Speaking of this topic, I actually have a lot to say, because I have witnessed the changes in my mother.
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On holidays or during breaks, I plan to take my mother out for a walk. According to my mother's meaning, when I am tired of shopping, I will go home to cook and eat, so as not to spend money outside. So, ordered a meal, from sitting down to eating, has been nagging that this cost a lot of money, I said the point is to take you to taste the outside food, we are not often out, enjoy our time together is not better?
I definitely want you to be happy, I hope you like it, but you keep talking about me, making me feel as if I have done something very wrong. Then my mother said yes, and sure enough, I didn't say it a few times. Although the expression has betrayed her hahaha, and then after a few times it has an effect, and also discussed with me that this is delicious, that is not delicious. I thought it was worth it.
You see this is a change, I don't want her toil for a lifetime, only know to give, and always ignore herself.
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Looking back on it now, my scalp tingles. My mother has been working hard for the first half of her life, and there is no jewelry on her body, and I have always wanted to save money to buy her a necklace.
Like most mothers in China, if you say buy something for her, you will definitely receive a "scolding" first. Of course, this is not a real scolding, but a heartache for the child, worried that you spend money indiscriminately.
So before going out, I didn't explain it, but directly took her to go shopping; just walked to the door of the store, she immediately turned around to leave, of course, I can't let her go, busy advising: let's see first, don't buy first.
By trying it on, I chose one, I went to pay, and as a result, my mother turned her head and pulled me away, not letting me pay, and really quarreled at the door of the store, I also felt embarrassed, but I made up my mind to buy it. So no matter what my mother said, I still paid the money, I said if you don't want to wear it, then put it at home, and throw it away if it doesn't help, buy it for you, and dispose of it as you like.
Later, it was really fragrant, and it has been worn until now, for six or seven years. Hahaha, I finally succeeded, thinking, this is really not easy.
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I often heard my mother talk about the scene when the whole village gathered together to watch the big open-air movie when she was a child; when I recalled these things, I thought she was very happy, because she spoke in great detail, her expression was rich, her hands danced, and her tone of voice increased several times. I thought at the time: I must take my mother to the cinema to see a movie when I have the opportunity, so that she can feel the progress of science and technology now.
As before, at first I was still opposed, but I said that the ticket had been bought, and it would be wasteful not to go. Maybe the movie was not selected well, at that time, when Nezha was released, everyone said it was good, I took my mother to go, the result, to see is finished, after watching my mother's first sentence is: how do you take me to watch cartoons? A helpless look.
Heaven and earth conscience, I thought it was good to go. Also blame me, I really didn't choose well. It is better to choose some films that have more resonance with parents. I thought: Next time it's not good to flicker, this head is not open well.
However, at my insistence, I saw the Chinese captain again. This time, the whole process was watched, and the plot and characters were also discussed. However, when I saw the more thrilling scenes, I said that I didn't want to take a plane in the future.
Then the most recent time was last year's New Year's Eve when everyone got together and went to see Detective Chinatown, and this time it was even more extraordinary: falling asleep.
Aaaah, I really stepped on thunder everywhere.
Has anyone been able to recommend some movies that are more suitable for my parents to watch?
To sum up: although I stepped on the thunder everywhere, in terms of mentality, it was enough to see my mother's changes, from the initial opposition to the discussion of the plot to go to the theater also felt very normal, and I happily shared the movie with relatives and friends during the New Year.
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In the past few years, the family had a heavy burden, and for a while my mother worked more than two jobs and three jobs to maintain the expenses. Although it has been in Suzhou for many years, it is very rare to go out to play, at most, when I go to nearby temples or some scenic spots during the New Year, I have not been out of Suzhou.
So one year, GuoQing and my sister took my mother to Hangzhou to play.
The NEW WHITE LADY THIS TV SERIES SHOULD BE A LOT OF PEOPLE'S CHILDHOOD MEMORIES, MY MOTHER IS OBSESSED WITH IT, SO I TOOK HER TO HANGZHOU LEIFENG PAGODA TO TURN AROUND, TAKE A BOAT CRUISE, AND WATCH THE SHOW.
Although the process is also tired and there are many people, it is on this trip that I found that my mother took pictures very cute, and it was especially cool to wear sunglasses. I saw my mother, who was different from usual, and later used as an avatar.
Mom is also a young girl over, looking at the white hair of the two sideburns now, in fact, I can't say what it tastes in my heart, I hope that time can be slower, slower.
There are also many places planned for us to play together in the future. It is really not easy to cultivate the relatives of this life, and I am truly grateful to meet them.
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I wanted to buy a massage chair for a long time, but I didn't know what kind of storm this time would usher in, but when the goods arrived, I was still at work, I thought I had "escaped the disaster", but I still received a phone bombing.
The mother often has back pain, all of which are old problems, and often use some earthenware, such as massaging the back with vegetable oil, and every time the back turns red, it will relieve some fatigue and pain.
So I also considered buying back this tool, not on a whim.
Now my mother leaves work every day, and the first thing she does is to sit in the massage chair and press it for half an hour, sometimes for an hour or two. I said yes or no, and she said it had an effect every time, although I knew there was an ingredient that comforted me.
When I was writing a text, I realized that my mother had not used the earthwork for almost a year. Hahaha, especially happy. I thought it was worth it.
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Once when I was applying a mask, my mother suddenly said: Is it useful for you, give me a mask too. So I hurried to act, but when you really acted, she said that she was just asking, then I can take it seriously, so now we have a hydrating mask for three days.
Once I overheard my mother talk about their colleagues who were smearing what on their faces, and I thought to myself, how did we not pay attention to my mother's needs before, because of the years of running, but I did not maintain myself at all, and there were obvious wrinkles and spots on my face.
So on my mother's birthday, I bought her a set of skin care products, this time was not said Oh, maybe it has been a victory in the struggle for so long, but also this time finally bought a good heart, or the mother is also taking the initiative to change, the specific reason I do not quite understand. Also asked me about the order of this skincare and what to note.
Two days ago, planting trees bought me free snacks hahaha, I think she should have a sense of accomplishment in this matter. In June, I also posted a circle of friends, as follows:
When writing this article, I also deliberately went to look at the photos we took over the years, recalling the scene after scene, really or more satisfied, do not think that parents do not need to do it, in fact, need to guide.
The generation gap can not exist, and now we can talk about current affairs news at any time, sometimes we know it earlier than we do.
I used to think that when I had money, I would be sure to honor them when I had time, and then take them out to play and do certain things. In fact, time is not waiting for people, after all, people's life expectancy is limited, I only hope that we can have no regrets every day.
I also wish all partners a happy, happy and healthy family!
Well, today Zhao Zhao's sharing is over, see you in the next issue