In Jiangzhuang Village, Anxing Town, Mudan District, Heze City, villagers only mentioned Liu Xijian's family, saying that his ancestors had scrupulously abided by the ancient precept of "home and everything", and that their ancestors and neighbors lived in harmony with their neighbors. Liu Xijian was influenced by the ancestral family style and family teaching, and now, Liu Xijian's family is in the same house for four generations, living in harmony, happiness and happiness. This made the neighbors envious and praised.
Liu Xijian and his wife Chen Aimei are both in their 60s, and they respect each other like guests. In order to let the son and daughter-in-law do a good job, they took the initiative to take care of their grandchildren and granddaughters, and took great care of their grandchildren. They insist on leading by example for their grandchildren, teaching them by example, teaching them to respect the elderly and love their children, be diligent and thrifty, and treat others politely. He also tells stories to his grandchildren every day, does handicrafts, teaches children's songs, memorizes ancient poems, etc., so that they can thrive and learn knowledge in happiness and happiness. Every day when her son and daughter-in-law return home from work in the factory, Chen Aimei will say affectionately: "Are you tired after a day of work?" Come to the house to rest, wash your face, drink a glass of water, and I'll cook. "In 2017, Chen Aimei suffered from varicose veins in her legs, had difficulty walking, and needed to be hospitalized for surgery after being examined by doctors. When going through the hospitalization procedures, the daughters-in-law scramble to pay for medical procedures. After the operation, the daughters-in-law took turns to accompany the mother-in-law, washed her face and hair, and washed and bought food. Doctors and nurses praised Chen Aimei's daughter-in-law.
After Chen Aimei was discharged from the hospital, she was raised at home, and her daughters-in-law took care of her meticulously. It was not until they fully recovered that the daughters-in-law returned to work. Every holiday, the son and daughter-in-law rush home to visit the elderly, either to buy clothes for the elderly, or to bring back a variety of special foods, to accompany the elderly to talk, pull, watch TV. Usually, Chen Aimei is always idle at home, she grows some corn, soybeans, seasonal vegetables and garlic in the courtyard. Then some vegetables such as snow red, carrots, leek flowers, etc., which can be pickled, washed, dried, chopped, put into large-opening glass bottles, pickled into pickles, as long as the sons and daughters-in-law come home, let them bring one or two bottles back to each family. This seems to be a small and inconspicuous thing, but over time, the relationship between the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law has become closer.
Li Fengling, member of the Jiangzhuang Village CPC Committee and director of women's affairs, said in front of Chen Aimei: "Big Mother, your two daughters-in-law are from Anhui, and they are so filial to you, you are really happy." Chen Aimei said proudly: "The two daughters-in-law are my intimate little cotton jackets, although they are not girlfriends, they are better than girls, and when the daughter-in-law comes to my family, she is a family." The daughter-in-law has filial piety to me, and I should let the daughter-in-law feel the warmth of the family at all times. ”
Filial piety is precious in the heart, and you are persistent. Respecting the elderly and loving the elderly, what is needed is a sense of truth and realism, and what is needed is the warmth of the heart. Liu Xijian and his wife, while taking good care of their grandchildren and granddaughters and handling the relationship between daughters and daughters-in-law, also have to take care of their 80-year-old father. Because Liu Xijian's brothers and sisters have their own family affairs, they basically do not return to their hometown at other times except for going home on weekends and holidays, so Liu Xijian and his wife asked their father to eat and live with them. Liu Xijian's father is a retired teacher, who likes to read books and newspapers and loves calligraphy, so Liu Xijian went to the stationery store to buy pens, ink and paper, and went to the post office to subscribe to newspapers and magazines, so that his father could rely on the old, raise the old, have fun, live a full life, have taste, and enjoy the joy of the world.
As the saying goes: a neighbor gets along well, it's better than picking up a treasure. Liu Xijian and his wife and neighbors get along harmoniously, unite and help each other, and whose family needs help when they have something to do, they respond to every request. Liu Xijian said: "Being a neighbor with others and being a neighbor with kindness can we live and work in peace and contentment and live happily." In fact, the concept of neighbors is very simple, that is, mutual help, trust, understanding and tolerance. These loud words expressed the philosophy of life in harmony between neighbors.
"The civilized family style passed down from generation to generation by Liu Xijian's family has deeply affected the growth of generation after generation." Liu Haibo, secretary of the party branch of Jiangzhuang Village, said with emotion that their family is a family of scholars, which not only carries the hopes of the ancestors for future generations, but also spurs on future generations, but also embodies the fine traditions of the Chinese nation. Their family interprets the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation with practical actions to become a good example for neighbors to learn.