The "Maginot Line" of social relations

People who are good at managing relationships actually understand the fragility and absurdity of human social relations the most.

If someone tells you one day that a relationship is unbreakable, then he is either not living to understand it, or he is properly fooling you!

Deconstructing "relationship" is nothing more than "loyalty, grace, righteousness, and affection."

Speak loyally, watch the Romance of the Three Kingdoms. Was Cao Cao loyal to Emperor Xian of Han? Was Liu Bei loyal to Cao Cao? Is Lü Bu loyal to Dong Zhuo? Is Liu Feng loyal to Liu Bei? ；

Tell the grace, watch "Journey to the West". In the section of "Three Dozen White Bone Essences", Goku saved the master three times, did the old monk Nian En? Tang Monk was abducted by the Yellow Robe Monster, and the first thought of the Eight Precepts was to return to Gao Laozhuang. The yellow-robed monster has been good to princesses for thirteen years, but someone has come to rescue her, and the princess has long written a good book to trust the sand monk to take away, ventilate the letter, does she read grace?

Handouts, see Water Margin. Song Jiang attacked Zengtou City and sent some leaders who could not fight to follow The King of Chao, and as a result, Chao Gai was shot to death. Lin Chong was taken in by Wang Lun when he was down, and just because he was coldly treated, he ganged up with outsiders to kill Wang Lun, is there any righteousness? Shi Xiu caught the adultery for his brother and forced Yang Xiong to kill his wife and fall into the grass, is there any righteousness? Wu Yong joined the gang in order to pull Lu Junyi into the gang, and designed to cause people to break up and die, is there any righteousness? In order to be loyal to the imperial court, Song Jiang personally poisoned Li Kui, who was loyal to him, and where was the righteousness?

Tell the story and watch "Dream of the Red Chamber". Does Jia Lian have feelings for Wang Xifeng? Is Baoyu strong to Daiyu? Jia Zhen cares about Youshi? That's why some people describe the relationship between husband and wife this way - "the deepest sleep, the deepest calculation!" The ancients also said, "The highest is the moon and the sun, and the closest is the estranged husband and wife." ”

Eventually, you'll find out: which one you admire the most, which one will snap in the face [smile]