Women have a natural disadvantage in physical condition that cannot be compensated for by general exercise. Therefore, men in society are extremely sensitive to women's domestic violence, and their tolerance is almost zero, so they always criticize men's shortcomings. Similarly, women hitting men is also easy to ignore, which also reflects the characteristics of women's delicate body and softness.
But in the face of male violence, many women rebel out of panic, but this useless resistance sometimes increases the probability of injury or even loss of life. However, seeing a woman's approach on Weibo not only makes people admire her calmness and wisdom, but also maximizes her safety at that time, and even takes measures to restore her legitimate rights and interests later.
After Chen Yan (pseudonym) married her husband, she has been working the night shift, most of the time she is asleep before returning, she has long been accustomed to Chen Yan, and on the same day in the middle of the night, she heard someone come back, and then the door opened. Chen Yan did not think much about continuing to sleep, thinking that she was still her husband.
After this man came in, he had a relationship with Chen Yan. Later, Chen Yan turned on the lamp and found that the man next to him was not a husband at all, but a stranger he had never seen before.
At that time, in addition to Chen Yan, there were also their daughters in the family. Chen Yan immediately calmed down, neither shouting nor resisting, but looking at the stranger politely. The strange man saw that Chen Yan did not resist for the first time and gave up the idea of hurting her. After the meeting, he only made a request to Chen Yan, that is, to add WeChat to the other party, and Chen Yan also cleverly agreed to add the other party's friend.
After the man left satisfactorily, Chen Yan immediately called the police, and the police quickly found the man through WeChat. However, the man said Chen Yan did not resist the whole process, believing that she acted "completely voluntarily" and believing that she was innocent, but the evidence was conclusive and he did not need to defend it.
The man's behavior was undoubtedly illegal, and after Chen Yan found out, he was likely to continue to hurt Chen Yan and even her daughter. However, Chen Yan did not resist, but chose to obey and calm this person's restless heart with the greatest patience and perseverance, so that he would not hurt others again.
Maybe this kind of Chen Yan surprised men, so they thought of adding WeChat, Chen Yan did not hesitate to add WeChat, so she judged that she would definitely not resist, and then she could do whatever she wanted, but she did not expect that Chen Yan was not a lamb to be slaughtered, and finally let the man bring him to justice.
In fact, such things happen a lot in society, but the results are different. Ms. Weng of Harbin was forced to have sex with a strange man. Ms. Weng immediately resisted and was brutally murdered by a strange man. At the same time, she also killed the parents of Ms. Weng, who later returned home. However, this strange man is actually not yet 18 years old. He was such an underage teenager. Adult women are not opponents. Later, the teenager kept saying, "As long as she doesn't resist, I won't kill her." ”。 Not long ago, I also read a post in Zhihu, a girl who practiced sanda and taekwondo for 8 years and even won many awards. She felt great. Once she saw a young gangster bullying a female classmate on the side of the school, and she immediately stopped her with a sense of justice. However, she was kicked to the ground by the, and she was beaten to the point where her nose was blue and her face was swollen. Finally, left satisfied. After that, the girl refused to practice taekwondo again.
While this is not to say that taekwondo is useless, there is no doubt that there is a huge gap between men and women's physical fitness. Women who have been practicing for many years like girls are not opponents of men, let alone opponents of ordinary women.
Therefore, when there is danger, girls choose short-term obedience is the best way, which can reduce the maximum secondary harm, and finally there will be laws to help you.
In addition, girls should also remember a few points:
First, lock the door when you live alone, and don't let strangers know that you live alone all the time.
In Chen Yan, for example, it is clear that a strange man knows that her husband often works night shifts, while Chen Yan often stays at home alone, perhaps in some casual conversation. Therefore, it is necessary to strengthen the awareness of prevention, always create the illusion of many people in the house, or lock the door chain, do not disturb, but to ensure safety.
Second, try to take the dangerous and unfamiliar road as little as possible, and don't give the bad guys a chance.
The road traveled by a very small number of people provides convenience for the bad guys to use their brains, and women should try to avoid taking such a night road, or if they go, they must be accompanied by acquaintances and do not give the bad guys a chance.
Third, don't panic when you encounter trouble, and treat it calmly
Chen Yan's behavior provides a way for all women to think. Now that it has happened, they must calm down, not for themselves, but also for the sake of their children. Therefore, when the danger is still there, we must never resist, let the other party be angry, and obey the other party's orders. At the same time, it is necessary to grasp the information of the other party as much as possible and provide evidence for the follow-up alarm.
As a woman, when it comes to defending her own interests, the body's resistance is not as good as wisdom. Perhaps there was a way to decide her own life and death and the safety of the people she loved most. There is no need to lose her happy life for the sake of a sinner. Know that there will be laws to punish him afterwards.