Long time. The longest love is family affection!
What makes people hate to give up is also family affection!
What is not worth nostalgia for is also family affection!
When I came home that day to listen to my mother, my sister-in-law (the eldest uncle's own daughter-in-law) sat in the crowd and pulled the parents, saying that my mother urgently needed a lot of money to see a doctor.
Mother borrowed from her, borrowed from uncle, our uncle called (big)
In the blink of an eye, some kind old people of the same age as their mother came to the house to nag, and asked their mother: "Your family Ah Zhen sat in the pile of people and said that you borrowed money from her, borrowed money from her a lot, is there such a thing as low?" It is said that there are still a lot of borrowings. ”
At that time, my mother also felt that she was a sewage, and she would not open her mouth to borrow money from her family in this life, and it was impossible to spend money on the share of borrowing money.
When I got home, my mother said she didn't say anything at all. My sister-in-law deliberately threatened in the street, afraid that my mother would open her mouth to borrow money from her.
It is not that family affection cannot be linked to money, but that money dominates the purity of family affection.
My mother also said that when I came to the house, I mentioned that my sister-in-law also said some light words in front of him.
I suddenly felt as if something had nothing to do with money.
It's that we are not needed in other people's lives.
The eldest brother was the adopted son of the great uncle, and when the great uncle had no children under his knees, he bought the eldest brother from the traffickers. The 8-year-old brother is naughty and not easy to raise.
At that time, it was still a big pot of rice, a large family of ten people, living a hard life of lack of clothes and food.
At that time, the mother did not raise children, and was particularly kind to the eldest brother, treating her own biological children.
Qiji will always treat the poor and poor, send surprises to the darkness, and let the warm sunshine bathe the hopeless heart.
Perhaps it was the arrival of the eldest brother that comforted the pain of the uncle and aunt not being able to have children, and they had a clue to life.
As the saying goes: "People are in good spirits when they are happy." ”
Later, the big mother became pregnant again, and such a big happy event can only be experienced by women who are similar to the big mother.
When you have your own flesh and blood, it means the beginning of the prosperity of the family.
The anxiety of not being able to conceive can make a woman humble to the point of self-esteem.
Not to mention the patriarchal preference in the past...
Since then, the family has been immersed in the joy of having a son, and they have distanced themselves from the eldest brother.
After the eldest mother gave birth to her own son, she did not ask questions about the eldest brother, and was often snubbed and had the idea of not wanting the eldest brother.
When the mother saw the eldest brother, she was very distressed about the eldest brother, carrying the eldest brother to play, work, and make food. In the cold winter, the hot kang is burned, telling stories to the big brother, and coaxing the big brother to sleep.
After the uncle had the idea of sending the eldest brother away, he was also forced by life. People in that era only wanted to eat and wear warmth.
The family has increased the population, life is more difficult, the mother is more pitiful to the big brother, for a few years always good to bear the big brother's food and clothing.
The eldest brother was naturally naughty, graduated from the fourth grade of primary school, and did not go to school again.
Father took the eldest brother to learn carpentry, has a craft, and has no worries about his livelihood. The eldest brother is naughty and does not go to school, and he will not even do a small bench for three years of carpentry.
With the days of poverty, ten years of time, the eldest brother is also 18 years old, Li Zhi wants to rely on memory to go back to his biological parents, to break into the world, mixed with a personal appearance.
Otherwise, never come back to see your adoptive parents. Facts have proved that the big brother is destined to be the material for business, and the big boss is the only one who is in charge.
Everything in the world, under the quiet of the years.
Life has generally improved, and the eldest brother who has a successful career has not forgotten the kindness of his parents, and he has come back to see his uncle every three to five years, and he has not forgotten to bring gifts to his parents.
In the past few years, the parents and parents in the family have been suffering from patients, and the treatment cost is scarce, so they borrowed 10,000 yuan from the eldest brother.
We also paid back to the eldest brother, but the father passed away, and the eldest brother has not accepted it, leaving the mother alone.
The eldest brother also confessed that he should be filial to his mother, and he did not want it.
There is no return in the family.
My sister-in-law doesn't know what she is thinking? And to the big one, how many years has my mother owed my eldest brother ten thousand yuan? The eldest brother and the eldest sister-in-law live together, and this money sister-in-law also knows.
Always owe it or not? My sister-in-law's prejudices are bigger than those of my eldest brother and sister-in-law, and I am still dissatisfied.
The implication is that the mother does not return, which affects the husband and wife feelings of the eldest brother and sister-in-law.
After my mother spoke, I thought it was ridiculous, really ridiculous, and a proper heart machine girl.
Ask yourself, my mother is really good to this daughter-in-law of the uncle's family, my sister-in-law. But this sister-in-law is always inconsistent.
Even people feel that when talking about family affection, we must pay attention to the door, and the family affection in our lives is not close, just an appearance.
The poor cannot climb the rich's affection. Do you remember the saying "Don't forget your original intention, you have to be consistent"?
But anything that is related to money will always hurt feelings. Everything is like a smoke cloud, and like a sea of mulberry fields, disappearing without a trace.
When my mother is healthy, we will resolutely pay off this ten thousand, and we cannot owe human feelings.
Money can not be owed, on this ten thousand yuan mother has already repaid how many times, the eldest brother does not take it.
As the saying goes, "People are not poor.".
For life, regardless of what others think, our family, parents have helped the whole village all their lives.
There is no shame in dealing with people. The poor history of my parents in my heart is glorious and dazzling.
His father was a cook at a state-owned enterprise, and his mother, although illiterate, was an old party member.
He is also a village doctor, who has given injections to the whole village and participated in the militia company...
Father's meal was free for the whole village to eat. Since I know, life is righteous and generous.
The road comes out on its own, through thorns. Someone or something in the eyes of others is not what you heard, why should you be gullible?
Don't talk about other people's lives behind your back, causing irreparable consequences.
In the end, what is destroyed is only his own character, which cannot be ended well, and becomes an ironic APU in the eyes of others.
And this kind of family affection in life, clean up, away from it, is also very good.
We must learn to cherish the true feelings worth having in life!