Life is like a chess piece, the bold one holds the chess piece calmly, and the chess piece is sound; the timid person is meticulous and steps by step; the arrogant person is looking up at the sky, not a lifetime, and finally because of a miscalculation, the game is full of losses. People are like this, showing everything they have in this small chessboard, but in life, they often can't see themselves clearly.
The world is like a chess piece, the layout is like time. What slipped away was time, what fell was the chess piece, and there was no remorse in this game. If there is, it is a remedy for one's own faults, and the time and effort required to remedy it is several times more than that of the person who thinks twice.
<h1>01</h1>
A father is playing chess with his son, and the competitive child is bent on outtaking his father, his eyes wide open and he thinks intently.
He paid great attention to how each move should be made, and the pieces were soaked with sweat oozing from his hands.
It was hard to come up with a trick to attack fiercely, he took a step forward triumphantly, and at the moment of falling, suddenly he found that there were some errors in his judgment, of course, this trick was no less than taking the initiative to send sheep into the tiger's mouth.
He's going to repent.
His father, who had always been gentle, became serious at this time, and he firmly shook his outstretched finger, not allowing him to repent, although it was only for entertainment.
At that time, in the young heart of the child, he was secretly dissatisfied with his father's unreasonableness, and even for a long time he thought that his father was careful.
However, many years passed, and he realized his father's good intentions in this "fall without regrets".
Any game has rules, and rules are the guarantee of smooth progress of the game to achieve its purpose.
For children, the game is a constraint on their psychology and behavior, playing chess is like being a person, when doing games with children, urging children to strictly abide by the rules is to cultivate children's self-control from an early age;
Training his discipline and laying a solid foundation for becoming a law-abiding and honest person in the future, the child who played chess was always strict with himself and worked hard in the future, and finally succeeded in his career.
In fact, he is Mr. Tan Shin Gang, a famous professor at the National University of Singapore and the dean of the Business School.
There are more and more choices in this world, more and more ways of life, and it is precisely because of our limited life experiences that we have a limited time to make choices, and perhaps no one dares to say that the "son" they have fallen into is always right.
Life forces us to make choices that are either left or right, and when you choose this, you give up that. When making a decision, it is necessary to play chess like a national player, and there is no regret!
Wolves are very powerful, in fact, because of their small size, if you want to catch animals larger than it, you often need your own unique intelligence.
If the deer chased by the wolves hid in the river, the wolves would stagnate. Because if you rush in, you can easily be kicked and injured by a deer. Therefore, the wolves chose to divide into two groups, retreated on both sides, and did not take the initiative to attack, but from time to time forced the deer who tried to rush to the river bank back into the river until the deer ran out of strength.
If the wolves drive the deer to the edge of the dangerous rock, it seems that the deer have no way to retreat, but the wolves often give up their prey at this time. Because if the wolf continues to attack, it is possible to fall into the canyon with the male deer. Wolves are smart, and they feel that it is obviously not worth paying with their lives for uncertain success.
In life, we are also like wolves who are often faced with a dilemma when they are faced with choices. Entering, may be risky; retreat, may be abandoned.
In a person's life, we need to face many choices, which is a reality that each of us must face. On the road of life, we also have to go through many tests and become an unforgettable experience in the course of everyone's life.
There is no regret in falling, in fact, it also implies that there is no regret in life. Everyone has everyone's life trajectory, and the most critical step in the path of life is likely to change a person's life. But there is only one path and only one life, and once we have walked, there is no time for us to choose again.
<h1>02</h1>
Life is like a chess piece, there is no regret in falling, a move is careless, and the game is lost. I believe that everyone who plays chess has had this painful and profound experience: in the case of a good situation, just because of a careless move, a wrong son, the situation will take a sharp turn, the of a thousand miles, destroyed in the ant nest. From then on, passive everywhere, everywhere defensive.
The same is true of life, if you take a wrong step at a critical moment, from then on step wrong, it is unlikely that you will turn back. There are many examples of "a mistake into a thousand ancient hatreds, and then a hundred years of body" and so on. If you want to win the chess game of life, only by taking every step down-to-earth, step by step, and playing steadily, can you get out of the road of life without regrets. There is no regret medicine in life.
The Qing Dynasty poet Zhang Can has a small poem: "Calligraphy and painting qinqi poetry hops, in those years, one by one did not leave him; and now seven things have changed, chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea." In just a few words, it vividly interprets the changes of ordinary people in the flow of time and space, but mortals often do not introspect themselves and let vulgarity follow.
If we look at life in poetry, what is life? Whether it is a rushing river, a clear and gentle poem, or a play that appears in ink, I have asked questions to the void countless times, and I am puzzled. Recently, I have been exposed to Go, and I have a new answer to this. In fact, life is more like a game of chess that has not been played.
We often hear that some people act carelessly, and the end result is to lose the opportunity to succeed, and exclaim: "Alas, I would have done it if I hadn't done it." "Regret has to beat your chest, but it is too late, although you can get successful experience, but the precious time is wasted."
Wang Guozhen said: It is a pity that I have never seen the majesty of a big mountain; I still regret that I have seen the majesty of a big mountain and have not seen the sea. Haohan, who had seen the sea, had never seen the vastness of the desert and was still sorry.
Nine times out of ten things are not satisfactory in life, how can everything be completed?
And have a normal heart, pure heart, no dirt and no dirt, look down on the flashy, no complaints, no regrets.
<h1>03</h1>
Go master Wu Qingyuan once lamented: "Go is a harmonious art. "The game of tattoos, black and white confrontation, the deduction of chess people and chess." The ups and downs of life also depend on the art of life of the individual. There is no regret in falling, no greed, abandonment in the face of danger, no scramble for water... The chess theory that seems to be easy to understand and understand contains a profound and long-term philosophy of life. Game and being human are inseparable.
The open-minded person is magnificent and rationally arranged; the narrow-minded and despicable person, who plays chess and treacherous, is difficult to become a great instrument. The chess game is changing rapidly, life is also ups and downs, when you are in a good situation, do not be proud of the spring breeze, remember to live in peace and think of danger; when you are in adversity, do not feel sorry for yourself, remember to be calm and calm, cherish the opportunity, in order to realize the dream of triumph.
Life is like chess, chess pieces are like the positioning of role conversion, and each piece has its own position. Usually, we always prefer "robbers" with strong lethality, such as cars, horses, and artillery, but we despise weak men such as soldiers.
On the chess field, the fall without regret reflects a person's chess style, chess products, and chess virtue; and in life, life has no regrets, which is also the embodiment of a person's character, personality, and people's moral cultivation. There is an old Chinese saying that "men are afraid of entering the wrong line, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man."
In today's society, although employees can also fire the boss squid, their occupations and positions allow a variety of choices and multiple choices, but a person can not always change jobs! Nowadays, we pay attention to the freedom of marriage and equality between men and women, but a person can not always fight divorce lawsuits!
In fact, in the end, the one who directly smashes the Yellow Dragon and defeats the enemy may often be a humble pawn. Just like at the critical moment, the scales are four or two thousand pounds, each with its own advantages, but it is not put in the right position.
Similarly, people play different roles in social life, and each person's role is only different in the division of labor, and there is no distinction between light and heavy and noble.
Therefore, do not complain about the arrangement of fate, let alone succumb to fate, as long as you hold a firm belief, in the ordinary job, you can also achieve a career. The same in the ordinary can breed greatness, and the ordinary can also cast brilliance.
<h1> 04</h1>
I often hear the old man say that ancient chess is divided into nine products, and chess pieces show character. The game must have yide, upright chess style, and honor and righteousness. For people, they also need to follow the right path, win without delicacy, and defeat without discouragement. "Trick-or-treating is also effective, but limited." Mr. Lu Xun said. Indeed, those who are good at drilling camps and are accustomed to using small tricks to win by chance have lost their credibility, and in the game and in life, they will eventually push themselves into the abyss of dilemma.
Life is like chess, the opponent is the environment we are in, some people can foresee more than a dozen steps, or even dozens of steps, precautions, attack later. Some people can only see a few steps away, or even take one step at a time. When playing against the master, it is often a step of miscalculation, and the full game is lost; but the master plays chess, facing the endgame, but it may peak and turn, and the willow is dark and bright.
There is a cloud in Sun Tzu's Art of War: "Therefore, those who are good at war seek the situation, and do not blame others, so they can choose people and let the situation prevail." "
This means that those who are good at fighting with troops must first create a favorable combat posture for themselves before pursuing victory, rather than demanding that their subordinates win in bitter battles.
During the Reign of Qi Huan, the Qi army attacked the State of Lu. Cao Jiao was a strategist of Luzhuang, and the Qi army attacked with drums three times, but Cao Jie waited until the third time to say that he could meet the battle. The Qi army was defeated. Lu Zhuanggong was ready to drive in pursuit, but Cao Jie had to check carefully before deciding to pursue. The result was a great victory over the Qi army.
After the war, Lu Zhuanggong asked Cao Jie why he was like this, and Cao Jie replied: "One drum, then decline, three exhaustion." The morale of the enemy troops is exhausted, but the morale of our army has just been boosted, and it is the time when our army will defeat them. Although the Qi army was defeated, but did not know whether it was true or false, it was necessary to check first, and when it was found that their ruts had been chaotic and the military flag had fallen, they could be assured to pursue. "
Going with the flow is not going with the flow, it is waiting for the opportunity to move after recognizing the situation, going along with the general trend, and doing what is the skill. There must be judgment of the situation, there must be courage in action, and there must be control over the situation.
Only when judgment is proper can we seize opportunities; only by acting decisively can we seize opportunities; only when we have proper control can we be unafraid of change.
This is the real trend, so that we can go forward steadily.
All encounters in the world are long-term reunions, some people have known each other for a long time, but they are still strangers; some people, even if they look at them, seem to have known each other for thousands of years.
Life is like a chess game, because there is no regret in falling, so the steps are frightening, some people fall like a fly, some people are uncertain, just for an ending; no matter whether the final outcome is success or failure, life is like chess, just try your best.
The only thing we can do is to take every step under our feet, to make every move in front of us, and to strive to live a simple and harmonious life every ordinary day, in order to leave good memories in life.
"Three glasses of wine in life, one game of chess in the flow of the year", there are thousands of changes in the chess game, life has thousands of possibilities, understanding chess and understanding life, life is like chess, chess is like life.