I often hear a saying that the real education is actually a spelling mother. But recently it was discovered that:
It turns out that Dad can also be a good hand in education with his heart.
For example, the following one - Sun Yunxiao.
He is recognized by the State Council as an "education expert" with outstanding contributions and special allowances:
He has been engaged in the research of youth education for more than 40 years, presided over the "Tenth Five-Year" and "Eleventh Five-Year Plan" of national education science for 10 consecutive years, and published more than 20 personal monographs.
He is the "Walking Tutor's Code":
Not only has it brought far-reaching changes to tens of thousands of families, but also personally cultivated an excellent daughter, with a cheerful personality, admitted to Fudan, and properly studied. After graduation, he was sent to Japan as a foreign correspondent, and because of his outstanding work achievements, he won the Youth May Fourth Medal.
Even his and his daughter's book "The Boy Who Met Literature Is Wonderful" was selected for the "China Children's Book List".
A famous quote by Japanese writer Kotaro Isaka has touched countless parents:
The thought of parents not having to go through exams makes it terrifying.
Everyone is a parent for the first time, they are all "unlicensed", how did Sun Yunxiao do it?
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Maybe you haven't heard Sun Yunxiao's name, but you may have seen his books, such as: "Habits Determine the Fate of Children", "Good Relationships Are Better Than Many Educations", "Cultivating a Real Person", "Five-Yuan Tutoring Method - A Compulsory Course for Good Parents", "Children, You Have Infinite Possibilities" and so on.
In the past 40 years of education, Sun Yunxiao has published more than 20 personal monographs and sold more than 1 million copies.
These best-selling works have also won various national honorary certifications such as the China Book Award, the National "Five Ones Project" Excellent Book Award, and the National Excellent Bestseller Award.
According to the China Social Science Network, behind a series of achievements, he is still:
In 1999, he was commended by the State Council as an expert in educational scientific research with outstanding contributions;
In 2000, he was awarded the title of "National Outstanding Child Worker Pacesetter" by the Working Committee on Women and Children of the State Council;
Researcher of China Youth Research Center, Chief Expert of Family Education;
Executive Vice Chairman of the Family Education Professional Committee of the China Education Association;
Adjunct Professor, Beijing Normal University;
In 2008, he was selected as "China's Education Figure" in the 30 years of reform and opening up;
For 10 consecutive years, he has presided over the national education science "Tenth Five-Year" and "Eleventh Five-Year Plan" projects;
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Over the past few decades, Sun Yunxiao has been interviewed by dozens of well-known media such as People's Daily, Guangming Daily, China Youth Daily, New Weekly, Sanlian Life Weekly, Lookout, Southern Weekend, People's Forum, Modern Education Daily, People Weekly, Qianjiang Evening News, Beijing News, Liberation Daily, etc., and has published more than 200 special reports.
His range of educational philosophies and methods has influenced tens of millions of families.
There are thousands of education experts, why do everyone love Sun Yunxiao?
That's because Sun Yunxiao's educational philosophy and methods can always receive miraculous results.
Listen to the story of Sun Yunxiao and his daughter, and maybe you will be inspired.
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To talk about Sun Yunxiao's greatest achievement, it is that he really did a good job in the role of a father.
At one time, like many parents, he racked his brains at educating his children.
When his daughter was 11 years old, once she did not come home at more than 9 o'clock in the evening, Sun Yunxiao, who was very worried, found his daughter wandering on the street, and he rushed up angrily and pushed his daughter to a toe.
The daughter cried on the spot.
Sun Yunxiao immediately regretted it.
Unexpectedly, when he came home at night, his daughter posted two notes on the door of his study, which read, "No hitting anyone!" "Against violence!"
At that time, Sun Yunxiao suddenly realized that her daughter had grown up and had entered adolescence, and if he could not give good understanding and respect, it would have a very bad impact on her daughter's psychological growth.
Since then, Sun Yunxiao has paid great attention to her daughter's mental health, deliberately changed the way she got along with her daughter, and fully supported her dreams and choices.
For example, when her daughter graduated from elementary school at the age of 12, she hoped to enter a special middle school to learn Japanese, and her mother, who came from a Japanese major, clearly opposed it, believing that the narrow use of Japanese affected development, but Sun Yunxiao understood and supported her daughter's choice, and firmly believed that learning Japanese well had a great future.
Later, her daughter studied Japanese for six years in junior high school and high school, and after graduating from college, she not only realized her dream of becoming a professional journalist, but also was sent to Japan as a foreign correspondent, and won the Youth May Fourth Medal for her outstanding work achievements.
In the book "Meeting the Wonderful Youth of Literature", co-authored by Sun Yunxiao and her daughter, the daughter wrote in the book:
Throughout my family education, I think my father did the best thing to give me freedom.
The major decisions in my life were basically made by myself, and my father gave me strong support.
Although I have been away from home for many years, at the critical moments of my life, my father can always give me truth-like advice and point out the direction of my life.
In the most ignorant time, I would still choose to ask my father.
Sun Yunxiao's education method not only let his daughter be shrouded in the aura of "other people's children" from an early age, but also helped 10,000+ parents who encountered educational problems to help their children grow up healthily and realize their ideals in life.
Even the famous CCTV children's host "Ju Ping Sister" has also praised Sun Yunxiao's educational philosophy.
There was once a mother, in order to let her son win at the starting line, specially let him enroll in school a year in advance, did not expect that her son could not keep up at all, and was once particularly inferior in school.
Sun Yunxiao told the mother: the language ability of a 5-year-old boy is equivalent to that of a 3-and-a-half-year-old girl, and the language ability of a boy may also lag behind that of a girl in primary school by about a year.
Therefore, the vast majority of boys are not suitable for schooling earlier than the age of 6, and if they go to school a year later, it may be more conducive to development.
"Growth and education are regular, and this law must be respected."
The mother accepted the teacher's advice and finally asked her son to transfer to the first grade.
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In fact, whether it is a child of a celebrity family or a child of an ordinary family, in the beginning, it is essentially no different.
As long as you trace the source a little, you will find that behind any outstanding child, there are parents with intentions.
Remember Wu Yishu, the "national talented woman" who once brushed up on the circle of friends?
In 2017, Wu Yishu won the overall championship of the second season of "Poetry Conference" with a solid foundation in poetry.
She exported a chapter in the program, a beautiful and gentle appearance, and her strength proved what is called "poetry and bookish self-glorification in the belly".
You know, Wu Yishu, who was born in 2001, was only 16 years old when she won the championship!
Looking back at her growth history, from childhood to adulthood, Wu Yishu seems to have always been a super scholarly existence:
Before graduating from junior high school, because he learned Chinese poetry well, he was recruited in advance by the Affiliated Middle School of Fudan University;
In his second year of high school, he was invited to participate in the Qinghuaxia Camp, and also received extra points from the Tsinghua University Leadership Program and the promise of "admission as long as the college entrance examination reaches one line".
It is said that only 2 students in Shanghai have obtained this special enrollment quota.
In 2019, Wu Yishu ranked 65th among Shanghai candidates with a total score of 613 points in science, and was admitted to The Xinya College of Tsinghua University and entered the jiuzi class.
Yes, this talented woman who came out of the circle with poetry turned out to be a top-achieving science student!
In fact, Wu Yishu is from an ordinary family, and the reason why she can achieve such excellent results in this series is directly related to the companionship and dedication of her parents and the learning atmosphere of the family.
Wu Yishu was not born excellent.
Before entering junior high school, Wu Yishu's parents did not have any awareness of educating their children, so the result of such a "free range" was that at that time, Wu Yishu's junior high school enrollment results were the lowest in the school.
This made her parents realize the seriousness of the problem and quickly adopted a series of "accompanying school measures".
The parents studied a large number of educational books and methods, realized that there was a problem with their original education methods, and customized a set of "tutoring policies" for their daughters.
To increase the knowledge reserve, to win at the starting line.
The most valuable thing is that they do not verbally say that They let Wu Yishu learn, but accompany the children to learn together.
Take your daughter to read famous books and read stories;
The family often plays the game of "poetry solitaire" at home, and whoever loses will do housework;
The most admirable thing is that Wu Yishu's father no longer uses his mobile phone after 4:30 pm every day and concentrates on accompanying his children to grow up and learn.
This is truly effective companionship.
Since then, Wu Yishu's grades have quickly improved to the top ten of her grade, and she has a series of amazing results.
Wu Yishu's mother also said in an interview that true education, parents are very important.
If you want to harvest a good child, you must first become a good parent.
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At present, more and more parents after the 80s and 90s have realized the importance of family education.
Just by knowing, "Which parents have you seen amazed at your way of education," there were 140 million views.
In order to help more families and parents learn scientific family education concepts and methods, this time, teacher Sun Yunxiao condensed his years of educational achievements into a set of "36 Family Education General Education Classes Required by Chinese Parents", and the children's growth enlightenment period, sensitive period, rebellious period, and problems that occur during adolescence can be found here.
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