at home.
Wanda immediately called the children out like crazy and said to the children,
"Dad felt like he was serving a prison sentence staying with us."
With that, she locked herself in the room.
It wasn't until her son slammed the door and begged herself to come out that she opened the door and came out.
Unsurprisingly, Wanda did her best.
She jumped out of the window and tried to kill herself, but she didn't die.
After being hospitalized with her injuries, the only people who take care of her life are Anna and Sandro.
Aldo is wrong to cheat, cowardly is wrong, but for children, the influence of mothers on them can be more fatal.
As a mother, Wanda undoubtedly loves her children, but she also consciously or unconsciously uses her children as a tool to keep her husband.
Anna and Sandro are obviously two children,
Why do you have to look at your mother's eyes and why do you have to take care of your mother's emotions?
They can't vent their emotions, they can't play happily, they can only understand things early, and their rights as children are thus deprived by their mothers.
In this family, they became victims of their parents' marriage.
And this tragedy did not end because of Aldo's departure.
The cowardly Aldo eventually leaves his lover and returns to his family.
A family seems to be finally complete.
But what about the facts?
There was no longer any love between Aldo and Wanda, and they even quarreled as soon as they spoke.
Anna and Sandro knew that their parents did not love each other, but they still had to grow up in such a family.
In this long marriage, Wanda and Aldo not only tortured each other, but also invisibly tortured Anna and Sandro.
So that once they can leave home, they never want to come back.
In the changing time and space, we witness the family tragedy of Wanda and Aldo.
I have to say that the transition between time and space in the movie is very clever.
For example, when she was young, She walked to the door, and as she walked, she became an old Wanda.
For example, as soon as the young Aldo turned around, he became the elderly Aldo.
Therefore, without going too far, we can know that a young couple and an old couple are actually the same couple.
In the movie, the elderly Wanda and Aldo go on vacation.
When he returned home, he found that the house was a mess, the cat was gone, and the nude photos that Aldo had taken for his lover were gone.
Where did the cat go? Who will the thief be?
This question runs through the film and is not answered until the end.
That's right, it was Anna and Sandro who started it.
Anna was determined not to have children after marriage, and Sandro was never able to have a stable intimate relationship.
The lives of both of them can be said to have been ruined by their parents.
They hate their mother's extremes, and they hate their father's weakness.
Anna said that she liked her father's lover and wanted to be like her.
But she also felt that such a thought was a betrayal of her mother, and she felt guilty about it.
Sandro discovered his father's secret hidden in the box early on, a secret that sandro had hidden in his heart for 30 years.
For 30 years, Sandro had to watch his parents grow old in vain when there was clearly no love between them.
In the end, they finally vented their emotions when they had never let go of their emotions in childhood.
They messed up their parents' house, hid pictures of their father's lover, and took the cat away.
This is not their revenge on their parents.