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Zhang Xiaoxian once said, "The greatest harm a man can do to a woman is not necessarily that he is in love with someone else." It was he who let her down when she had something to expect. ”
What disappoints a woman is never a certain thing, but a small thing, a joke you think, a word you don't take to heart.
It will make her accumulate disappointment, so when a woman jokes with you, you must not think that this is a joke, and men's jokes often hide her sincerity.
And she is embarrassed or afraid to tell you directly, so she can only use the way of jokes to secretly provoke you to hint at you, when a woman makes the following three jokes on you, men should understand that your fate is coming.
First, if we can't find an object all the time, we can make it up
Because it is not you, I will never settle, because it is you, I am willing to do!
I often hear friends around me make such jokes, and when you reach a certain age, you are not married and I am not married, it is better for the two of us to get together, so don't harm other people.
If a girl says this to you, in the form of a very casual joke, you should never think that she is joking seriously.
In fact, she is seriously confessing to you, wanting to know your opinion, wanting to know in your heart, whether you are possible together.
On the surface, she looks like she has no waves, as if she is still a little reluctant, but in fact, her heart is also very worried, afraid, and entangled.
I even regret saying this sentence to you a little, afraid that you don't understand, afraid that you understand and pretend not to understand, and even more afraid that you will directly reject her, and may not even be able to do it with your friends.
If, as a guy, you really think guys are joking with you, then you need to reflect on why you're single.
No girl will casually joke about her life's events, and what you think is casual, it may be that she loves to open her mouth and considers the brave act after a long time.
The reason why women joke back is that they hope that you will understand her implications, understand her thoughts, and then tell her what you think, maybe you are together.
Second, why don't you understand? Elm head one
When a woman, if she is not interested in your things, moods and everything, and everything you have does not affect her emotions in the slightest, it can only mean that she does not love you and has no thoughts about you, which is why it will be like this.
If a woman has you in her heart and all you care about, your every move will affect her emotions.
Remember "Please Answer 1988", once Deok-sun and his friend went to eat KFC, and the friend hoped that Deok-sun could call a friend, and finally offered to call Jeong-hwan.
Deok Sun said that Jeong Hwan's temperament would definitely not come, but he didn't expect Jeong Hwan to not only come, but invited them to eat a hamburger, and said that he thought that Deok Sun was the only one, so he would come.
When Deok-sun and Jeong-hwan go back to the door, Deok-sun always thinks that he is Jeong-hwan's guardian angel, so Jeong-hwan returns.
As a result, Jeong-hwan says that his guardian angel is Aze, and Deok-san asks you why did you come? Why did you come?
Zheng Huan touched Deshan's head with anger and laughter, and said in a tone of hatred for iron and steel, use your elm head to think about it, why I came.
In fact, both men and women, when she says this sentence, she must love you, I hope you can think about it, her feelings for you, and not always do not understand.
Because the sentence itself contains a certain amount of childishness, women only talk like this to someone they really like and depend on.
When a man hears a woman say it, he should understand that the woman is sending a signal of good feelings to you, and you must grasp it well.
Third, friends said that we are two like lovers, what kind of vision do they have
"Today I heard someone say that we are two like lovers, do you say that we are two like each other?" "My friends sometimes say that we are too similar, like old husbands and wives have lived together for a long time", I really don't know what their vision is, how can I see you, what do you think?
Some people say that the two of you are like lovers, and the woman's first reaction is to secretly sneak joy, she is both happy to hear others say this, and feel that you are not really lovers to make herself very unhappy, so she will want to know what you think.
If you feel for her when she says this to you, you look at her seriously and quietly, and then say, "I think we are a good match, Obu, let's be together, fulfill their wishes."
Hearing you say this, girls will be particularly excited and excited, and will definitely agree to you.
Women don't joke casually, and they don't open it to anyone, if it's for a guy who doesn't have any feelings, don't say it's a joke, she may not be too lazy to talk to you.
So, if a woman makes the above three jokes about you, if you are also intentional, it is better to seize the opportunity and bravely speak your heart, and the love you expect will come, after all, love sometimes really needs courage.
Above all, encourage!
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