I have read a lot of books and learned a lot of lessons, but I still have a bad life.
The writer Rousseau once said: "If we are always busy showing our knowledge, how will we remember the ignorance needed to grow?"
Nowadays, the rise of social knowledge payment is undoubtedly a wind outlet, Lei Jun once said: "Standing on the wind outlet, pigs can fly", but the vast majority of people have become the wave that follows the trend. The faster society progresses, the more likely people are to be anxious. I began to buy classes to learn in order to improve my ability to resist risks by learning more knowledge. Why did I learn a lot and still not succeed?
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Before you do something, you have to be a person
After JAL, which is full of highly educated, knowledgeable, and high-level business talents, is about to file for bankruptcy due to poor management, mr. Kazuo Inamori, the king of management, accepts it, and turns the on-the-edge bankruptcy into a profit of 188.4 billion yen.
Mr. Kazuo Inamori writes:
I started with "human nature" and told JAL managers at all levels that the revitalization of JAL would not be an impossible task if it could not win the approval of JAL's 32,000 employees. To this end, I have repeatedly warned JAL management that they must be humble, put down their posture, open their hearts to their employees, and treat each other sincerely. In an organization, if the person in the upper position lacks a noble personality and does not understand the principles of correct behavior, it is absolutely impossible to win the followers of others.
Your superiority may give many people a sense of fear, many people have learned a lot of knowledge, but they have not learned to be human. Feng Lun always had a "Grandson mentality" when starting a business at the beginning of the period, that is, to lower his mentality and maintain a humble and humble attitude. Respect others and not blame others.
When Li Ka-shing first started his business, many people were richer than him, but as he walked, Li Ka-shing became the richest man in China, and Li Ka-shing, who has such amazing wealth, usually treats people very gently, and will always arrive early on dates with others.
Meet the knowledge
Feng Lun is talking about doing things and having a "big brother posture", and the big brother posture here refers to being able to resist things, have responsibilities, and have responsibilities. Big things are difficult, look at responsibility, go along with bad times, look at the heart. Whether it is joy or anger, look at cultivation, have sacrifice and gain, look at wisdom; whether it is success or failure, look at persistence.
Feng Lun said:
Many bosses like to stand on a high place and direct their subordinates to do this and that, and there is a little inappropriate place under their hands, always splitting their heads and covering their faces and scolding non-stop.
But people with a "big brother posture" know that as managers, it is the first task to manage themselves first. As a good leader, to do "resistance" when the company encounters difficulties, can take the lead in solving, the ability to solve problems, but also often test a person's leadership ability.
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To learn, we must find the right direction and remember to blindly follow the trend
In the Taofen Anthology, it is said that the omnipotent person is really capable of nothing, and the all-encompassing expert is really nothing.
Ability is not innate, but by the day after tomorrow's efforts to obtain, now the knowledge explosion era, the development of science and technology is changing with each passing day, constantly updating knowledge, so that we can not find the goal and direction, people are more and more anxious, eager to increase skills, enhance the ability to resist risks, so many people began to learn this today, tomorrow to learn that. In the end, there is no use for anything, it is not used in practice, why?
Did not grasp the key points, blindly followed the trend, the formation of a "herd effect".
Learning the sea is endless, the vast sea of knowledge, often into the blind spot, like a ship traveling in the sea, no direction, aimless wandering, so in the 7 principles of highly effective people, a very important one is "to the end as the beginning", this goal can guide you to better move forward. Find a given direction for yourself, don't be greedy.
Premier Zhou Enlai once said: "Step up study, grasp the center, rather fine than miscellaneous, rather than specialized", in Su Shi's "Dongpo Anthology of Facts" there is such a passage: "Books are rich in the sea, and department stores are available." Man's energy cannot be taken at all, but he who wants what he wants. Therefore, I would like to learn to do it every time.
Teacher Luo Zhenyu wrote an article called "The Learning and Anxiety of Our Generation", and he talked about the fifth keyword of learning, "Goal", he said: Regardless of cost, success or failure, the pursuit of knowledge is something that professionals learn to do. But we are not, we are ordinary people, ordinary people have to face one goal after another to act. Taking action step by step to get feedback, adjusting actions, and moving on are the normal life of each and every ordinary person.
After studying for a long time, you will find that knowledge cannot change "destiny", what changes fate is "wisdom", knowledge is a small piece of sky that occasionally lights up, which is the clue we have to grasp and then act accordingly. Set a goal and pull the trigger at any time.
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When doing things, sometimes have a vixen spirit
There is a word called "Shrew Theory", the so-called "Shrew" is that there is no bottom line, the lower the bottom line, the more means; the higher the bottom line, do things to tie hands and feet, the means are naturally less.
This phenomenon is more common in the early stage of the development of the market economy, and private enterprises are still in the barbaric growth stage. "Shrew" is not afraid of losing face, or even no face, secular morality has no binding force on her, not afraid of spilling, the more people watching, the better, and what is the reaction of the "noblewoman", a look at people can not stand up, to face ah, reason, others can not hang on to the face as soon as they point, feel that they do not need to see the "shrew" in general. Soon gave up the principles and principles, put down a few dollars and left.
In today's civilized society, many people are three highs, "high education", "high INTELLIGENCE" and "high quality", but they are always in a passive position.
There is a book that says that civilization is a process of domestication, which frees people from barbarism and enters order, morality, law, and rules. The higher his moral bottom line, the more certain the rules of his conduct. I had already set the predetermined procedure in my mind, and I could only deal with external provocations in the way I was indoctrinated, and I lost my instinct. Many things are bound by face. We can't be like the Shrew without a bottom line, but when doing things, we need to have a little Shrew spirit.
Mencius said that it is better to believe in the "book" than to have no "book", the book should be read, but it must be able to read, and Mr. Lu Xun once said: Although reading books must be read, but you cannot read them deadly; is it worth it to lose your life for books? On paper, I finally feel shallow, I know that this matter must be done, and reading books must be combined with practice to read better. May we fall in love with reading, and even more so.
Welcome to meet knowledge and meet a better future with me!